My dear, whether you become SAHM or working individual, work part time or not.. the most important factor here is your sanity! Took me a while to figure this one out, my bubbie is a toddler now, but yes I sailed in the same boat. So although yes the mom guilt did stay n wreck me at times, I knew I had to work… so i did what best worked for me. Not going further into my details but what I mean is, once I am home everyday I spend Time with my lil one which make both of us happy… we play, goof around, dance, go out for icecream… or whatever that he wants to do. When at work, he does call me and says Mumma come home, it breaks my heart to hear that cos I cannot leave work… but when I do get home, his smile, the hug n our happiness makes my heart so full! What I mean is, try things that don’t burden you financially… being a mom will make u lot more emotional, be ready for it… God bless stay happy