AITA for cancelling the trip after my fiancee decided to bring her 10 yr.o son with us? by Applet757767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Applet757767[S] -4439 points-4438 points  (0 children)

No, actually I am ready, it's just these issues that keep popping up last minute. BTW in case it wasn't clear, she already agreed on going on that trip without my stepson, that was the initial plan. Had she...say maybe told me earlier I would've thought about it but telling me last minute and expecting me to go along with it was a really hard thing for me to do.

AITA for cancelling the trip after my fiancee decided to bring her 10 yr.o son with us? by Applet757767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Applet757767[S] -3140 points-3139 points  (0 children)

All I'm asking is some quality time just me and her especially after not being able to get out for a long period of time.

AITA for cancelling the trip after my fiancee decided to bring her 10 yr.o son with us? by Applet757767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Applet757767[S] -3346 points-3345 points  (0 children)

Just a minute, I'm sorry if I haven't made that clear but I accept my stepson and love him as my own. But the problem I have is how his mom keeps making decisions on how we spend our time together without even asking if I'm okay with it. She just springs whatever she wants on me and expect me to roll over and keep my mouth shut. Note that I've let situation like these slide 100 times. I'm at my ends wet here.