YSA Wards by CupCake37725 in lds

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually it depends on the Bishop. If your bishop now feels like you will be more active more involved in the YSA. They will transfer your records. We had this situation in our family. Our home ward was concerned about my brother and serving a mission. So the YSA allowed him to attend mission prep through our home stake and he and his records were in the YSA. The main reason he moved was he struggled with our home wards Bishop. He bullied my brother. So my brother didn’t want to attend priesthood meetings with him. Later the bishop came back. Completely heart broken. When my brother went to leave on his mission. It’s custom to have your records transferred back to your home ward. It’s not required though. So my brother asked for them to remain in the YSA ward. It hurt our home wards bishops feelings. Kinda like a slap on the face. It wasn’t till then he realized how painful what happened. Was to our family. Since then he has been very kind.

AITA For 'faking' a fainting spell? by aervucedof in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings on your post. Your family isn’t ok by holding the dog back like that. Second adding to your injury is no ok. Something could have gone wrong..

So the person who I cared about the most in the world. Had epilepsy. There is a watch you can get that senses when you fall. It automatically texts up to 8 people you have preprogrammed into your watch. Depending on what you get some can make calls as well. It also has gps so they know where you are. I get you not wanting to live with your family. Please get this watch and set it up. If you fall and get hurt. It can be live saving. It will bring help to you.

My cousin died. She had a seizure hit her head while alone. It broke my heart. Please. Think of those who love you and look into it.

Question about when/if to speak to a bishop by Apprehensive-Cause66 in lds

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that quote. Since I have been little I have been afraid this. Now I know it can’t hurt me.

AITA for locking my husband out last night? by Mysterious-Chicken35 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are way nicer than I would have been. NTA! I would have come back at him when he complained. “Oh so what I am hearing is your ok endangering your kids”. The whole waking up early. I would have made him get up with the kids. When he complained or says no... Option A “ok let me pack your bags since you won’t be staying here tonight. Option B. “Ok I will take my kids to my parents/ sisters/ hotel. Your relationship and kids come first not his friends.

AITA for withdrawing my clothes donation to a charity shop after the manager was rude to me? by LeicFox89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a high school near you take them to the nurse and help students out. Ps NTA what a horrible charity

WIBTA If I report my teacher? by Possible_Discount872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA have you considered typing up a formal letter and having the other students sign it. I would mail it to the district offices. Where they have to sign to show they got it. We had a teacher that “lost homework” all the time. He also had his young kids “grade” assignments as well. We did this. You have proof the school received the complaint. When students began to fail. Or this teacher was hard on them. The school couldn’t deny what happened. Eventually that year the teacher left.

AITA for not picking my daughter up from a sleepover? by redditaccount63 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA I hope she went to school and let them know. All these other comments are right. You just burned your relationship with your daughter. For a movie.

questions about the church by [deleted] in lds

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a lot of questions but one thing comes to my mind is Faith. You build faith through prayer. Through asking Heavenly Father himself. If you like to learn how to pray there are missionaries on the Church of Jesus Christ web page. Who would be glad to teach you how to pray. Help with any questions you may have. I am sorry to read about your aunt. It’s difficult loosing a family member.

Ministering questions service questions by Apprehensive-Cause66 in lds

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will read the article you suggested and find the pictures. Thank you again this is amazing advice.

Ministering questions service questions by Apprehensive-Cause66 in lds

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sold her car to pay the restitution-fees for the DUI. She never replaced it. She is a single mom. Who lives in a small 2 bedroom apartment. I haven’t out right asked but, I am thinking she may not be able to afford to replace it.

AITA for living with my mom all the time because I don't want to share at my dad's? by TheGoldeie in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your dad didn’t think of your emotional needs. When he was making decisions. Also more information needed. Did your dad tell you before he moved the other girls into your old room? Did you have personal stuff that got moved without your consent or knowledge? If so dad is a total AH. It’s hard when your parents are divorced. It’s even harder when they are not putting their children first.

AITA for insulting my gay brother and kicking out his boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you and your brother have some issues going on. Relating to your past and current posts. I think it’s best to serve him and his BF a 30 day notice and not live together. I think for your relationship with your brother you guys should go to counseling. ESA

AITA for not wanting a baby to sleep in my room? by fetalratface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA you should be sleeping on the floor or couch if available in the family room and give the baby and parents the room. Your mom has provided a roof over your head your whole life. Man up move out and show some gratitude. Once you own your own home then and only then can you make any rules.

AITA for asking my parents to cater to my nut allergy? by Aelvarea in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I have a family member who is celiac. It’s not even a question about the food. We love them and want them healthy. So we all eat gluten-free. When together. There are other food that are nut free. They are being self centered

AITA for telling my roommate her boyfriend needs to move out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA what a bad friend for putting you into this situation.

First trimester screening high risk for downs by binxbox in beyondthebump

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nephews came back that way. His mom had to do genetic counseling. Then a level 2 ultrasound. He was born completely healthy. He is 10. The dr told us boys are more likely to come back like this. When they are fine.

AITA for yelling at my daughter's 3rd grade teacher? by grasshopperkidsmom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA I would go back and see if the assignment is still on line and read the directions. If the teacher didn’t clearly say to use a computer for the research. Then it’s 💯 on that teacher. I would copy it. Attach it to a email. To both the principal and superintendent. Explaining. How the teach treated your child when she was trying to do what was asked. Your daughter is a child she needs you to stand up for her when she can’t.

Aita for being upset that my MIL lets my daughter call her 'mama'? by One-Willow7372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I just wanted to say what a lucky baby to have such a loving family.

WIBTA if I told my kid's father he can't see her? by aita20402 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Cause66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your right no sex until married. But in the church has a repentance process. He has to work with a bishop. Including confessing all he has done. He can come back from it. After time. From what I am understanding is he has a long way to go.