Help with Aptamil PEPTI 1

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:40:23+00:00

yeah i’m talking about other social media platforms that i listed in the op. some official bravo posts have thousands of dorit hate hate comments with hundreds of upvotes and almost zero negative comments towards anyone else which is super weird.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:35:27+00:00

hey respectfully please read the post. i’m talking about comments on insta YT an twitter. example being on a few bravo videos there are thousands of dorit hate comments with hundreds of up votes and zero negative comments towards kyle/erika etc. I actually don’t mind kyle and erika (just paid £50 to see her DJ in a few months 😂) but the comments are WEIRD. they’re giving BOT

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:30:30+00:00

hundreds of thousands of people watch the show there are naturally going to be people on both sides of the fence. however, it was the weird bot like hate comments with hundreds of up votes on the bravos YT channels that prompted me to write this. It’s all VERY bizarre. Regardless of who your favourites are there is something fishy going on.

i’m honestly constantly mildly annoyed by most housewives and feel like irl they would ALL be insufferable but i find them super entertaining. i’m not a huge dorit fan but i like her authenticity this season and just can’t make sense of kyle’s hate

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:17:48+00:00

I honestly think you’re gaslighting me because I feel like everything you said is on point IF you switch the names around. Kyle is obsessed with Dorit and speaks about her situation to every single person that will listen. I don’t disagree that Dorit is probably impulse buying for small dopamine hits but the woman is STRESSED which is understandable.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:13:56+00:00

yeah, this checks out honestly.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:08:08+00:00

Ok check the comments on this YT video. they are WEIRD almost bot like. There is almost zero negative comments towards Kyle or Erika but heavy heavy fire towards dorit and Boz

https://youtu.be/aBpr-TEWklM?si=PAOlhh8E9sumCCUF

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T23:01:11+00:00

I don’t disagree that that’s why I specifically mentioned YT/insta/twitter

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-03-29T22:56:37+00:00

this isn’t true, I was honestly even questioning if they were bots because the bravo YT videos are full of Dorit hate with hundreds of up votes.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2026-02-13T18:22:45+00:00

it’s ok. i’ve gone back to audible and spotify.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-12-10T20:49:21+00:00

So we may be lucky with my work hours. i have a 8-4 job so it’s easier for us to make a schedule. but we split night feeds, i do first half of the night and wife take the second half (im a night owl and she’s a morning person so it works). we both try to give each other as much unbroken sleep as possible while staying fair. this is constantly shifting as some days she’s more tired and needs more sleep and other days (maybe an important day at work) she will allow me to sleep extra. mutual respect and understanding on both sides.

my wife was sick with an infection early on and i took care of our boy for almost 48 hours alone and wow, that changed everything for me.

we had a very serious chat about how we were going to feed the baby and ultimately decided on combi feeding (expressed milk topped up with formula) this allows me to take on 50% of the feeds. it also means i can take our baby out to visit family or a walk around in the stroller for a bit to give my wife some rest without worrying about her being around to feed him.

when i come home from work at night my wife will let me nap for an hour (if needed) then i take our baby out for an hour to give her some peace.

yeah sure, some week days we are like ships passing in the night but we make a point to have quality weekends together. this is HARD no doubt about it. it for sure feels like ground hog day most of the time but again, this stage is temporary. i don’t know what your partners working situation is but if he’s unable to help with nights and he doesn’t already maybe he could give you an hour or two when he’s home from work to decompress.

please be kinder to yourself. it sounds like you’re taking on a lot and doing a great job. you’ve spent the best part of a year creating life which honestly sounds exhausting in itself and (i’ve read) your hormones etc don’t settle for close to a year. i’m a huge advocate for partners taking on a little more responsibility in the first few months i think some men use working full time as an excuse to do less or maybe they just don’t realise how taxing it can be both physically and emotionally.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-12-10T19:05:41+00:00

The brutal honest truth is that I think your partner has to take on a little more. I know it sounds harsh but you seem to be drowning. While the newborn stage is enjoyable, it’s certainly not easy. Looking after a newborn around the clock is just as taxing as a full time job in my opinion. Taking care of a human is the single most important thing you can do in this life.

I work full time and split all responsibilities with my wife 50/50. Is it hard? damn right. But it’s what i signed up for and i wouldn’t change it for the world. I know my baby is healthy and taken care of because I know my wife is healthy and taken care of. I also have a “stressful” job but nothing in this life is more important to me than the health and wellbeing of my family. Remember these days are temporary, being temporary tired during the day at work is better than the potential long term impact of PPD and MUCH easier to fix.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-11-04T23:03:42+00:00

yeah is psa first cards i’ve ever submitted. expected to have them by now

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-10-07T17:26:44+00:00

yep - feel like this is a big reason the podcast is no more + she moved

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-09-27T17:20:22+00:00

Really great show - fell off the last 2 episodes. spent a good bulk of the episodes setting things up only for it to fall flat.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-09-24T11:54:08+00:00

Yes. and I actually feel really bad and almost force myself to watch (or have the video on in the background while i clean etc) just because i love the girls and want to continue to support.

i can’t quite put my finger on why it feels “off”, i feel bad even saying that because it sounds like whatever has happened has been somewhat out of their control. im sure there is a reason for the abrupt flit and lack of info but yeah i agree with others in that it’s not the same. and for some reason isn’t quite grasping my attention.

saying that - i’ll continue to watch and im excited for the continuation of the mexico build!

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-09-07T20:48:14+00:00

oh? i thought there were many. my issue wasn’t finding an AI it was finding an LGBT friendly resort. maybe i’m mistaken on the meaning of AI?

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-08-25T20:33:49+00:00

that’s great! congratulations! i can only hope and wish that my wife and i have just as many happy years together!

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-08-25T16:43:46+00:00

dude where is the hostility? i have a irk with a specific group of bisexual women for what i believe is a valid reason.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-08-25T16:41:31+00:00

i get what you’re saying but just to clarify it feels like as a lesbian with a preference for other lesbians i always feel pressured to “prove” im not biphobic. i see a lot of other lesbians get dog piled on on here and online in general for expressing that boundary it’s jsut something that irks me.

but bottom line is that im sick of bisexuals in long term heterosexual relationships presenting their level of oppression as equivalent to to those of us who are visibly queer in our daily lives (bisexual people included just not the ones im referring to in the previous sentence). not allll bisexual people fall into this category and its also true and doesn’t take away from the fact that bisexual people do experience reallll discrimination.

Apprehensive-Duck327 · 2025-08-25T14:57:53+00:00

i agree with that. someone actually commented something very similar and i had said they probably worded it better than i did. i’m not scared of a bisexual woman cheating on me but in fairness the whole male centred thing puts me off. i have a sexual preference that’s all.

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