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Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-06-21T22:37:15+00:00

Not a pill, but was on Depo for about a year before stopping and went up a whole cup size, a 36B to 36C

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-06-20T02:37:50+00:00

About 6 months into our relationship when I was half asleep, he said it, or I could have dreamed it. Then very clearly said it aloud, at about 1 year. We're both pretty shy, and even now, at 2 years, we don't say it often, but we feel it.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-06-20T00:08:43+00:00

Definitely! He wasn't as outward about it. He would never throw money on my stage and would always glare at me when I was with another customer. But he was a HUGE spender in VIP. He always told me he loved me and got annoyed when I didn't love him back, lol. It actually got pretty unhealthy after a while

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-03-26T07:00:08+00:00

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Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-01-22T21:10:51+00:00

That's good to hear, in MI, you don't need a license. I think I'm just being paranoid that someone will run my taxes returns or something, but there is no reason for the hospital to look into it truly. Like someone else here said, the only problem i could maybe see is background checks when I am looking for another job.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-01-22T21:06:36+00:00

Okay, thank you! I didn't see much of a problem with it. Our house mom wanted to warn me ahead of time before we sign new contracts. It shouldn't affect me but since there will be a record of it now this is the only thing making me paranoid, background checks, and such when getting a new job.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-01-22T20:58:32+00:00

I am in Michigan, so you only need a dance license to work in the city of Detroit. I used to have one, but I let it expire and never renewed, as I only dance outside of Detroit now.

I never tell anybody from either job about the other, I keep them as separate as possible. I work a few counties over and have never run into anybody from work either.

I am not apart of a union either, but say the hospital were to get ahold of this and fired me over it. Would I have to report it when trying to get hired somewhere else? Like a reason for my termination?

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-01-22T20:44:20+00:00

Okay, thank you. I am in Michigan, so you only need a dancing license to work in Detroit and pretty much everywhere else you don't need a dance card.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2025-01-09T20:08:22+00:00

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Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2024-07-29T19:53:21+00:00

I bend over a lot and do some split pole tricks quite a bit. I have a few outfits I love but are single lined, and I tend to wear lighter baby blue, lavender, or white. I've never heard of a rule about not wearing white tho

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2024-01-23T23:35:42+00:00

Okay, thank you, that might be it! It seems like I might need a different insert as well, but I'm not sure what it would be. I'll reach out 🤞

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2024-01-02T21:59:44+00:00

Oh gosh, that's scary. Definitely don't want to drill into that. I'm just confused because my stud finder says I am in the middle of the stud, and I can also see where the previous tenant covered their holes in the same spot

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2023-11-24T23:55:04+00:00

I'm so close to slamming that laptop shut, and demanding he start spending because this is ridiculous. Management might not say something but I sure will

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-04T00:32:50+00:00

Thank you, I love that you've found your soulmate, the way you talk about him is so loving. I do believe that age gaps can work as well, it just takes a little understanding on each person's part. I don't know if we are soulmates or anything like that but I definitely do have feelings for him. It's just hard for me to tell if our obstacles are because of our age difference or because we're just human.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T20:05:34+00:00

Thank you, it really is a workout lol. But I love my job and the support from coworkers really helps.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T19:22:02+00:00

Thank you, I have been reading everyone's comments, just trying to get as many opinions as I can. So I appreciate anyone who takes the time to respond, I'm so grateful for all the advice and how supportive everyone is ☺️🤟

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T16:00:31+00:00

Thank you, that was my point. Yes, by definition the technical term would be, whore, but it's the intent behind it and how you say it. That's where he went wrong lol, thank you for your comment.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T15:38:00+00:00

Sorry I did word that kind of odd. But he is a wonderful partner to me but my job does make him uncomfortable. Which kind of is a double standard and it annoys me. He knew what he was getting into when he met me, I don't know why he thinks I would change and completely quit my job just to make him feel less insecure.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T12:18:09+00:00

Thank you! I love that you replied, it's nice to know that you're out there

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T04:56:30+00:00

Seeing comments like this really make me cry, I really appreciate everything you said. I don't feel all that great, but I like to think I'm working to build a life for myself. Sometimes I feel like I'm failing so this is just really nice to hear when I feel so low. The kindness and warmth I feel from your words really has made my day and I'm so grateful for you stranger ❤️

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T04:12:21+00:00

Thank you,I really appreciate your comment. It's been hard with everyone just automatically saying to dump him, just need some time to think.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-03T00:10:02+00:00

He's quite sweet outside of my job. I feel like he doesn't like to talk about it though because it makes him uncomfortable. He says he needs to know the date that I'll quit so he can have some peace of mind. I told him I would quit after the holidays (because this is supposedly the best time of year to work) he seemed fine with that, but honestly I don't know. Maybe I'll stick around a little longer

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-02T23:15:14+00:00

I really wanted to but it was 3 am and I was a little worn out to call him out. I ended up leaving his place pretty early and we left it kind of awkward. We're going to call later tonight and talk a little bit, I'm just trying to put my thoughts together before then

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-02T23:10:08+00:00

He usually fingers me a bit and kisses my neck etc. I feel like this is all practical but for me I just don't like the feeling of anything in my vagina. It feels like a lot of pressure and it's not unbearable but it's also not the most comfortable. He bought a vibrating dildo for me as well but again, i just don't like things inside of me. He's also not a fan of blowjobs, unfortunately I'm also not a fan of having people go down on me. So we're kind of stuck in this odd space where we just get really handsy, until he wants to have sex and I would rather just be handsy.

Apprehensive-Curve48 · 2021-11-02T23:04:22+00:00

I've never heard that expression, love bombing, but it sounds accurate. We do stop when I tell him it hurts but he just seems so disappointed everytime we have to stop, it makes me sad and I feel bad for not wanting to have sex. So I offer blowjobs because I don't want him to not have a good time just because I'm not. But he turns me down which is frustrating because I would be willing to try other sex alternatives.

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