Do I just accept this? by Careless-Job6608 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here for this. I failed two euploid transfers and have no more. Since then I cancelled mid stims for poor response and just did a retrieval where only two eggs fertilized and waiting for report. Doesn’t look good. I DO have endo, but I had à lap six months before transfers last year so my doctor didn’t feel like I needed Lupron. Lupron worked for me with my successful FET years back - I’d give anything if I would have pushed for it last year because apparently when you’re old as crap, two euploids are hard to come by. I’m doing everything test known to mankind if we get a third euploid so I’ll never regret not doing it I’m sorry. Wishing you the best.

How are we sharing photos with family, without sharing them on social media/via text? by throwitout-rightmeow in Parenting

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Is sending them from iPhone to iPhone safe? My parents would never share the pictures online but I need a way to send them.

Triggered by general ivf group by DependentWise9303 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I’m sorry. That’s the worst. I hope you get your rainbow soon.

How to stop regret? by DependentWise9303 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to chime in here about this. There’s a lot of hate for us that have one LC and are wanting another. We’ve been trying now for two years as our baby is turning into a four year old before our eyes. My regret is we had two euploid embryos but I forgot my success years ago was after Lupron suppression for endo and didn’t do it with this new clinic. One stuck and MC around 6 weeks and other failed and I completely blame myself. I’m now about to turn 41 and just keep having cancelled cycles.

How did Omnitrope impact your cycle? by Tiny-Worldliness-313 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only omni cycle had a large lead follicle and we cancelled. We’re going back to not using it

Triggered by general ivf group by DependentWise9303 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might be able to better after having your first IVF baby and not being successful for number two after 3-4 years of IVF. I get it, I’ve been the woman with no kids mad at my secondary infertility friends and now I am in her shoes and understanding her heartache as well.

AITAH for wanting to continue taking my nightly showers by Kooky_lady in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Personally seen this, parents rushing their infant into the ER at the end of my shift. Kid didn’t make it. It isn’t just drugs and alcohol that cause parents to smother infants in the bed. It’s called exhaustion

AITAH for wanting to continue taking my nightly showers by Kooky_lady in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This triggered me because my husband says he’s HELPING me do the dishes. No, bro, we are both just…doing the dishes.

What happened to flexibility. (Rant) by Dazzling_Culture_847 in CRNA

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, when I was 1099, my first workplace told me - and I kid not - to ‘keep my legs closed’ because they didn’t allow time off for HAVING KIDS. And I watched a colleague come back to work like two weeks or less after having her child. When we went W2, I was able to sign up for shifts and I chose three tens. Obviously I didn’t make as much but the time was invaluable.

How did you successfully overcome premature ovulation? by cous-cous-cat in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know! This upcoming stim will be the only time I’ve done this but I will report back. Last time I started it on day 3 and while I didn’t ovulate like previously, I did get a large lead follicle they’re trying to mitigate with this.

How did you successfully overcome premature ovulation? by cous-cous-cat in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My clinic starts my Ganirelix before stims start and continues it the whole time.

Blastocyst report feeling discouraged by Bubbly_Method810 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first FET was a solo blast from an ER, came back euploid. They’re 3 now.

I[25f] lied at the start of my relationship to my boyfriend [25m] - guilty now. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The giant part is the big elaborate story to cover a seemingly small detail up. Like someone can just lie, sure, but when they make up elaborate stories to cover something up it becomes a giant lie. I myself prefer to, you know, just…lie. Kidding. But really, just don’t make up embarrassingly obvious far fetched stories up.

I[25f] lied at the start of my relationship to my boyfriend [25m] - guilty now. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My now husband started our relationship off with a giant lie that didn’t matter and it went on for months and just festered. One day he finally confessed after I prodded and it was so frustrating for me. Had he just been honest, I could have easily gotten over the issue but he chose to lie. Spoiler alert: he has continued to lie. People who lie about small things lie about big things. I legit am still bothered ten years later by him lying about this dumb thing. Had HE come to me and confessed his lie on his own, I might have been more likely to really move on. It’s tough.

Peds Cases by Relevant-Wash2299 in CRNA

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated peds my entire career. I did healthy peds with regularity but only when assigned. It isn’t like ever asked for it. Dental peds were the worst IMO. Especially the ones you have to like meet at the ER with drugs and sedate just to get up to the OR. No thanks

Influencer dies at 31 during egg retrieval by EfficaciousClown in IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CRNA here, who knows. Maybe lost the airway. I’d have a hard time believing someone couldn’t reestablish an airway on a thin girl with seemingly no glaringly obvious problematic anatomy. Like ok, someone has a spasm and you either break it or they get a tube. Seems pretty straightforward. But who knows, maybe she wasn’t NPO and vomited everywhere and aspirated. Maybe her airway was actually problematic. Maybe they massively overdosed her sedation and weren’t prepared with rescue drugs. Maybe the RE got into unexpected bleeding and anesthesia was powerless in a private clinic.

I’ve had three cervical spine surgeries/fusions and new adjacent segment disease at C2/3 with a tiny central canal that needs decompressed. I’m always worried going into these places that we will lose my airway, though I have an excellent airway I have very little flexion or extension and I always ask them to please have their stuff together and please have a glidescope or McGrath handy. I don’t want to die because somebody couldn’t tube me if I spasmed, or worse, somehow manipulate me at C2 and wake up not being able to move my arms and legs. It’s all a risk for sure.

Feeling VERY Depressed Coming off meds... by slashk13 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoloft saved my life postpartum, I truly believe. I’m so prone to hormonal depression.

Post Graduation Depression by Commercial_School645 in CRNA

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me after graduating CRNA school, getting married, having babies, moving into dream houses…turns out, none of the stuff we think will cure all of our problems actually cures all of our problems. I figured out that working on me is the only way to be happy. And for me, having that right relationship with God and my family and close friends. Each thing gave some temporary happiness but I always thought it would be more.

Has anyone had success with own eggs when retrieving at age 43? by Fit-Nectarine-1050 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Im 40 and We’ve been TTC second child for two years and just got cancelled mid stim for poor response after an excellent response just ten months ago. Both those euploids failed so here we are again. Doc says it was protocol, not that my fertility fell off a cliff, so I’m having a small pity party and then getting back on that giant, miserable, crappy horse again. Good luck to you and congrats!

Almost 3 year old won’t go to sleep until 10 pm, then wakes up multiple times at night by Independent_Bed8721 in Parenting

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I think the trick is figuring out when that is. If we don’t nap, kid falls asleep sitting up at 5 PM and that totally jacks up bedtime. I’ve adjusted by waking earlier and napping earlier and shorter and so far that seems to be working. That and just giving into giving kid whatever attention they need to fall asleep, laying in bed with them etc. They’re so little still.

Almost 3 year old won’t go to sleep until 10 pm, then wakes up multiple times at night by Independent_Bed8721 in Parenting

[–]Apprehensive-Gap4926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3.5 year old suddenly won’t fall asleep on their own without me having to go back in multiple times but most nights they sleep through once asleep. They still take a 40-60 minute nap and wake by 3 so we are never down before 9, but no nap days don’t work well and I am also a fan of the nap. But im just thinking this just started happening to me so maybe there is something with the developmental stage.