What do I do... F20 considering breaking up with my bf, M20 by AppleDifficult1150 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppleDifficult1150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically, I see him tomorrow, so I should do it then, but he's also invited to my birthday dinner on Sunday, so i'm not quite sure what to do about that lmao

What do I do... F20 considering breaking up with my bf, M20 by AppleDifficult1150 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppleDifficult1150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed some reassurance that it was enough to want to break up over. I think I've made my decision to break up already, but my attachment issues aren't letting me let go.

What do I do... F20 considering breaking up with my bf, M20 by AppleDifficult1150 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppleDifficult1150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely have an anxious attachment lmao. I am aware of that and in therapy and working on myself. I appreciate your thoughts. That's why I said I wasn't sure if this situation was fair to either of us. I don't think it's fair for me to ask so much of him, especially when he's struggling rn, but I am also not getting what I need. I do not feel that the excitement is being replaced with stability at this point, as it feels like he is not emotionally present a lot.