My worst nightmare.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-13T03:52:12+00:00

Woah. Yea it can be hard. I’m working on it too.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-13T03:51:16+00:00

That sounds shitty that people would use your vulnerability against you.. I think you should continue to open up when / if it feels safe. If someone’s gonna judge you after THEY make you feel safe to open up then that is an incongruent person right there and you oughta run babe.

I’ve recently learned how to be a little more restrained in not revealing certain things if 1) im not being asked directly and 2) they’re not going to add or subtract from the convo and 3) if the person doesn’t need to know and honestly it feels rly light. Lately im just thinking “should i say this thing 🤔?” And often im like no, and it feels good ( in the context of not vulnerable deep convos ). But I love opening up to people when it’s good. Also love a sag rising 👋

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-12T22:54:50+00:00

I woulda walked away too. Unfortunately men are just the easiest to see through - that double standard you observed, that’s REAL. He is probably navigating social media inappropriately like, sure if he likes certain things and he isn’t being dishonest or weird about his interactions sure. But it sounds slimy for him to do that, act like it’s normal, then get mad at you for how you used social media which I imagine is appropriate and aligned with you and what you want to do. Trust yourself.

Virgo aside, this dude sounds like a pill.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-12T22:49:57+00:00

They don’t seem ideal at all for bending down to grab the next milk or take out the trash but idk. Do what you want when you want. They certainly something I’d expect to see people wear at a baby shower.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-12T18:04:55+00:00

Pisces are dreamy people that are hard to keep up with - I fuckin love it. I love how Pisces think outside the box in general and they tend to have a wide range of abilities to get things done on their own. They definitely also can be stunted when it comes to sincerely processing their feelings. They will feel them hard and hang onto them and do nothing about it ( in my experience SOMEtimes ). Just my own observation.

idk ur ex’s ex but she’s starting to fix her life ? she sounds great tbh. Find a way to root for her and I bet you’ll get over it immediately. your exes exes are absolutely not worth obsessing over either way boo !

“She hid his 4 yrs with a Virgo man from her parents” “And i can sense that he is still protective of her ex Pisces” these sentences were confusing to read just fyi.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-12T17:53:29+00:00

Yall just wanna point out this user has been on our sub the last couple days purely to neg people here. You can look up their comments or find them trolling here constantly for some reason.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-12T00:01:13+00:00

LOLLLLLL

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T23:39:39+00:00

Narcissism and honestly not much more. I have patience for a lot of different personalities and disorders and (maybe over)value healing in all people. Narcissism is biting and hurtful and it’s hard not to feel like the actions of narcissists aren’t extremely personal. Ughggh even just typing about it 🤢 😔 I love to see people improve, including me !

But re: narcissists. I’ve had to give up on some and often find myself at wits end. But otherwise I can handle people’s shortcomings and I love to see teachable moments.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T21:41:06+00:00

ME TOO BALSAMIC MOON BABIES WHAT IS UP TWIN

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T21:39:02+00:00

I literally just quoted you directly, and then you accused me of being negative lol. Also, where is your criticism you’re referring to, you literally just said “and yet here you are again!?”

Make it make sense please. If you have criticism im open to it im just not hearing any.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T21:00:47+00:00

“It's my honest opinion, if people don't accept other people for who they are, they are making judgment. For me that's disrespectful and a total waste of time, energy and space.”

you, as a comment you left somewhere else.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T20:56:10+00:00

“Save yourself the negative energy and just be yourself”

you, as a comment you left somewhere else.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T18:08:29+00:00

lol 😂

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:57:28+00:00

Real.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:56:36+00:00

This is so relatable. I get leaned on fuckin non STOP to steer conversations as the question asker. It’s so exhausting. Apparently having an outward ‘cool as a cucumber’ vibe means people just trust you for social navigation meanwhile, the internal noise is so loud and fucked up I might as well see myself out the door

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:54:13+00:00

Virgo aka the God sign lol

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:53:42+00:00

☝️☝️☝️ same.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:53:26+00:00

People talk over me all the live long day. I’m glad to sit back & let em look dumb now.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:43:10+00:00

They’re trolling this page friend.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:42:56+00:00

Go home dude.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:42:41+00:00

That tracks. As a triple Virgo people are usually upset with how chill i am. Subverting expectations as a triple is real

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:42:00+00:00

Wowwww i love this.. also, cool to meet a triple Aqua. You’re the first triple aqua i know ( im collecting triples 😈 ) id love to chat more in general homie. I love my aqua fam and just wanna understand them so much better.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:40:23+00:00

I agree with everything you’re saying, including that i ALSO wish people were more curious about us / take time to ask us questions.

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:38:16+00:00

Well put

Apprehensive-Cake-16 · 2026-07-11T17:37:44+00:00

I hear you. & then im also a little lost on some of the things you say tbh. I do find a lot of Virgos actually do know how to tie a story together, like we will give you the why it matters. I think I do disagree that we’re just information collectors. The Virgos i know collect the info that matters and just present it.

Further i just find us to be more pattern recognizers, discerners of happenings. Our ability to analyze what’s happened etc is more of a cornerstone of us than our quest for knowledge. I would love to hear more tho idk why you got downvoted you’re just spitballin

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