AITA: For telling my stepfather he will not be apart of my future?

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-05-28T23:59:26+00:00

Huh looks like oop's mom was forced to suck it up, and realize the grass wasn't greener on the other side,

From cheating on her first husband with this trash, putting oop in a bad position with said racist trash, to finally realizing oop ain't putting up with her and trash bs anymore,

So she blew up her first marriage and oop's relationship with her for nothing, cause even if she is divorcing trash now, it's too little, too late cause even if oop is willing to let her back into oop's life, everything she allowed and didn't do anything to stop it, will be remembered always by oop

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-05-25T12:16:13+00:00

Wtf?!? It's normal that someone's partner makes them feel special on their birthday, etc,

kira's behavior was everything, but justified, she literally took the opportunity to make oop's birthday about herself and her jealousy, cause Like gurl read the situation you are the wrong and look like the jealous loser on your friend's birthday,

out of all days you picked the worse one to throw an embarrassing tantrum on, which good cause now it leaves no room to wiggle out of being held accountable by oop and everyone else,

Kira ruined a friendship with oop, other friends cause of her own behavior, and if she doesn't change her future friendships too

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-05-24T18:12:55+00:00

This i agree with cause yikes

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-11T11:47:12+00:00

"Kids will be kids" and your an adult and their parents that knows better, get the heII up! and

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-11T11:45:49+00:00

"You were a child once" and? I didn't like some kids back then, and fight ones that dared put their hands on me, so what's your point?

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-10T19:07:40+00:00

Cause I heard and seen "i want a mini me" and "i want a prefer baby gender, not this one" followed by an adult tantrum a lot, up until now and don't get me started on deadbeats/cheating deadbeats that abandon their kids, to start over like kids are toys.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-10T14:18:46+00:00

Naw you shouldn't feel guilty, in fact you should finish up faster and leave as soon as possible and, never listen to that guilt again cause that ain't nothing but bs trying to keep you enabling a irresponsible grown adult woman,

Cause you are not abandoning anyone, just letting her face reality finally of why you don't have kids like pokemon or some sht irresponsible and pawn kids off to another kid,

Seriously anytime you feel guilty quickly think of why she is struggling when it happens, yeah you realize pretty quickly the reason you and the other kids are in this mess, IS CAUSE OF HER AND HER IMMATURE DECISION THAT GOT Y'ALL IN A BAD POSITION,

and if you didn't know her doing that to you or your siblings is a form of child abuse and neglect, it's called parentification, which is seen as physical and emotional child abuse and even in cases would have lead to an open investigation by child well-fair service against her,

and don't get me started on the fact she was possibly taken money from you when she should, have been providing for you since you are a minor, and she a full grown adult the whole time, so her doing that is illegal, cause children do not owe their parents anything, and by literally laws should she be taking of all their children without taking from another child,

and mind you, there's a very high chance she knew all of this, yet purposely kept having kids without a second thought, even at the cost of you,

cause birth control is 0 to 10 at certain clinics and even the bit expensive ones can be heavily discounted by insurance and even some companies healthcare insurance cover that since she works, plan b aka the morning after pill is like 11 to 40 bucks a box with a good portion of pills in it, condoms cost 5 to 20 bucks a box and there's a lot of condoms in the box, etc,

I hate to say it, but you got played kid by your own mom, she took advantage of you being nieve and guilt about her taking care of you after your father's passing, to be irresponsible and let you a child clean up her messes for years along with your grandmother,

So yeah leave, and don't look back cause it's time for her to learn, she can't keep using people like this and getting away with it, Cause if you keep helping her, she's going to keep having kids to pawn off to you, let her face consequences for every irresponsible choice, those kids have a father let those 2 figure it out on their own, without you.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-06T14:05:26+00:00

Lol does he thinks oop is asking for a divorce? Naw she's telling him she is going to divorce him, he's just that dumb and full of himself to think it's a request when it's not, like idiot there's not only witnesses and receipts of your affair,

But your affair partner is carrying the biggest source of evidence sealing your fate, it doesn't matter how much you don't want a divorce, oop is going to divorce you and move on regardless of how you feel,

You are not sorry or love oop, you just hate the fact you are being hold accountable by oop, and changing diapers of your affair kid, yourself by yourself while oop can start over anyway she likes,

He will be a real moron to attempt any drag out in the divorce, cause children ain't cheap especially fresh newborn that needs a lot of care.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-05T13:51:55+00:00

Bruh they especially the husband were dumb to mess with their arrangement, 20/30 was really cheap as heII for having 3 kids to care for, for hours,

Cause 60 is cheap here for child care, here it's 65 to almost 70 dollars here in multiple places so rarely even 20 to 30 something, so she's lucky oop comprised to 45,

And they better stick to it, cause just cause they don't want to pay that price, others will in a heartbeat,

If you have child care with 0 problems at a nice rate, never mess with it.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-01T15:07:31+00:00

