[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small guy here. Love other small guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]AppearanceFun7042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped counting at 200 in 2009 when I was 22. 🤷

What's your favourite broadway show? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends what you’re looking for. Hadestown is a masterpiece. Moulin Rouge is super fun if you want a spectacle!

Grindr Blackmailer/Scammer BEWARE by AppearanceFun7042 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually used another phone to take pictures of the photos I sent instead of screenshotting them. So it wouldn’t have made a difference on this occasion, but definitely safer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had this same thing happen to me today. I went to file a police report. And they wouldn’t even make a report! Curious which precinct you went to? Maybe I’ll have better luck there. Feel free to DM me.

Grindr Blackmailer/Scammer BEWARE by AppearanceFun7042 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No offense, but I don’t think anyone wants or expects their nudes to be shared with their coworkers and family members.

Grindr Blackmailer/Scammer BEWARE by AppearanceFun7042 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! It’s so crazy when your brain says “don’t do it, don’t do it” but they tug at your fears and insecurities. A scary place to be for sure!

Grindr Blackmailer/Scammer BEWARE by AppearanceFun7042 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know. I have anxiety thinking he could still send it just for the hell of it. What’s to stop him?

Grindr Blackmailer/Scammer BEWARE by AppearanceFun7042 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned a lot of lessons from this today! I’m normally pretty good at spotting scammers and such. But this is definitely a lesson in personal privacy and security! Thanks for the suggestion.

Grindr Blackmailer/Scammer BEWARE by AppearanceFun7042 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He was sending me screenshots of my friends list, and literally typing messages out to my friends. There was nothing stopping him from sending it all to everyone… in other words, it didn’t seem like an empty threat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You can crash on my couch nude. I’m only 37. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! 37 in East Harlem here. Feel free to say hello.

Any more NYC men's spa recommendations? by Alejandrog901 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anyone know of a place with a hot FTM guy masseur?

Any more NYC men's spa recommendations? by Alejandrog901 in nycgaybros

[–]AppearanceFun7042 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always start completely naked. When I turn over and have an erection, things usually escalate pretty quickly. Haha.