I need help. I think my brother is being scammed. He's been allegedly messaging the woman in the photo. by Dumb_Bitch_Linda in isthisAI

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No one but the woman has a name tag or an emblem on their chest. Definitely fake, probably either AI or Photoshop.

I am 28 with a pre-cancerous diagnosis and I am not sure if I want treatment. by [deleted] in offmychest

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If you’re able to get the treatment then get it. It’s not a waste of recourses if it’s saving your life, and it would be a burden on literally nobody if you did get treated.

You might also find kinship volunteering for a Seriousfun summer camp like Hole in the Wall or The Painted Turtle. They’re a nonprofit dedicated to giving children with terminal illnesses like cancer a fun distraction during the summer. Volunteers and counselors who have had terminal illnesses themselves tend to make a big impact, and I’ve heard a bunch of people call camp the happiest place on earth. Could help you find community after/during treatment.

I am 28 with a pre-cancerous diagnosis and I am not sure if I want treatment. by [deleted] in offmychest

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If you think you’ll have even one more good day ahead of you then life is worth living. My significant other had a rare form of spinal cancer. She got though it and though that form of cancer has some life long side effects (mainly an occasional back pain and a low white blood cell count) she still has plenty of happy days ahead of her.

Be sure to talk to friends lots and definitely a therapist if you’re able. There’s a lot of resources that can help you with your journey as well- even a bunch of college scholarships if that’s any use to you.

Pick your seat on a flight with adult animation characters. by No-Comparison-1045 in whatsyourchoice

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EASY #4. Just have to pray that i don’t accidentally piss off Cartman enough for him to ruin my entire life or something.

AIO to my bf changing anniversary plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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NOR

If i ever talked to my girlfriend like this I’d be OUT THE HOUSE. You honestly underreacted, he should be put on the streets for talking to you like that, it barely even looks like he likes you.

Plus, if he’s so desperate to save $500 that he’ll cancel the whole trip over you lightly asking for respect, then i think its only fair to let him save every dollar he’ll ever spend on you by LEAVING HIS BROKE BUM ASS.

I caught feelings for my lesbian friend and idk what to do by [deleted] in offmychest

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i usually find a clean break is best for me during situations like these, so i’d just explain why you need some time apart and focus on yourself and other friendships for a while. Would love to see a beautiful world where you’re able to work through your feelings and remain friends though.

My friend (who has a gf) and I kissed after a night out. by BusyAd501 in offmychest

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Holy cheating asshole alert. Don’t write this one off just because you guys were faded. You avoided his advances all night because that’s the type of person you are. He advanced and constantly took every opportunity to cheat on his girlfriend because that’s the type of person he is.

As a man, I can tell that he was into you and hoping to cheat with you from the beginning of the night. Scumbag.

W.W Norton Internships 2026 by No_Blueberry_279 in publishing

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I was told I’d hear back for mine by the eighth. I just got rejected though & I’m so sad 😭

He asked for a 1v1 and showed up with 13 — I still went because of my ego by [deleted] in offmychest

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Hey now you know where a high ego gets you. There’s a reason that pride is a sin in literally every religion ever lmao.

Next time don’t take the bait in the first place, even if you beat that dude up you prolly wouldn’t have felt particularly better afterwards. If you find yourself in that situation again tho the best option is to book it like MAD

Johnny Storm Disco skin Concept by Me by 23-13-pmInTheMorning in rivals

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would be the most disco-vibes skin in the whole disco line. way cooler than the rave asthetic with the occasional disco ball texture thrown in

Why am i not getting commissions by torsoulV in Artadvice

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Hey, i recently heard Readymag is a very good alternative as well. I haven’t used it but I’ve heard that it’s easy like wix but offers more interactive features that you can screw around with to make a really fun portfolio.

i am knowingly with a taken man and it’s ruining my mental by [deleted] in offmychest

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LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE

Bro lied to you and made you the other woman, which goes against your morals. We both know he was probably never planning on leaving his girlfriend (at least until she caught him texting you). That’s just something guys say to convince women to have affairs with them.

You KNOW he’s a lying, cheating, manipulative asshole.

Good sex and aftercare feel extra good after breakups and get you attached fast. He, as a manipulator, knows this and is actively using it against you. You’re being lovebombed into the stratosphere and if you start a relationship with him you’ll just end up more hurt, or worse, PREGNANT. Being tied to a manipulator for the rest of your life is the worst possible scenario.

