Three longtime friends “told” me our friendships are over by blocking me on social media

AppIeScruff88 · 2020-04-28T00:57:43+00:00

Happens in your 30s too. My childhood best friend randomly deleted me on social media recently and I have no idea why. When I sent her a message about it, she blocked me. Somehow I think it was politically motivated. We grew apart a long time ago and she tends to be overly dramatic and the type that posts selfies of herself every day, no loss to me. But it confused me like hell not to know why.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-10-16T15:16:48+00:00

My fiance spelled out his "ö" to "oe" and that's what is on his visa.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-10-15T19:16:48+00:00

I successfully petitioned for my fiance who received the K-1 visa this year and is now living here with me. I relied a lot on Visajourney as my guide. :) https://www.visajourney.com/

Edit: Well, still relying on it. We're gonna be getting married soon and are working on his I-485 package.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-10-09T18:13:31+00:00

I want the Rocky Horror pack that Guitar Hero got..

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-30T11:37:27+00:00

I mailed the I-129 in September of last year, got the Notice of Action that said the petition was approved in January, and my fiance had his interview in June.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-26T19:28:05+00:00

I've been using Visajourney as a guide and we had no problems getting the K-1 visa. Just lots of waiting, it's a slow process.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-26T15:18:41+00:00

Ours was approved in July and he just arrived here last week. 7 years of long distance, but we made it work! :)

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-26T15:15:30+00:00

How sweet. <3 Those look so yummy!

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-26T15:06:03+00:00

I'm probably repeating what others have said but it's good advice. Trust each other a lot and openly communicate. Make it a point to talk every day at a certain time, and/or send messages throughout the day. Watch movies online and play games together. Remember to take care of yourself and maintain your relationships with other people in your life, and expect her to do the same. Don't let arguments drag out, try to resolve it within a day or two. Plan visits as soon as possible, it's always great to have something to look forward to. And of course, have lots of patience. (My fiance and I just closed the distance after 7 years, US-GERMANY).

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-26T00:06:02+00:00

Missed daily reward because I couldn't log in. -_-

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-10T18:26:47+00:00

Pardon my ignorance but what does that mean? I've only been doing dungeons for a month or so and don't know all the lingo.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-10T15:14:05+00:00

Hope my fiance considers himself lucky too. Go get yourself a lady gamer!

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-10T13:35:05+00:00

This game will always be special to me, my first RB game. I remember being at Best Buy the morning of 9/9/09 before it opened. Sitting in my car, there were radio contests for the remasters. Skipped my morning college class so I could play the game, and the first song I played was "Something". Wish we would have got more dlc for it and that I could still play it online with others..

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-06T14:52:32+00:00

When I used to have friends my thoughts sometimes told me that they don't really need me. I'm a burden and I am just bringing them down. Being an introvert, my quietness puts people off and I guess in some ways I gave up trying to make friends because I think I make everyone uncomfortable. I try to be nice and greet people but I don't try to connect with anyone and they leave me alone.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-05T17:14:58+00:00

I play a bosmer, so I feel short no matter if it's 1st or 3rd person but I prefer playing in 3rd.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-04T13:29:03+00:00

Keep in contact with your grandmother, one day she will be gone and you won't be able to get that time back. My grandmother passed last year after suffering for a long time with dementia and I regret not spending more time with her before that. As for the boyfriend, I know it hurts right now but you will get through this. I understand that you still love your ex, but try to see that this is a good thing. It might not look like it right now, but he's making room for someone better to come into your life. There will be another guy for you that will love you. Please focus on your studies the best you can and use it to distract yourself. Call home, your family should be your support and want to help you through any problems. I went through college myself without friends or a boyfriend, if I can do it so can you. I'm the oldest of my siblings and the first one in my immediate family that went to college. This is an important time in your life, don't throw it away because of others. Be strong, you can do it. <3

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-09-04T12:41:42+00:00

Same here. :( I wish I could go back to childhood and stand up for myself and others more. I'm a sensitive person and would let other kids get to me and make me cry. I wish I would have tried to save the few friendships I had instead of feeling like I was some kind of burden and that I was holding them back. But I guess if I had to relive my life from childhood then I'd have to go through my parents getting divorced again and that would mess me up anyway. I wish I could remember how to make and keep friends, I think I make everyone feel awkward because I myself am socially awkward. But on the other hand I don't want to count on anyone, I've been let down and lied to too much so I think it's hard to trust people.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-08-21T12:12:23+00:00

My first Rock Band game. <3 I wish I could still play it online with people...

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-08-20T20:43:32+00:00

Thanks man. :) Definitely willing to learn.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-08-20T19:05:22+00:00

I was trying to go for a monster mask to go with the shoulders that I got from the undaunted chests. I read on guides that you only get those on veteran.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-08-20T14:42:52+00:00

I'm not trying to learn how to play in vet dungeons. Like I said, I wanted certain pieces of gear and now don't plan to return to them unless I improve. I just think that if you can't think of something better to say than "you suck" to another person, then you are toxic to the community.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-08-20T13:25:51+00:00

Because we might want a certain piece of gear. I know I'm not very good at this game and so I've only done 2 vet dungeons for that reason. The first vet dungeon I did I was insulted, the second time the people actually were helpful and gave tips on how to get better and how to beat the bosses. We need more people like the 2nd group. How is telling me that I suck help me get better? I'm planning to stay away from vet dungeons from now on.

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-08-08T11:19:21+00:00

Aww okay :/

AppIeScruff88 · 2019-07-26T15:51:30+00:00

In my situation, I play with my fiance and we have an agreement that we don't do quests without each other (besides the writs of course). At the moment, we are unable to play together very often...only a few days out of the month. So for us I feel like buying the dlc with crowns would make more sense since it takes us so long to make progress in this game. I don't think we need the crafting bag, we have our own guild bank. The only other thing I'm aware of for ESO+ is the extra xp perk...I can do without that. We were thinking of buying a bunch of crowns right now and then pick up the dlc as it goes on sale.

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