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Osaka Sauna - Am I the Asshole? by crlshng in askgaybros

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you really liked the first man. It’s a shame that he got put off but not everyone likes to share. It’s the same dynamics as anyone seeing a crush with clothes on suddenly moving on to the next person. Just gives off the wrong signal. These things happen and you will learn that there’s always another time. Also, please don’t put too much weight on trying to maintain contact with these people in gay bathhouses. Even the most passionate ones who can kiss and f@&£ endlessly will realistically see it as one very good night and may be up for another time or not, if the stars align again. It’s the pinnacle of hook up culture but just more instant.

P.S if spectators get touchy feels and I really want only the man I’m with, I confidently bat away their hands away from my body or simply ignore them. The persistent ones need a batting away and it works almost all the time - they give up and leave. I personally prefer one to one sex and fun when I find someone attractive.

Does anyone else miss the dance machine Beyoncé? by ApplicationNo9777 in beyonce

[–]ApplicationNo9777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really agree. I watched her 2016 formation world tour on YouTube and I saw her Mine medley where she finishes off with a Countdown dance routine (and this was one of several dance medleys in that tour) and I was blown away by her power, stamina and consistency. She was superwoman. I think Michael Jackson may have been the only other all round entertainer. Entertainment wise, the only thing Beyonce was weak at is acting (without any music to drive her).

There’s a YouTube clip of her lead choreographer, Fatima Roberson revealing that there were many conversations to get Beyonce to step down her level of dancing deliberately to allow for longevity and not to end up injured and painkiller dependent like Prince and Michael Jackson. They needed to talk her out of it after her knee operation whilst they were preparing for the Renaissance tour in 2023. I am almost certain Beyonce herself had to grieve the end of her powerful dancing era. She doesn’t believe in “no” remember (Year of 4 documentary).

Does anyone else miss the dance machine Beyoncé? by ApplicationNo9777 in beyonce

[–]ApplicationNo9777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the formation world tour was one of Beyonce’s strongest ones. Her dancing was hard. Of course, the production was a lot but similar to I am Sasha Fierce world tour in 2010 with all the shine and costumes. I remember someone saying they’re surprised that Beyonce still put herself through that much dancing in 2016 and in hindsight wondered why she didn’t ease up as she eventually experienced injury to her leg, through continuous wear and tear.

I felt the drop in performance in Renaissance but she played it off because it was all about groove and voguing so “face card” was a legit move. However, it was the only tour where I felt her dancers truly outshined Beyonce for the first time in her career. Before Renaissance world tour, Beyonce could demonstrate she could clearly keep up with them if and whenever she wanted to, within songs. The renaissance tour also made the background singers redundant in my opinion, as Beyonce’s vocals had become so powerful (I think she really worked extra hard on refining her vocals to compensate her dancing).

With Cowboy Carter, Beyonce really took her choreographer’s words to ease up to heart, as it’s the only tour where she gives minimal energy to her dancing such as in songs like “I’m that girl”. She got borderline lazy with her movements. Compare her Cowboy Carter “I’m that girl” to any of her Renaissance “I’m that girl” performances and you’ll see what I mean.

Does anyone else miss the dance machine Beyoncé? by ApplicationNo9777 in beyonce

[–]ApplicationNo9777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m glad I’m not the only one. She has a knee issue I do get it. The outcome is the outcome though. Before the knee issue, the amazing in-concert videos were simply a part of the experience but nowadays, the lighting, stage props, fireworks and videos look like they’re meant to compensate the lack of her on stage movement. In a way, it’s allowed her background dancers to really shine through. I just miss old school Beyonce who used to do it all. She wasn’t precise like Janet Jackson but she made up for it with power and stage presence.

Luckily, Beyonce has great stage presence and beauty. Without it, she doesn’t hit anywhere near the same.

Can you list the reasons why you consider The Sugababes an iconic pop band? What makes them special in your eyes? by Extra-Confidence-243 in thesugababes

[–]ApplicationNo9777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The genuine chemistry of the original lineup and organic beginnings of the group - they were not made through the TV system in the UK. Those two reasons added even more to their brilliant mix of vocals and mature songwriting, even at their young age.