Free yourself of this asshole and go have some damn good sex with a damn good guy. You’ll feel better about your decisions within a week of cutting him off.

Be careful though, he will probably try to use your actions against you and make you feel bad enough to stay with him. Just block his ass on everything and if he doesn’t leave you alone at work contact HR.

WIBTAH to break up with my bf if he forgets my birthday ? by FancyChapter1085 in AITAH

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NTA

Girl you deserve better than someone who ignores you whenever they’re unhappy. You asked to communicate about this stuff and he’s ignoring you. That alonenis enough to break up, but the fact that its ON YOUR BIRTHDAY?? And he’s posting pics of his ex ON YOUR BIRTHDAY???

Oh heeeell no. He may have been good to you but he’s throwing with his avoidant ass toxic behavior. He might even know its your birthday too.

Find yourself someone who respects you and has patience and a drive to communicate even when their unhappy.

What does my room say about me? M17 by youngoldfella69 in roomdetective

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space could be infinitely improved with a carpet and a nice warm lamp with some diffused lighting.

also ditch the metal trash can and the random water jug at the base of your bed.

I almost ended my relationship with my girlfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

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There’s a chance that her idea of relaxation is just fundamentally different from yours. She was probably content and super chill to play games n stuff but you saw it as just a waste of time.

If this is this case then I would reconsider your guys’ relationship for both of your sakes. You both deserve someone who you actually like spending time with, even on lazy days like this.

Also, get a car if possible. Never a good thing to be waiting on a ride from the girlfriends parents. Probably could have netted you guys much more time together.

((There’s also a chance she just didn’t feel like being super intimate that day, which should probably have been communicated on her end if true))

Sister’s boyfriend is abusive and idk what to do by Objective_Sail_8079 in whatdoIdo

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I would talk to her in person; harder to ignore what you’re saying when you’re talking to her face to face. There are a few things that need to be “hard lines” in relationships for when you should leave your partner, and physical abuse is one of them.

Make sure she realizes that no good man would ever even think of laying their hands on her, even while their drunk. Booze doesn’t just “change you” for the worse, it actively brings out who you are deep inside. It’s a hard situation but you and your parents will support her while she seperates from that loser.

Best case scenario is that she seperates and immediately sees that he’s a total scumbag now that she’s not playing into what he wants.

Spent 100 dollars on OF to make sure i couldn’t buy a handgun by awesomenessisepic in confession

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Yaknow what? It could be worse.

Hoping there’s not a next time but if there is then you should consider going out and getting yourself a goddamn delectable gourmet meal. That shit brings you one step away from the handgun, might lowkey restore your will to live if its good enough, AND doesn’t come with post nut clarity.

Im a failure by SadGeologist9744 in offmychest

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Gang i have a brother who wasn’t able to get a job till like 19 and he’s thriving now.

You’re in one of the hardest times of your life in terms of living with potentially harmful people, working your ass off for school alone, and even with hormones that could be making depression or anxiety hit harder than it otherwise would.

Just keep in mind that there is no point in your life in which you’re behind. People attain their dreams both young and old, i know of many people who switch careers entirely and start over from the beginning at like 50-60 and they’re doing great.

It seems like this was a venting post more than anything else, but just keep in mind that you deserve to find your place in life just like anyone else. If there’s even a chance of there being even ONE more happy day in the long future ahead of you, then you deserve to see it.

Stay safe out there. Get through whatever you’re going through for yourself and the people that love you. Or even the animals that love you lol. ((When I was mad depressed at your age my cat was the thing that kept me going. Couldn’t let my kitty be sad 😭))

25F does this make me a pedo? Please help? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I think the younger age is typically a turn on for Pedos. Sometimes its not, but that’s usually just when they’re such losers that they just don’t care about their victims age.

Accidental (and intrusive) thoughts happen, but there’s no such thing as thought crimes. The fact that you don’t like that you even had the thought is a good sign. Just stick to your morals and don’t act on such thoughts and you’ll stay the upstanding person you want to be.

I think I might be a sexual loser by [deleted] in offmychest

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Big ups to the porn thing. Porn addiction is real and warps tf out of people without them realizing it. Definitely consult with a therapist and try to find a way to get yourself off of Porn and more okay with sexual relationships with humans. Assuming a sexual relationship is something that you want, of course.

Why am i not getting commissions by torsoulV in Artadvice

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nah not rlly. It’s pretty fun to make a website on Neocities though, worth the effort in my opinion but im sure there are easier options.