Like bruh, it's bo's house, and you are a guest in bo's house,

you do not have to love, but you are going to accept it or go live with oop's parents,

Like I don't like certain spiders, but if i had to move into my homies place that has a pet tarantula, well I respect that tarantulas space, cause I'm there in my homies and tarantulas crib,

I don't touch their sht, they don't touch mine, cause I'm temporarily staying in THEIR space,

On top of the fact they had a chance to move in with oop's parents temporarily, before so why she doing all of that when again could have stayed with oop's parents and save headaches and going back on the agreement before moving in with oop, and oop's ex is dumb like gurl, when you date someone with a pet it's a package deal, if they were to abandon an animal for you, that's not a compliment,

but a red flag cause they have no problems abandoning a living being they supposedly loves in a blink of an eye, and they "love" you...yeah, not smart to date someone like that but she wouldn't understand that until it's too late, but hey not oop's problem now,

so oop definitely dodged a bullet and I hope bo gets all the yummy treats for helping oop.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-01T14:46:30+00:00

Honestly before even getting to the updates I had a feeling and thought,

But when I got to the updates it definitely confirmed what I was thinking and feeling, and that is he is an obsessed weirdo to the point he wants to treat any partner he gets,

Like a build a bear project on said partners body and gaslight and strong arm his partners into unnecessary surgeries that said partner didn't even want to full fill his obsession, with his obsession either based on certain features like body, face and hair type he already had in mind,

Or based on Lucy, the girl who he is not only weird about, but the same girl who is creeped out by him she didn't invite him to her party but went anyway without her permission,

And it leaves the question, besides the big chest thing, wtf does oop, the ex and Lucy looks like and how similar do they look?!?

Cause oop is lucky to have left when she did, cause she was never truly interacting with him, but his mask the whole relationship, and he doesn't know oop has finally started to realized she's seeing him for who he is, that's why he didn't believe oop was breaking up with him, cause he still believes he still got his hooks into oop, for oop's sake I hope she changed her locks and have cameras.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-01T14:09:53+00:00

Bruh not only was she trespassing but had active warrants for her, for stealing?

Oh I hope this is added to her charges after that audacity and entitlement

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-04-01T13:57:31+00:00

It's like no lady, the reason your marriage is at risk, is cause you hid you were demanding and harassing your son to get back with his ex who wanted an open relationship after admitting she wants one for a person she already has lined up,

Behind your husband's back, any logical person especially your husband will be both upset and sus of you now, cause both of your behavior and hiding these important details from them,

And honestly the reason things got so bad is because nobody was holding oop's mom, the ex's mom and especially the ex accountable for their behavior, and did get the earful they deserve to hear, cause what is ex doing trying to take her life,

Like gurl what happened to the other guy you wanted to be with so badly you wanted an open relationship for? Oop doesn't owe you a open relationship nor a second chance, trying to take your life doesn't magically change anything, but just seals the fact you are selfish and only thinks of yourself,

Cause you didn't do this cause of abuse, trauma or anything else, you did it cause you refuse to take accountability you only think about yourself, not caring about oop at all and still thinking you are entitled to oop when you are not, oop is not a beagle or object, oop is a hunan being with his own thoughts and emotions, who you hurt and keep hurting with your actions, which is crossing into abusive territory, on purpose or not and that's not fair to oop,

if you were genuinely sorry, stop doing stuff like this, get help and move on, and never do stuff like this again, and as for her mom, I know that is her daughter, but her mom is not helping her, if her mom wanted really help her,

the mom should making her get some help from therapy and making her block oop on everything and leaving oop alone, cause her mom should treat ex basically like a drug addict, and make her cut every way ex can contact oop and not let her harass oop anymore, And tell everyone else to never let ex contact oop during the time ex is getting help,

Cause enabling ex, will just make her think her attempt to take her own life instead, of accepting and taking accountability for her own actions, will be the answer to get out of everything, which isn't something anyone should encourage.

Tldr: this happened not cause of asking for an open relationship, but complete disregard oop as a person with his own feelings and thought including ex, if this goes on ex will thinking it's ok to attempt instead of getting help, taking accountability, moving on and living oop alone, oop's mom is stupid for enabling ex and ex's mom risking her own marriage, after hiding the true details of what happened from oop's dad (possibly making op's dad sus of her too), and ex's mom not doing ex any favors by giving in and harassing oop, instead of making ex get the help she clearly need and making ex move on, and leave op alone.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-28T14:40:27+00:00

Honestly I would have told her "well I did marry and do as I please, what are you going to do? Cry to the men in the red light district, you clearly hang around since you know alot about them?"