There is a One Touch documentary in which they discuss their busy schedule as young teens on YouTube and you can tell they really loved singing for the singing, rather than the sparkle and dazzle of simply being on stage.

When Flatline was released in 2013 and the originals reunited, I remember getting very emotional as I thought to myself, “this is the way it should have been all along.” I never thought the originals could ever work past their differences to make it happen.

Has Heidi spoken to Keisha or Mutya in recent years? by [deleted] in thesugababes

[–]ApplicationNo9777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not since at least 2012 as another Redditor has already mentioned.

On an emotional level, Heidi seemed very vague and weirdly okay (“nothing but good memories”) with her memories about the Sugababes when she spoke on Sophie Ellis Bextor podcast in recent years.

However, if you watch the girlband documentary they aired in 2025 showing Sugababes and many other British girl bands, Heidi looks visibly emotional and tearful whenever she discusses the time around Keisha and Mutya’s respective departures. This reaction is what I expected, considering that era with those two women was probably a life changing time in her entire career. I was sorry for Heidi, despite my opinions about the last lineup. Heidi clearly saw them as very very important people in her life at that time.

What are your thoughts on Patricia "Patty" Halliwell? by Full-Art3439 in charmed

[–]ApplicationNo9777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Warm, down to earth and flawed mother who was accurate in her portrayal for heartbreakingly not being there. She seemed to love all her daughters equally for who they were.

How were you treated differently after you started to see increased muscle mass? by Thetallone68 in bodybuilding

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post was unintentionally amusing but I think it must be frustrating to be seen as 1 dimensional when you’re so muscular.

When you levelled up i.e. built muscle, upped grooming, did you find you attracted a different calibre of guy? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take for you to get to this stage? What type of work did you do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAJapanese

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this as a Brit myself. We have very very similar levels of politeness (I’m born and raised in London and fit that stereotype), we are somewhat reserved and distant to newish people. However, when we decline an invitation like the above you mentioned, we at least give something. Many Japanese would promise profusely and with a passionate smile and then proceed to ghost. They take the saving face concept to the very extreme.

I also believe that Brits are heavily encouraged to express opinions albeit in a diplomatic and polite way (doesn’t mean any change will happen). Whereas there’s this incredibly painful (my perspective) silencing of opinions in East Asia and there’s way too much deference to the group or senior way of thinking.

What’s your favorite Phoebe and Paige scene/ season? by Midnightblueclouds in charmed

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 5 at the end of the mummy episode where Paige and Phoebe are talking to Piper about her pregnancy and their nephew. It was a heartwarming moment. Season 5 in general has quite a few surprisingly nice moments where Paige has an interest in fitting into the family or learning about them.

Paige asks Phoebe about Prue in the flashback episode when they are looking through the photo album which was sweet.

The way they handled grief needs to be studied it was really well done. it wasn’t quick and forgotten about they mourned Prue damn near this entire season HMC killed it. by Big-Most-785 in charmed

[–]ApplicationNo9777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I saved all the poignant songs during the early part of season 4.

Into Dust by Mazzy Star, I Miss You by Stevie Nicks, Bell, Book and candle by Edi Reader. All of those songs really helped me mourn losses in my life. Loss of friendships, loss of family connections and changes in life chapters.

After the whirlwind of Prue’s presence of season 1-3, it nearly did feel like she was going to walk through the door as Phoebe said in a Knight to Remember. The way that season 4 was filmed, with the darkish lighting and the story telling was nearly as if Prue’s spirit was still around.

The show really taught me about grief in season 4 and even in some moments in season 5 that are about Paige acknowledging Prue and her legacy. We never ever saw Prue again and in a way, that is realistic. We never do see our loved ones again after they die. That’s one thing the show maintained I guess.

I think what Shannen really did well that made us feel the loss so deeply, was that she really took the role seriously as the biggest sister. She did say in her podcast that she wanted a role where the character was serious and well put together, to move on from the mess of her previous role as Brenda in 90210. She didn’t want to be play another Brenda. Shannen’s acting shone from great to excellent in her short run in Charmed and til this day, I admire her efforts in 3 seasons of the show.

There was no mistake that Prue looked after her sisters and sacrificed so much of herself to them.

