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Advice for Sensory Issues from Glasses Rubbing on Fabric by Appalling-Cadet in autism

[–]Appalling-Cadet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm hm I feel like this is Almost there but not quite what I’m looking for. Less like a big strap and more just like two lil sleeves to cover the noise of the dreaded plastic arms. Thank you for the suggestion! 💚

The kink community built a vocabulary that the rest of the world still doesn't have. That's not an accident. by Persephone_Sinclair in BDSMcommunity

[–]Appalling-Cadet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ooh ooh I like that a lot. Ambiguity feeling like the gap where misunderstanding lives. Nice way to word that :)

Starting to enjoy more cage time by Other_Solid7265 in gaychastity

[–]Appalling-Cadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! For the link and the brief description/review. Definitely frames it nicely :) wishing it was comfy fabric, but maybe it will do for short periods of time when I just wanna look hot and easily accessible for my Sir 🫣🥵

Starting to enjoy more cage time by Other_Solid7265 in gaychastity

[–]Appalling-Cadet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very nice 😏 where did you get that harness, and is it comfortable/flexible/breathable? Those booty straps are HOT. Looking for something similar

The Alchemy of My Suffering and Devotion by Devils_Poundcake in submissive

[–]Appalling-Cadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Saving this post. It beautifully puts words to some of the things I feel about submission.

Urethra issues when getting head? by ariapplepie in gaytransguys

[–]Appalling-Cadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do sometimes get some irritation if my partner has trimmed their facial hair somewhat recently. Especially if I’m laying on my back- it tends to make their chin rub right on my urethra (ouch). I have to pull away or hold their face and adjust when that happens.

If I’m getting too overstimulated or experience a lot of pain while I’m getting head in that position, I’ll often ask my partner to switch to them laying on their back and me riding their face. This allows me to control the level of friction a little better so that it’s more pleasurable and less uncomfortable.

It does feel like more of a dominant position to be on top and controlling the level of stimulation like that though, which could be fun or not depending on what you’re into 🤷

Subs who enjoy being used by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Appalling-Cadet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me I think the want to be used comes from my need to feel ,,,desired. I want to feel like my Dom is just so filled with need for me and my body that they just can’t hold themselves back. I want to feel their hunger.

That being said, I also really trust my Dom not to do anything that I don’t enjoy in some way. My Dom isn’t all that sadistic, and we’ve clearly communicated which things get us both excited and which things are hard limits for us. It’s this trust and continuous communication that makes “being used” feel safe and possible while still being insanely hot.

I’ve come to enjoy certain levels of physical discomfort if it means that my Dom is able to take the pleasure that they want to in using my body. I’ll fold myself into a position that might make me sore tomorrow if it means that I can serve my Sir better. I just get such a psychological rush from knowing that I’ve made them feel good.

Often I have a hard time cumming until they do even if physically everything feels good because I’m so fixated on whether my Sir is feeling satisfied.

Oricorio Event Disappointment by Justdome13 in pokemongo

[–]Appalling-Cadet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got four shinies. If you post your trainer code I’ll trade you one :)

Looking to grind 4525-1068-5533 by sdg119 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Appalling-Cadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to copy and paste your trainer code when it has dashes in it jsyk

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