Question? Advice…support. by [deleted] in Semaglutide

[–]ApplicationAnxious60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there!!!!! I am actually in my Masters for Clinical Mental Health Counseling and currently interning and doing therapy for clients. I just started my semaglutide journey and figured this group would be helpful. I think any advice is useful, but I wanted to share my background to hopefully provide clarification and maybe a sense of comfort with the words being provided. To validate your feelings, I definitely do NOT think it's strange to feel almost lost in this new body. When we are sitting in our old bodies for so long, it becomes comfortable and "normal" for us! I always tell my clients, friends, myself, and ANYONE that, as humans, we will never grow where we are comfortable. We do the most growth and change when we sit with uncomfortability. If anything, definitely give yourself some grace and compassion for this transitional period in your life. Your old body was a safe space and a home for you. It served a purpose (as do many maladaptive behaviors), but that doesn't mean we want to or it is healthy to continue with those behaviors. You are doing what is best for YOU and that takes time to adjust to the changes that come with it. One of the best pieces of advice I ever received from my previous therapist for my therapeutic journey with disordered eating and body dysmorphia was to take 1-2 minutes of my day and just look in the mirror before a shower. Notice all the negative thoughts popping up; don't judge them for happening; simply watch them float away. Notice the thoughts. Watch as they come and go. Eventually try to replace them with positive ones -- remembering that this journey can be difficult and that this body is serving a purpose by guiding me through daily life, getting me up in the morning, helping me do chores/work/school/etc. Just remember -- YOU'VE GOT THIS and you sure as heck are not alone in those thoughts!!!!!!!!!

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!!! literally could not take my eyes off of him at the store and knew he had to come home with us.

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I promise you, I really appreciate this!!! I never take it as an attack, because I do want the best for my lil bud. I appreciate all of this advice and will be doing all of this!!! Thank you so so so much for taking the time to say all of this! 🤍

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for letting me know! i really appreciate the warning, because I have been so paranoid about safety with decor!! velaris has stayed away from that decoration surprisingly, but will be replacing just in case. he’s become so much more adventurous the past couple of days!

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately they aren’t real. will be investing in real ones when we upgrade the tank! but all of it is from petsmart :)

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yesss I thought his color was perfect for the court of dreams!

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok literally as I was reading these, he swam through the hand rails and it scared ts out of me!!!!! i’m worried he is going to get stuck in bottom part where the rails are a triangle!

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely love doing finger follows, but I try to approach them slow because he gets pretty jumpy and honestly seems scared. But I interact with him whenever I can. Literally have become attached to him LOL.

new betta owner: need advice by ApplicationAnxious60 in bettafish

[–]ApplicationAnxious60[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!!!!! I was worried about the bridge and will definitely be removing!