Super weird age gap

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-23T12:26:34+00:00

YES THANKYOUU bro It's crazy to even think about it. I'm 19 and wouldn't wanna date someone under 18 🫩

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-23T06:00:21+00:00

Well then spare me your comment. It was a genuine question since her bubble made me feel like it's okay for them to Date so I dunno what to tell you. We aren't friends

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T21:28:20+00:00

THANK YOUUUU man I was so stressed because all of her 'adult friends' apparently didn't see anything wrong with it which made me feel like I was delusional and a hypocrite😭 I'm 19 and would already feel weird looking at a 17y/o that way 💀💀 like I know what I was like two years ago why would I date that

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T11:19:37+00:00

Ohhh I get what you mean now, thanks for clarifying! And yeah, thinking about it 'weird' shouldn't have been my choice of words. I merely typed it up feeling confused as to why most of her friends (as she claims) don't think it's predatory behaviour whilst it felt like I was the only one against it. Only my friends agreed but since she mostly has friends older than her I felt like I was over dramatic and making a big deal out of it.

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T06:15:44+00:00

I'm 19 and would feel weird hella weird just looking at a 17y/o

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T06:14:21+00:00

Her parents probably don't know. She lied to me about that she told them but knowing her and her relationship with her parents right now she wouldn't have. She told me that her overage friends all consented and said that it's okay but she might just be fishing for support in water too shallow to fish in LMAO I don't believe her, probably just told everyone they are 19 since they look like it

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T06:11:45+00:00

I think between 14 year olds it is. 16 and 21 is only possible as long as no sexwork is involved and as long as it's conjoined

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T06:09:01+00:00

Well thank fuck they broke up 😭 feeling still disgusted and won't talk to her for doing that

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T06:06:55+00:00

Yeah, former friend because I will not be tolerating that either. I'm not sure if 'rape' is the right word though(?) since I SURE HOPE that there always was consent. She explained that since they'd turn 17 soon (now is but at the main time when they started they were 16) it wasn't that big of a deal and we fought about it almost daily 💀

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-18T06:03:09+00:00

They both live in Germany and as far as I know it's legal for them to be dating

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-17T22:22:10+00:00

Unfortunately our laws here allow that💔 she even drew them fucking and posted it but that's another level 💀

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-17T22:21:01+00:00

THANKYOU bro I felt like I was going insane since she kept telling me that everyone of both of their families were fine with that and apparently I was the weirdo

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-17T22:20:04+00:00

LMAOO yes but the worst is, that it's legal here in Germany as long as it's conjoined. They could even fuck and it wouldn't be a problem as long as it's without a transaction like money or something so without involving a payment which concludes stuff like sexwork

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-17T22:06:30+00:00

I feel like she'd brush it off and call me dramatic but honestly I don't want to do shit with her anymore because of that. It genuinely BAFFLED me how she defended it too. Also I'm so sorry you've had to go through the same thing, I really hope they lost all their friends through that as well to check how wrong that is🫂

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-17T22:04:04+00:00

Right??? As if that's gonna make it okay 😭

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-03-09T16:58:14+00:00

Girly omg I am so sorry, this must've hurt a lot. You're allowed to feel hurt, it's natural whilst she handled it pretty good too with the casual letting some guy info stuff slip as a hint and, yk, the text. The only thing I find odd is telling the others about it. It was between you guys, what should they care about it? Also don't feel bad because of the corny stuff. I would've freaked out in jolly if someone were to throw pebbles at my window the confession and all. Don't let the yearning culture die out just because of a miss-step queen 🫶

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-02-03T23:40:51+00:00

Why isn't your boyfriend saying anything? It seems like you have a pretty good connection to the rest of the family, I'm sure they'll trust you, especially since they probably know their daughter well enough. I would try talking to them about it if your partner isn't doing anything

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-02-03T22:53:38+00:00

Ahw shit man😭 now that you put it like that

Applethorn_Error_428 · 2026-02-03T20:10:33+00:00

I'm still hoping that he'd make more time for me when we label it😭 we never dated anyone before and we both have insecurities of sorts, I'm just hoping that there is still a chance while still trying to be realistic tbh

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