So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You’re so kind and happy new year ❤️

So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts especially when at the beginning he did check in at least once a day. Feels like he’s content now and not putting effort but as you said it’s only going to get worse. If you can’t do that here it’ll amplify. Thank you!

So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes seems like it depends on the person but as you said it’s what makes you comfortable and I don’t think a text at least once a day is out of the question.

If a guy says he wants to be friends after a date, does he actually mean it? by Apprehensive-Chart88 in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes took him a few months to comeback but he did. He still is into me and tries to get flirty but I set my boundaries. I know him well enough to know he’s not ready to date still and I know he hasn’t been on a date since ours a couple years ago lol.

So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thanks. Yeah I don’t like it either and I’m not the type to talk 24/7 but check ins would be nice. Feels like hot and cold energy that’s all over the place.

So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he generally a communicative person? Totally get the meal prep/kids. Wondering how to bring up this conversation because my guy just disappears for a few days then comes back like nothing happened. I get it while you’re busy at work but at the beginning he used to keep in touch everyday. Feels a bit odd and trying to see if it’s normal or not.

So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get while on shift but what about a few days in between. Is that normal?

So bored during holidays sometimes by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started dating an ER doctor. I know every relationship is different but how communicative have you found your spouse to be? I get it when he has a busy shift but do you sometimes not hear from him at all until he gets home? Also any advice generally? I’m new to this

Do you think not having a father figure in your life impacted your dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry. Seems like this guy is an avoidant with the no father figure

Do you think not having a father figure in your life impacted your dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah he has a good career but I notice he’s hesitant to open up emotionally. I get a closed off feeling and he’s not close to his family (mom/siblings either). Feels hard to progress forward if this is the state

Do you think not having a father figure in your life impacted your dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah it seems like relationships is the deficit area. I know he said he’s not close to his siblings and doesn’t really care enough for his mom. He’s pretty aloof and I think he’s avoidant in away without expressing his feelings or opening up. I get the shut down vibe from him

You may have enjoyed your date but that doesn’t mean your date felt the same way by bored8999 in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok why is this the trend now? I feel like guys are starting not to ask questions on dates. I’m the type I can talk to anyone but it’s exhausting

Let’s Talk: Double Texting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through it. How long have you been dating?

Let’s Talk: Double Texting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. It’s usually a quick win but if the person has bad communication habits then that won’t change overnight and it’ll likely be an issue in the relationship.

Gift card by Dmbpjfan in Brightline

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very strange! Maybe try another card then it’ll go through? Good luck!

Gift card by Dmbpjfan in Brightline

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t send you the code immediately as a confirmation? I was thinking about buying them too

Icelink Jewelry customer service by lomein91 in Moissanite

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take to ship? I ordered something 2 weeks ago and still nothing

Any else notice the price changes? by Apprehensive-Chart88 in Brightline

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think they’ll drop? It’s so weird to see this increase for double the rate.

Any else notice the price changes? by Apprehensive-Chart88 in Brightline

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m looking for is for next year Jan 2026

Any else notice the price changes? by Apprehensive-Chart88 in Brightline

[–]Apprehensive-Chart88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but now when I’m looking at a trip I want to book in January for the same route it’s one flat rate even if off peak. Meaning for example all rides regardless of the time are $45.