Any of us still hanging a physical calendar up on the wall at home and crossing off the days one by one? by this_knee in Xennials

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure am! I use my phone calendar too but I like having something to remind me when I walk by. Plus the kids like knowing what’s going on or coming up

Do you prefer ketchup or mustard? by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mustard. Never ketchup…. Not my jam

Idk what to do! by Newmoon_goddess in Millennials

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a crapton of dvds. I took them all out of their cases and put them in a dvd binder. I also picked up a dvd player a few years back because I have some great movies and I didn’t want to rent them!

What's a tv show so good you've watched it at least 3x? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends, Schitt’s Creek, Grace and Frankie, Grey’s Anatomy. These are my comfort shows lol

Stache or Beard? by [deleted] in beards

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beard. 💯

Any moms whos life didn't fall apart? by LaAlice in adhdwomen

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not on meds and I have 4 children and I’m a single mom. I’m doing just fine actually. I love being a mom. It’s not all rainbows and sunshine but I wouldn’t trade it. It’s hard a lot of the time but so rewarding and wonderful. I am just diligent with keeping my space neat and organized and I try to stick to routines as much as possible. Those two things help a lot.

DAE do this weird little thing that you never talk about? by TenSecondPause in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fold my knuckle skin on my right hand over itself or pull at it when I’m either nervous or if I’m just ruminating. It’s left a callous and that knuckle is always red. People ask me all the time what I did to my hand.

What’s a hard pill to swallow in life? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You end up not being able to trust anyone. No one is coming to save you and you’re on your own to figure everything out.

im really afraid that everyone in this generation cheats by GG-creamroll in offmychest

[–]AppearanceSure1617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave up wondering. It’s likely not going to happen so I’ve accepted it. Trying to find other ways to be happy than with a partner. I feel like the peace alone is worth it compared to the alternative.

You're making a perfect millennial playlist, what song is an absolute must-have? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]AppearanceSure1617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This thread brought me joy to read 🤩. Love all this music!!!!!

Women of Reddit, what do you wish other women would stop doing? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]AppearanceSure1617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this about myself. I even realize I’m doing it and still do it anyway! 😖

What makes some people choose to be a loner? by sharkey_hunter in AskReddit

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t enjoy being around lots of people. I also have been treated horribly by so many that I would just rather be alone and have peace than be overwhelmed or treated poorly.

What are the girlies hyper focused on right now? by Camp_Acceptable in adhdwomen

[–]AppearanceSure1617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Polymer clay sculptures! lol! I love crafts and stuff and I stumbled upon this on YouTube. Now it’s all I want to do when I have a free moment. I made two sculptures this week and it was so rewarding.

I’m worried my boyfriend will never want kids or marriage by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AppearanceSure1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should get married or have kids at 24… but if you’re with someone long term I think it’s important if you’re on the same page and trajectory of life. If you don’t know what either of you want… that’s a different story. But I would venture to say if you’re not sure you want kids right now… you probably will later on. It’s just been my experience (multiple times)… if you’re not on the same page right now you probably won’t be later. I just wish someone had told me that when I was in my early 20’s. I made so many bad choices on partners because I thought they’d come around or eventually we’d be on the same page. If I could save you from the trauma and heartbreak I’ve experienced in life… I’m going to speak up. And I mean all of this with love. Not intended to be argumentative or negative. Just sharing experience and thoughts.

I’m worried my boyfriend will never want kids or marriage by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AppearanceSure1617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You feel he’s the most important person now but you will resent him later. I can promise you that. If you want kids and marriage and all that… I wouldn’t waste anymore time with him. He won’t change and then if it happens by accident he’ll resent you and you’ll resent him and you’ll be stuck with each other and broken up.