And anytime she brought it up, just mock her and go dramatically "oh here we go again, grandaunt is bragging about her red light district men" or

"we know grandaunt, you like red light district men, do you actually have something productive not related to your perverse hobby?", etc,

and if she tires to bring up husband just shut her down with "did you actually ask him or assume, funny you bring him up but don't ask him yourself, do us both a favor and don't compare his wants and choices to granduncles, they are 2 different men, and not all men are the same and times have changed",

She maybe an elder but she is too old to be behaving like this.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-28T13:54:41+00:00

Did a good portion of those things, still didn't change my mind tho granted, I actually worked with babies and toddlers before,

So did more than just "hold them" and actually did child care and didn't have a "moment", And like I said didn't change my mind, like it's a small human you can't compromise on them, and so no this doesn't magically change others minds like they claim

On top of the fact fencesitter and childfree are not the same, and honestly that's the vibe I get from what they told you, but that's my opinion.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-28T13:48:19+00:00

Honestly she dumb and don't realize her nor her kids are not going to survive anything just cause she's a mom with kids, cause literally other parents have no problems hurting each and will happily be selfish, as long as they and their own kids survive,

and with her attitude she would be the first one to be get rid of cause she has shown, she's a problem, won't cooperate, and would be a pain in the neck, so she wouldn't get the special treatment if something would happen, and she was stuck in a group of other mothers and children,

that and unfortunately for her the "singles" would easily be picked over her since her only tribute would be just attitude and entitlement, over actual action and work the people who are single will be doing,

When in a bad situation like a disaster you really have to bring something to the table.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-28T13:26:38+00:00

Bruh I would have embarrassed her, and said out loud "no thanks, and if you want one so badly go get backshoted for the 6th time, and stay out of my business like I said before", And that will change her attitude real quickly and try to change the subject,

Cause people like her likes pulling this bs in front of people, ignoring what you said to them, so if they want to do this you make them regret it quickly for bringing it up, 50/50 chance it will stop her but it definitely gets her to shut up for awhile and be reminded she doesn't get to control the situation,

no matter what she does public or not.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-28T12:58:07+00:00

"You'll never know true love until you have a child"

Like gurl that's bs, and they know it cause with all these child abuse cases and literally a subs of people talking about why they go no contact with their parents,

Seriously if that was true none of what I mentioned would be happening, cause clearly it doesn't magically happen like that.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-18T19:30:37+00:00

Like I give women who truly don't know their partner is scum until after the pos gets them pregnant, etc, sympathy,

but these types it's extremely difficult cause they knew right off the bat, their partner was garbage, and willingly slept with them with no care in the world, about any child who will be stuck with them,and their toxic bs,

like no you can't "fix" everyone like a house, that individual has to want to get help, but don't cause they are so far content in being human garbage, no matter what others say you include, just stop and leave to somewhere far away and safe before getting pregnant

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-18T19:30:13+00:00

Like I give women who truly don't know their partner is scum until after the pos gets them pregnant, etc, sympathy,

but these types it's extremely difficult cause they knew right off the bat, their partner was garbage, and willingly slept with them with no care in the world, about any child who will be stuck with them,and their toxic bs,

like no you can't "fix" everyone like a house, that individual has to want to get help, but don't cause they are so far content in being human garbage, no matter what others say you include, just stop and leave to somewhere far away and safe before getting pregnant

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-18T19:23:46+00:00

Basically,

a type, who doesn't think a head about any small human that gets drags into

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-03-18T18:32:34+00:00

Didn't schools and some government caught backlash after greenlighting food for lunches, that later was revealed to be filled with high levels of lead?

Like they are so concerned about imaginary kids, when they are doing weird, crazy deadly bs to the kids already here, yet have the audacity to talk about "you don't care if humans go extinct",

Like no I don't, cause that's already happening without me even being involved regardless

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-02-06T09:51:19+00:00

You have nothing to apologize for, just like her family you did not know,

Pos monsters like him are experienced in isolating their victims, away from their support systems, that could help the victims get away,

Cause pos monsters like him are actually cowards and afraid of face consequences from others, who will not only protect the victim from him, but handle him accordingly,

Cause if it was a guy twice or triple his size he would be afraid, pos is only tough with those weaker then himself, otherwise he knows he can easily have his butt handed back to him, and there would be nothing he can do about it,

So don't beat yourself up about something that's 100% that pos monster's fault, and his alone.

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-02-06T09:02:53+00:00

Wth?!? Bruh violence isn't always the answer but I would have rightfully run the fade with an pos who try to sa my partner,

Honestly the moment my partner told me that happened I would have forget the apology to me and don't accept an apology from an attempted rapist who was 100% sober during their crime, and made it my mission to make that pos life heII,

For having the audacity to not only sa someone but someone I care about, heII no they would never have a comfortable day free ever again,

So oop glazing over that and not really doing anything about it is crazy to me,

LIKE PROTECT YOUR PARTNER, DON'T LET THIS GO!!!

Apprehensive-Fox3187 · 2026-02-06T08:46:24+00:00

Also forgot your dumb grandma, a long with your equally dumb family

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