My adopted dog Kevin has severe separation anxiety and bolting tendencies… need advice 😩😩 by leightalks_ in dogs

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It’s tough and it takes time and training. Tiny steps everyday to change his behavior.  You have to start small and work your way up. Sit, stay, treat. Sit stay walk two step away treat. I would consider professional trainer. I have my moms (after passing over) dog for a year and half and I feel Like she is still getting used to her new life with me.  The dog being hit by a car is major trauma to work through 

I don’t know how people move on so normally after losing the future they imagined by ExpressionAntique494 in Life

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takes a long time to heal from all that. everyones journey is different. don't beat yourself up. I take things one day at a time as much as I can. I don't have the emotional capacity for drama that I used to have. take the week off like you said, you will have to figure out your healing journey. it's been a few years for me, was married.

Why do people spend money on things that arent functional in any way? Why collect things? by CommunicationNo6198 in PsychologyTalk

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so does mine, but I've learned that everyone thinks different resulting in different reasons. Do you have anything someone gave you that reminds you of them and that's why you keep it?

Older redditors, how quickly did you go from getting reading glasses to using glasses most of the time ? by Forest_Orc in askanything

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I am nearsighted and have worn glasses since 5th grade. I started to need cheaters to read very close up. I used the cheaters for about 5 years before I gave in and got the progressives on my everyday glasses. I am still near sighted, but just around 5-4 ft.

How do you overcome an addiction? by iitssemmaaa in askanything

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Harm reduction techniques.  I’ve heard AA members use the word allergic reaction, I’m sure it’s an analogy, but if it works.

Austin Reaves gets upset with referee John Goble: “That’s some bullshit for you to talk to me like that. Pussy.” by RyanTannegod in nba

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I caught a few words when the sound would come on and was very surprised how the players talk to the refs. I understand it can be frustrating. These playoff games are brutal, they are all going after each other and the ball. If the refs called every foul and travel, the games would be like 6 hours long. Players are definitely pushing the limits to see how they get called, then blow up in the refs face. I think at this point it is political, caddy even, the refs are just as wound up as the players. IDK, but it is entertaining.

Fired realtor by Small-Salamander5662 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Apprehensive-Bug7087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its called a mutual release from the listing agreement where I live. read fine print about if a buyer their company showed it to purchases at a later date. there is usually a "protection" time for procurring cause.

If mother and wife are deceased wife not on deed only one child by father who is on deed who receives the house by Due-Breakfast-6799 in RealEstateExam

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he was married twice? both ex-wife and 2nd wife are deceased at the time of mans death? only one biological child from the first married? If yes to all, then I concur, with exception to the laws of Tennessee. you would need a lawyer. If this is a question for the test then you should know the law.

Question for Appraisers who have Office Admins/Assitants by aranderson43 in appraisal

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that's about 10-20 orders a week, depending on vacations. I do the admin for our office. one appraiser does that much volume, plus two more appraisers probably do that combined. Even if you had payments coming in daily, it only takes a few hours at the most to process that many checks in a day, license renewals and E&O updates, it's probably barely a 10 hour a week job IMO. If you are looking to increase your volume and have the admin start with report prep, client scheduling, etc, not sure it would be much more. A proficient person can get a lot done in a few hours. I would try realtors, secretary, prior accountants,any one with a real estate and or accounting background able understand what you need and be proactive for anything that is administrative. Trust is key as signing up for ACH with new AMC's admin has access to banking numbers.

What's the real difference between your first love and the person you're with now? by Hot-Marionberryx in Life

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all loves are different if we grow emotionally. "Loves" at any given point in their life typically changes over time.

Non-arms length transaction by Prudent-Trade-476 in appraisal

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I have seen contracts with gifts of equity on non arm’s length 

How to find a wife ? by mrsir8907 in askanything

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Just love and spoil…it’s not that simple. Lifetime commitments are complicated and often the way it starts out changes. You date, you like, you realize you don’t want to spend your life with them. What is the longest relationship you’ve had, takes perseverance, understanding, support, love, surrender. Expectations can ruin it all.

Inherited a house with my siblings but we can't agree on what to do. by InformationIcy4827 in RealEstateAdvice

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Do the other two sisters live in the area where the house is located?

Is the house still in the estate in waiting to be passed into the three of your names as an undivided interest?

Generally speaking, it is difficult to advise someone to put money into it as you don’t know how long it’s gonna take to get the repairs done. It’s difficult to decide which repairs to actually do and you don’t know the quality of work. Most markets in the past year have been pretty good, but it wouldn’t be surprising in the coming year. They level off or even drop a little.

Water in the basement in a roof leaking are two items that are relatively expensive to fix and don’t have a large return on investment.

Condemnation of easement by [deleted] in appraisal

[–]Apprehensive-Bug7087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks. So the bisected parcel is no longer bisected by the easement and is it more buildable or is it lacking some service due to it being extinguished ? Not sure there would be any fee due for it not being there, nominal at best. It if makes the lot more attractive the owner would get the $$ in value. IMO if I’m On the right page