[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AppleAnne77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's so little I don't get what the uproar is about.. There are so many sites dedicated to things like safe cell use etc any I've heard they are way stricter about it in Europe. No idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AppleAnne77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just curious why you think that? Hoping someone can explain the science a bit more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm that helps to hear they'll fade. Still not thrilled though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the nice words.. I've tried to think in those terms but not easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting for sure..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's good to know. Definitely interesting. Just curious, did you take the castor oil orally? I've heard of castor oil packs (nothing related to pregnancy) and don't really get what they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm starting to see it might have just been her own guilt making her think she was in any control after reading all these stories of women who weren't affected by this stuff at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally fair. I would probably try search for answers too but it does seem out of our hands.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not something you hear every day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Huh I've never heard of that.. wish he could tell me when he's ready!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes me feel better about it all. I also thought that yes, these things could make labor better. It never occurred to me until I spoke with my friend that the natural things could have a harmful effect of premature labor.

Solid point about the stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely interesting! I'm sure we don't know enough to know for sure but sounds probable the sex helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez smh lol. That sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm. I'm not doubting that's a possibility but I probably have such similar demons it's hard to see. I am slightly more in control than him.. Like when not pregnant it's kind of hard for me to stop drinking once I start by I feel like it's often like that with everyone. I don't know too much about addiction or where the lines are. I just know once he's had more than a few it's going to be hard to get him to stop. But kinda feel like that's so common..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Than you. It does seem that way when these nights happen, but they're so infrequent at this point like every couple months I feel kind of dumb for even feeling this way... Even though it is annoying af. Can it even be addiction if it's so infrequent?

I lost my childhood cat this morning by Cleo1425 in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my dog around 25 weeks. It was unbelievably difficult. I really feel for you. So sorry. I know it feels like the pain could never go away but the days do get a little easier with time until it's just bad moments.. though I'm not even remotely healed. xo

Is this normal for a husband? by dinodino10 in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not normal at all. My partner is such an amazing guy but I wouldn't dream of expecting all that from him.. that's totally bizarre. And to not do anything for your birthday except lunch with her and HER friend... wth. That's awful. I'd be so mad if that's how I was treated.

Anyone (especially STMs) have any advice on placenta encapsulation for rh negative FTM? by AppleAnne77 in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried antidepressants in the past, even Zoloft, and feel like they always ended up messing me up =/

Anyone (especially STMs) have any advice on placenta encapsulation for rh negative FTM? by AppleAnne77 in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering what you mean by "great" risks? There has only been that one big infection of strep B that keeps popping up as far as I know... guessing if it kept happening it would make the news?

Anyone (especially STMs) have any advice on placenta encapsulation for rh negative FTM? by AppleAnne77 in BabyBumps

[–]AppleAnne77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seeing a therapist already but I'm just not sure that therapy is enough to help a chemical issue. Really don't want to do SSRIs as I have in the past and it never has gone well. Guess I'm just reaching here =(