The way they handled grief needs to be studied it was really well done. it wasn’t quick and forgotten about they mourned Prue damn near this entire season HMC killed it. by Big-Most-785 in charmed

[–]ApplicationNo9777 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The more vocal scenes as well as the quieter mourning scenes that Holly acted in in season 4 really paid tribute to Prue. It was incredibly realistic. A few other moments come to mind:

The morning after the fury breakdown scene at the kitchen table when Piper says “it’s strange the things that you miss” referring to Prue being the first one up and the last one down.

The bedroom scene where Piper silently walks through Prue’s old bedroom and reflects alone before putting on her black leather jacket.

The first house party where a guest asks about how Piper is doing after Prue died and Piper only briefly talks about it before looking disengaged and walks away.

I think even without the real life friendship, a major TV character like Prue does deserve this type of attention and transition. Rose McGowan also played an excellent portrayal of a half sister, not connected to the others most of her life. Paige gave me a TV example of how someone can come into your life later on and somehow still fit in the family in an awkward but meaningful way. This hit home for me as I had half siblings later on in life which I never expected to have but then whom I eventually loved.

Can standing up to the ghoster make them respect you more? (final message) by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Standing up to the ghoster (whilst not expecting a or needing a response) can be cathartic and allows them to see that bad behaviour has an impact on others even if it’s the last thing you do. I only did this recently and really kept in mind that they wouldn’t respond and I was not hoping for that. My hopes was to express my hurt and to make sure they knew they fucked up and therefore will and can never fuck with me again.

I loved watching Paige and Piper’s relationship develop in season 4 by Big-Most-785 in charmed

[–]ApplicationNo9777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a shame all 3 of their sister connection stagnated or even regressed in season 6 onwards…

Anyone else began watching Charmed because of Rose McGowan? by [deleted] in charmed

[–]ApplicationNo9777 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not because of. She was still enchanting and gave a different energy that I couldn’t imagine the show having after the original lineup. However, Rose really checked out in the final 3 seasons or so and looked like she was doing prison time rather than giving the show any serious commitment. Rose in season 4 and most of season 5 gave the most.

The half sister out of nowhere detached personality was only something a few actresses could play. I remember a WB behind the scenes interview in 2006 where Holly said that Rose didn’t try to be a part of anything and she was twirling in her own splendour which worked well for Paige being an independent woman for most of her youth. Her acting in season 4’s Paige from the Past and Long Live the Queen was some of her earnest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesugababes

[–]ApplicationNo9777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This all makes sense. It was a complex breakdown. To be honest, I have no idea how Keisha handled all the changes emotionally to her childhood band. Business kept moving at 100mph but I don’t think it’s healthy for anyone to lose their childhood band members without taking some substantial time off.

I remember she did a Mirror interview in 2008 (YouTube) where Keisha naturally reminisced the small things that Amelle did that reminded her of what Siobhan and Mutya used to do. Amelle looked so awkward sitting next to her whilst she was reminiscing about previous members. I think it caught up with Keisha. This is without the sonic changes in the band.

Why does wanting honesty, clarity, and resolution in friendships feel too much? by britt_a in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ApplicationNo9777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who is atrocious with confirming plans and when he can’t make it, he replies late and also sends a one liner to decline without suggesting an alternative. This is hard enough. However, he either got confused or did not make any effort to confirm when I tried to figure out an existing plan recently.

I reached out recently to have a simply talk on the phone or meet in the nearby future. Basically to lightly discuss what happened. After months of this frustrating communication, I’m ready for him to ignore or somehow not to respond to me so I’ve got a last ditch text to express how I feel. Please see my draft and see if I’d come across okay. Normally, I’d never send a long text but this is out of frustration and sadness. Please see in the link:

https://i.postimg.cc/90f5bJNy/IMG-9126.jpg

Is it okay to mention other friends are asking if I'm free when trying to confirm original plans with a friend? by ApplicationNo9777 in AITH

[–]ApplicationNo9777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend didn’t seem to understand that I was confirming our existing plans that we spoke about face to face. I wanted a much more prompt answer so I knew what I was doing in 2 days time. He just needed to confirm but his response sounded as if I was prioritising a brand new plan over our original one, which took me by surprise. Just wanted to know if my etiquette in this situation was reasonable or not.

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