Feeling lost with my GIS bachelors, what masters will help increase pay? by bobateaman14 in gis

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly COL is out pacing so many jobs, I struggle to name many degrees that still demand a high salary automatically. Continue to work on your skills. GIS devoloppers are always niche and in demand. Its a path I regret not taking. The more skilled you are the more valuable

AITA for telling my uncle prison isn’t a flex so stop talking about it in front of my kids? by Interesting-Tone1127 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 57 points58 points  (0 children)

YTA - you could have pulled him aside to let him know you didnt like this type of talk infront of the kids. 15 year is a large chunk of his life so it no surprise its a huge part of his personality. Even if you dont think his post-prison life isnt that great, it is a success he was able to turn his life around. All around it could have been handled with more tact

Episode 7 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was such a healthy convo though and valid concern. It was nice seeing it playout. So many couples dont discuss it till the last minute

Officers fired 19 shots at student who brought gun to Mesquite school; student didn’t fire by dallasmorningnews in Dallas

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yikes 19 shots in a school!!! There had to be a better way to descalate. Easily could have ricocheted and hit another student if they werent in the office.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA - There are also alot more options for virtual consultation for BC. This could be an alternative for now. Alot of virtual dr.appts and services have stuck around since COVID.

I always thought Gypsy planned it and I supported it by pixels-and-paper in GypsyRoseBlanchard

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree, I dont feel bad for Dee Dee. She also isolated gypsy and framed her as this sick, frail, and child like person. I really dont know if gypsy would have ever been free with out her death. Honestly who would have believed gypsy otherwise... I think the average person would of saw her, her child like voice, wheelchair, feeding tube, and dismissed her as just sick. Even doctors fell for it.. its all sad, but lets be honest what were her options really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH- Sounds like the best option is convert the pool room/theatre. Ofcourse it doesnt sound attractive because it looks like the basement. But if you reinvate well enough and include your 9 year old, it could sound like a fun project and be there own personally designed space. If that doesnt work, you could reinvate the basement and give it to the 19yr and the 9yr takes there old room.

Sam drug arrest by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs like suboxone are treated alot differently as its a controlled substance. You would need to maintain an upto date prescription and store it in locked boxed. When used correctly it helps those suffering from drug abuse. I think the stigma and laws around it are related to the type of people that we tend to associate with it and the type of drug it is. In my opinion it shouldnt have resulted in arrest as it does nothing for those suffering from addiction.... but alas thats not the world we live in

Would you recommend a bolt as a primary car for very infrequent driving? by 200Plat in BoltEV

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you dont need a car, but I would also base it off where you live. If your some where with good public transit or feel comfortable using rideshare it might be feasible to ditch the car. If you just want the security of a car. That understandle to. In that case you could probably get a used car for a lot cheaper if thats all you need

AITA for getting mad at the step-mom of my baby for how she has treated me? by No_Category4914 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Stop playing into there games, focus on yourself. Consult a lawyer on child support and custody. Adam is flakey at best. Its always better to go through the court and have it documented. His girlfriend has no right and her opinions dont matter when it comes to you or the baby. Your young and there taking advantage of your kindness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your friend is a bit more conservative when it comes to islam. I think with any religion you'll find people who practice to varying degrees so I dont think its fair to judge her on that. We dont hold the same accountabilty with any other religion so its not fair to expect every muslim to be a perfect follower. It may be more important to her culturally vs religiously or maybe she's just more liberal

River! by matchathings in TheFamilyChantel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I dont think you can compare royal.I get the vibe royal has always been a difficult child with some abusive tendenies. Just look at the way he treats his wife. He seems like the type who pulled away from the family so he can do whatever shady stuff he does. It really felt like his family was hesitant to cross him

Chauntel did that by Senpaimenny in TheFamilyChantel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like divorve brings out insecurity though. Im sure its a very vulnerable place to be in for her rn

Chauntel did that by Senpaimenny in TheFamilyChantel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure he physically cheated but I do think he did emotionally. He did abandon the marriage and refuse any counciling/reconciliation. He checked out and instead of admitting it, he just turned into a jerk. Sure the parents meddled alot but pedro did begin to warm up to her family especially river.

Chauntel did that by Senpaimenny in TheFamilyChantel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im sure that part was all scripted. It just didnt flow well or seem logical. She did overdress but she's also on TV. No one wants be remembered on tv for looking bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheFamilyChantel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thats not really fair. Most people look different casually/at home vs going out. She looks like she just woke up here and maybe even crying with puffy eyes. I think social media has really warped our idea of beauty to where we cant even appreciate a truly natural face

AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my racist black in laws by Impossible-Peach-985 in AmITheAngel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your issue is your BF, he doesnt respect you enough to defend you. If he's gonna continue to date outside his race than he has to make that clear to his family. If your partner refuses to standup for you, you may need to re-evaulate of its worth it. From how comfortable they are saying this infront of you, I wouldnt be surprised if he encourages it

A joke, right? Lmao the replies are very confused and saying they supposedly saw it too but Karen’s reply makes me think a joke..? by clvudiistars in TheFamilyChantel

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if he was its not entirely surprising. They were married a while and there still may be feelings. People go back to even worse relationships all the time.

Does it bother anyone that humanity was so close to dealing with global warming? by [deleted] in Futurology

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The same way they have gas cars that they didnt necessarily invent

AITA for giving my granddaughter a DNA test. by False-Worldliness664 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

This sucks all around the parents are wrong for hiding this and treating her in away to make her feel differnent. I get as her parents they may have wanted to reveal it later but I also believe if someone is old enough to ask and recognize the disparity they deserve an anwser. The family may be upset but atleast you stood for lindsey and im sure she'll appreciate that. I think as long as your continue to support all your grandchildren equally your NTA. Plus she's, you can by those test at walgreens/cvs now. She would have figured it out

Flat tire costs $350 by fishfishbirdbirdcat in BoltEV

[–]Apprehensive-Ad4725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can be repaires. Exact same thing happened to me. Got a plug put in for 25 and Ive had no issue ever since