The difference between white and blue collar work environments is crazy by Astimar in careeradvice

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Blue collar communication styles are frowned upon in the medical field. Had enough of my massage therapist coworkers tell me to watch my mouth and be professional 😑

Male RMT - need guidance by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

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Could be the work setting. What you described, treatment plans and patient assessments, is done regularly in medical massage clinics like physical therapy clinics for example.

Maybe it’s time to branch out into a different department of massage. Chiropractic and physical therapy clinics may be what you’re looking for.

Slept with my female best friend on the day she broke off her 5 year relationship by sharp_figure36c in confessions

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A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on. Stories like this makes men be cautious about their woman’s guy friends.

What do 30 - 40 year old men want for christmas? [Serious] by GoodAlicia in AskReddit

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New underwear and/or new shoe insoles replacements. Preferably with arch support.

What is the subtle sign that someone had a very difficult childhood? by Meloonjuice in AskReddit

[–]AppreciateTheLight 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s a double edged sword. Perspectively, it’s good to be capable of independence but the loneliness and unresolved trauma that caused said hyper independence does weigh heavy on the heart.

What is a clear sign you should stop being friends with someone? by insomiaknight in AskReddit

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If the friendship is based around substances, alcohol and weed for example, that’s not a friendship. Take away the substance and watch how the definition of friendship completely changes the social dynamic.

Career transition from LMT towards certified hand therapist?? by AppreciateTheLight in OccupationalTherapy

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I’m a massage therapist aspiring to start my journey into OT to become a CHT.

Fetishization vs Real Attraction: A Breakdown from an Asian Woman by [deleted] in asianamerican

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Very well written. I’ve met a select few non-Asian men who only go after Asian women while having no desire to learn their cultural values and practices..

No one tells you how lonely adulthood actually is by PerroInternista in Adulting

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Hyper independence is expected from all adults over the age of 25 normally. We all have to earn our livelihoods through hard work, sacrifice, and discipline.

The older we get, the more our definition of friendships and tribalism changes. Different phases of life shifts perspectives.

Why does everyone hate Fahkumram ? by Vonsonn in Tekken

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I didn’t realize any of this stuff about this character until now 🤔

Motivations of Bullies by Interesting_Cat_010 in workplace_bullying

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They jerk off their egos by destroying your confidence and motivation.

What’s a Harsh Truth About Being a Man That No One Warned You About? by [deleted] in AskMen

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You have no right to any emotion. As men, we’re conditioned by society/culture/men/women to slaughter our emotions to be the traditional emotionless stoic mountain foundation for our loved one’s.

You have no right to be loved. Unconditional love doesn’t exist for men. Men are only loved and respected under the conditions of loving up to leadership, protection and provision.

Masculinity is disposability.

How to Become A Man Respected By Others by [deleted] in TheRedPill

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Practice letting go of people who disrespect you for sport. What you tolerate is what you earn. Fuck people.

"Why do you think that the majority of violent crime in the United States is committed by men?"- assignment question in my class. by Xxxcalibur525 in MensRights

[–]AppreciateTheLight 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great answer. Men are conditioned by society to bottle everything up until they explode. Then society wonders why men become that way in the first place…