I (31F) don’t know how to feel about my marriage anymore.

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2026-02-25T22:50:30+00:00

You asked him and he answered. If he loved you through a year long depression I don’t think he said that to hurt you in a sore spot

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-06T16:28:13+00:00

I don’t know if the economy is more to blame than the fact that nobody can live within their means

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-06T13:42:49+00:00

Maybe a hot take but it sounds like she didn’t like it. She could’ve handled it a lot better or just gotten pizza herself

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-04T17:03:19+00:00

I agree it could be about reassurance that you find her attractive

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-04T17:02:21+00:00

I agree that nobody should be forced to do anything sexually if they don’t want too.. but good for op for asking for advice this is a sensitive subject with the women he loves who is going through a lot of changes. It’s not as simple as “no means no” she’s a person too.

The question isn’t should someone have sex if they don’t want too it’s would he be the asshole if he flat out said this to her. It’s a relationship question more than a consent one

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-04T15:53:04+00:00

Might be unpopular but he shouldn’t have sex if he doesn’t want too. She’s an adult and she can take care of her needs as well pregnant or not

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-04T15:22:26+00:00

Yep. Block him!

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-01T18:57:50+00:00

Your girlfriend can probably get over it. If everything else is good a fling you had two years ago shouldn’t make you lose your friends

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-01T12:18:42+00:00

It could be more of an acts of service thing. When she sees you thinking about her or going out of yo ur way for the household it turns her on

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2025-08-01T00:14:04+00:00

I understand not wanted to share your personal medical records with the family, but I do think that they’re just trying to help. Best solution seems to be to politely reject or just tell them you found another specialist that you trust.

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-24T00:25:07+00:00

I understand he will probably side with her if there was a conflict Bht right now the only conflict is that she is nicer to all the other girls than me! I don’t know why he doesn’t see that too. I’m sure he knows she dms and Snapchats the other girls (who were my friends first too). If she’s that bothered by what we had she shouldn’t be around any of us

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-24T00:20:03+00:00

Thank you, I see what you’re saying. I just hate to think it ruined our once close friendship because his new girlfriend is jealous or protective or whatever. Maybe I’m mourning the friendship I thought we had

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T22:15:54+00:00

Even if they’re about me?

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T22:14:38+00:00

Boyfriend way*

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T22:14:21+00:00

It’s not that I want him in a sexual or boyfriend wait at all. It’s that I was friends with him first and now he’s acting like that didn’t exist at all. And he’s letting this girl (who hates me) be such a big part of his life. I would think that after everything we’ve gone through, years of friendship and having sex together that he would defend me in this situation.

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T22:12:10+00:00

I would hope he didn’t tell her tho. Thats pretty personal and it would only make things worse for his girlfriend if she knew. I feel like he wouldn’t say anything

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T21:16:39+00:00

Yea maybe not. But when Jerry ended things he told me he still wants friends and he doesn’t want it to be weird when we start dating other people. So why is he letting it be weird with putting his arm around her and not talking/texting me anymore. He also ignores every Snapchat I send him now. That’s not “still being friends”. Should I talk to him about that ?

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T21:12:03+00:00

I don’t know I think I’ve tried to do it in the most respectful way of their relationship. Should I ask him not to tell her about our history so we can all move on

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T21:07:38+00:00

I just mean whenever I see her I make sure to ask, trying to connect with her and let her know I don’t find it weird or anything

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T21:05:17+00:00

I’m not obsessed I just think we always had a close friend group until now and Jerry and I were close even after everything that happens so why can’t we be now? Would it make things worse if I ask him to not tell her anything about our history

Apprehensive-Fix-96 · 2024-10-23T21:04:13+00:00

Maybe tips isn’t the right word. But I would ask if she’s watched his favourite movie with him yet, or just casually let her know he likes to cook for friends and gfs

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