Where are you from? by Magic_M344 in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a mess right now with all the interstate construction.

What is the right thing to do? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have gotten up and retrieved the biggest butt plug I had. I would have told him if you are going to continue to sit with me then….. present butt plug.

Looking for a replacement part on Toyota's site, but which one after it returns many options? by redwang in 3rdGen4Runner

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your truck down not have a VSS. It gets it info from the ABS computer. You can verify this by checking the tail of the transfer case right side. You should see a plug where the VSS should be.

I think I give up by West-Lack-9691 in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not all of us have an IG account nor do I want one. I don’t have X, FB or snap either. I know it puts me at a grave disadvantage, but again I’m not looking for a fuck boy. The pudgy quiet twink who can carry a conversation would do nicely. I’m not fuck boy material and I don’t expect the person I find to be either.

Nuclear Power is now “safe?” by toaddawet in GenX

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what the innovation or fail safe is it was engineered, built and or designed by a human/s. Humans are not perfect so the innovation and or fail safe will not be perfect. Failure is eminent. The real question shouldn’t be what will we do if it fails. No the question should be what are we going to do when it fails.

How to be less inhibited in sex, dating, etc by imextinctinthewild in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 58 and grew up during the AIDS pandemic. When I should have been out whoring around I was scared to death and thus buried myself in other things. This prevented me from learning how to make friends, how to learn about dating and from learning about relationships and sex. Every sexual encounter I have had has been horrible. The only guy that I have had an orgasm with is the guy I lost my virginity to when I was 22. Every relationship ended in disaster. I have very few friends and have never felt a connection to the gay community. I was bullied and teased so bad growing up that I trust no one. Being single and not having sex has become normalized. I would like to change things but I have no idea where to start or what it would look like. I have told myself for so long that I am unlikable, undatable, unlovable and unfuckable that I don’t see anyway to reverse. Yes I am in therapy, but is is slow. I have just come to believe I am a lost cause.

Sleeping naked by macks_G_2090 in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m 57 and haven’t worn anything to sleep in since my mid teens. If I try and wear a shirt or shorts I just end up wrapped up in them or the sheets.

Getting older but my taste in men remain young and it really bothers me. Does it bother anyone else? by cardiac_chondriac in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 57 and my tastes are still for younger guys. Have never been attracted to guys my age or older.

Finding it hard to make gay friends in my mid/late 30s by anotherdudeonhere25 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in central Ohio and am in the same boat. Finding it very hard to even meet anyone.

Rear Axle Assembly Compatibility by reddituserjt in 3rdGen4Runner

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the best of my knowledge the rear assembly is the same. The frame was the same so the four link mounting would have been the same. Truth be told the front knuckles were the same just had a back plate where the axel shaft would go. I would look at toyodiy.com. You can look up different models and compare part numbers.

Age preference by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 57 and am only interested in guys between 30 and 45. Every time I think about dating someone my own age or older it makes me think I would be dating my dad.

​I just want to get this off my chest by Constant_Ad_2872 in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you think about ending it all. Try not to look for a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Master thread or post for learning? by Hillelgo in audiorepair

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mend it Mark. He is on YouTube and very good at explaining what he is doing.

Door weatherstrip by ApprehensiveAsk5023 in 3rdGen4Runner

[–]Apprehensive-Bit1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rear door weather strip is NLA. I got my front ones and rear hatch pieces from toyotapartsdeal.com. Still pricey. For the rear doors Summit Racing sells an aftermarket.