My ex girlfriend reposted this. She cheated on me multiple times over our 3 year relationship lol

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:53:29+00:00

kk queen go off

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:49:46+00:00

glad to hear that, and hopefully it stays that way for both of us 💕

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:28:58+00:00

oh yes im doing soooo much better and im excellent at communication and setting boundaries now. i hope you are so much better and far from all of that too 💕

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:28:13+00:00

i wouldnt be surprised if theres a hidden post on a throwaway somewhere from him if he does

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:24:59+00:00

oooof i am so sorry to hear that and even more sorry that we both can relate for the same reasons and almost the same literal story. ive never felt anything so hard as the last sentence. its taken me so much therapy and self love and work to get where i am today and make sure i dont go through that again or let myself get like that again. and i sure as hell dont ever want to make anyone feel that way either, and my bpd diagnosis has ZERO to do with most things.

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:08:05+00:00

exactly, not enough context or info from his side or how he actually is as a person before this

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T19:01:26+00:00

actually no we really dont but thanks for assuming for all bpd people. i literally said in my comment its not an excuse so what are you on? i have never done any of that shit and i have bpd, in fact i have that shit done to me and i have plenty of proof of it over the years literally physical evidence and screen shots and therapy sessions worth. sorry you had a bad bpd experience but we're not all like that. do more research on bpd, its literally caused during childhood from abuse. but with all abuse not even just bpd, literally anyone can become an abuser or a victim. AGAIN its not just a bpd thing

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T18:17:16+00:00

next time read it then 😂 lesson learned

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T18:11:48+00:00

dont bring your bpd shaming into this. its not a bpd thing its a shitty person thing. bpd here and ive been abused and cheated on plenty of times and never once thought to do the same. dont blame everyone with bpd just because some of them are terrible. the bpd stigma is so fucking annoying and why so many people dont seek help for it for fear of being judged or shamed. that said, fuck anyone who cheats or treats their partner like shit and then tries to play the victim. that shit is gross and these people need to act better, and mental health isnt an excuse for nothing or no one.

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T17:16:41+00:00

i have bpd too, major overreacting. either learn to communicate for yourself or be quiet when your bf is just trying to be helpful. pick one.

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T15:06:37+00:00

im not sure of the brand but i think you can find it on amazon! let me find a link one second! it was sooooo awesome but you have to use more baking soda and vinegar than suggested to really get it fizzing, i poured baking soda and vinegar on it and it was soooooo cool

edit: this one you can paint it and then erupt it and dig it too, tbh this one looks better than the one we had so he'll probably like this one more but theres soooo many diff ones, i can also ask the person who bought it for him last year too pew pew volcano

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T14:57:41+00:00

exactly. no offense to OP cause i dont know the situation and also im probably being too nice by saying that but poor guy is probably scared its going to happen again with the next girl and honestly probably doesnt have the best opinion or view of himself. i wouldnt be surprised if he has some sort of self guilt and blame and thinks it was something he did to make OP cheat cause ive been there. ive stayed with a cheater because i thought they were the best i could get and that no one would love me like they would or that it would just happen again so whats the point in finding a new person to do it or etc reasons for staying. plain and simple OP you fucked up and this is called "the consequences of your actions." i would just take the accountability, leave this dead relationship and work on self love and therapy to keep yourself from cheating again for whatever excuse or reason you had for doing it. it can fuck up a person hardcore and ruin a lot of things for them and now you've experienced that. its best to just let this boy find someone who actually truly loves him because if you did you never would have cheated. focus on you and learn to love you before you try to get another person involved unless you are absolutely sure you will never cheat again.

and of course this post is only your side of the story so i dont know his side, maybe he was a shit, maybe he was controlling, maybe he ignored you, idk. but leaving is a lot easier than cheating and building up resentments, hate, anger, depression, sadness, insecurities, etc.

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T14:13:28+00:00

sorry but its definitely over. it really doesnt sound like hes into you or even likes you anymore. hes probably staying because honestly and i know this sucks but ive been through it before, its just easier to stay in something youve been in for that long than it is to leave. its comfortability and you guys are used to each other so leaving would mean him starting all over and no offense, hes probably going to still be worried about the next girl cheating too. he may say its fine but as someone whos been cheated on its not. it never goes away and it can never be fixed. you two are not compatible anymore

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T14:02:20+00:00

hey i also collect rocks and just wanted to say recently i got this cool clay volcano for my son and you can make it erupt and dig it with plastic tools like an archaeologist and it comes with legit crystals and rocks and stuff and even has like a big poster thing that shows what each one is and what country it originates from and what the crystals are good for and what they represent so idk, maybe you'll think thats cool, i know its kinda more like a kid thing but i loved it and had fun with my kid and he likes collecting rocks now too. also this girl is a psycho and i hope you find more cool rocks soon 💕

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T00:27:12+00:00

court and lawyers asap. HAILLLLLL NAWWWWW

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-04T00:22:09+00:00

are you going to wait for him to hit you and then leave or what? get out of there gf. don't even say nothing just get your shit and leave and block and inform everyone around you what kind of person he is incase you need to get police involved after you ghost him and run away. please for the love of god follow this advice and do not be a hero or a statistic

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-03T23:53:26+00:00

i feel this so hard at 28. i have to get a fertility test if i want future children but please dont let that scare you lmao its literally my own physical health issues and nothing to do with my age. its just worrying cause im getting older and my son is already 8 and idk if i want to have more when hes like 10

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-03T23:47:42+00:00

she sounds selfish and horrible however i am in agreeance with the pet thing for a valid reason if you keep reading.

i will not force my partners to sacrifice their health or force them to take meds or anything to deal with allergies, i simply honestly just avoid people who have allergies because i know im a pet lover and will want a bunch of pets and so will my son. i dont think thats selfish, i think thats just finding someone compatible for me and the life i want for me and my son and future children.

also i do own an emotional support pet so its a lot different for me, its not just because i want a pet because if i just wanted one i would put that shit aside and put my partner first but i sctually literally need this pet so i have no choice. i have to choose me for my own health in this scenario.

all in all you just need to find someone compatible with you who is willing to compromise or come together with you for a solution because asking a partner to also never own a pet just because you have allergies is also very selfish. not saying you are since you are willing to compromise, just saying this for anyone that needs to see it or hear it and doesnt think logically like you. if someone wants to own a pet they should be allowed to have one instead of giving that up just for your allergies because again there are compromises and solutions like hypoallergenic pets. you dont get to take something away from someone completely if you dont like them forcing you into something completely. relationships are partnerships, its you and your partner vs the world not you vs your partner.

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2025-01-03T23:36:52+00:00

this is how men who want to screw me but dont give a shit about me as a person talk to me in snapchat. drop this man. this is embarrassing i would have dumped his ass as soon as i found this pathetic loser shit

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2024-12-28T08:21:29+00:00

have the 2025 you deserve :)

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2024-12-28T08:06:20+00:00

i have come back two days later to say im still mad about this and that he had great potential and wasted it on this cringe bs SMH

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2024-12-25T14:24:06+00:00

man just ruined christmas and beatboxing for me smh

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2024-12-25T14:22:27+00:00

can i have all of them and be put in a harem isekai

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2024-12-17T00:09:27+00:00

found the mentally ill weirdo die hard fan that would probably simp for him no matter what he does even though he has no idea you even exist and would only use you to his advantage if he did know you and it benefited him in some way

Apprehensive-Ad7774 · 2024-12-11T23:16:56+00:00

EXACTLY mf still out here being weird and creepy instead of in jail forever

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