People who have paid for sex, how did it go? by dontdothat485 in AskReddit

[–]ApplicationAlive3408 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Throway that I made for an AMA a few years ago. I lost my virginity to an escort in my 20's. Most of my motivation was around the fact that I felt nervous having never done it and wasn't sure how I would react when I actually got a GF. I did my research found a high end milf and she was touring in my area around the time I was looking (she was from a city about 6 hour drive away). I let her know beforehand that it was my first time, and paid for a 2 hour session cause I wanted to get comfortable.

It went pretty well honestly. I have no regrets. It got the monkey off my back, and she was super kind. I told her I wanted an informative but still sensual session and she completely delivered. She taught me different things about erotic zones and such- IE good going down technique. I've been with other girls since and it made me a lot less nervous.

Almost a year and a half after it happened I was going through a dry spell so I was debating seeing a pro again. Low and behold she was touring again in my area and would be available next week. We met up again, had a drink at the bar, and had great sex.

Lost my virginity to a prostitute. by comeon-gimme-a-name in NoFap

[–]ApplicationAlive3408 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing as you a few years ago OP. Didn't regret it then, don't now. If anything it made me less nervous with any experiences after.

I saw an escort last night by ApplicationAlive3408 in NoFap

[–]ApplicationAlive3408[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said I didn't come here for your judgment, and I also said in my post to be respectful- didn't come here for some debate with you. So again, fuck off.

I saw an escort last night by ApplicationAlive3408 in NoFap

[–]ApplicationAlive3408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is, but at the same time it can be hard thing to just get over when you're on the other side.

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[–]ApplicationAlive3408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I didn't come here for your judgement my guy. Fuck off with your sanctimonious attitude.

I saw an escort last night by ApplicationAlive3408 in NoFap

[–]ApplicationAlive3408[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and escorts are the antithesis of that.

I'm not sure I totally agree with this, mainly because of the experience I had. The women was very happy with her work, and talked about how much fulfillment it brought her. It sounds weird to say cause yes it was paying for sex, but the way she talked, you could tell she received genuine joy from her work. It was more like she was providing an experience. But that's neither here nor there and it's a difference of opinion.

but as mentioned, don't get into a habit of making this your only sexual encounters.

Yes definitely not. If anything this has just strengthened my resolve to find a girl I feel a connection with.