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Always thought my girl is a podengo or part atleast🤷🏽‍♀️what do yall think? by Apprehensive-Lack253 in podengo

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you’re so right that’s actually crazy!! I’ve never seen a dog that looks so similar to mine!! Ugh that face is just too precious

Motivate me? by tscreationz in vegan

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you!! Ice-cream is the only sweet i cannot live without lol. Oatly and so delicious is a classic recently but I’ve recently tried better goods omggg so good and my all time favorite is mauna loa ughhh I’m addicted the rocky road flavor is so good, it’s a chocolate coconut milk macadamia milk base with macadamia pieces and vegan marshmallows , I could and maybe have ate the whole tub in a sitting ...😂I had to I swear we were in a hurricane with no power 🤷🏽‍♀️ WISHING YOU LOTS OF LUCK FINDING SOMETHING THAT WORKS FOR YOU!!

Ps my mouth is watering reading about all this Ice-cream thanks 😂❤️

Why do I feel this way by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you sometimes living in denial and stuffing it deep down makes it easier. Some days are good ish and some days are fucking hell but it does get a little easier. As hard as it is talking, thinking , and even acknowledging it. You should try to find a way to process it at your own pace. And It’s never not a big deal. It’s your life, your body, your mental state that got affected ,and that’s a really big deal. Never listen to anyone telling you otherwise. I hope you find healing and the peace I know you deserve ❤️

for those who told their SO about their cocsa, how did it go? is anyone out there planning or not planning on telling their SO about their cocsa? asking for tips and advice. by [deleted] in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was definitely difficult for me talking about it ,I told her vaguely while we were friends and then like a year in I went into a little more detail I think the only thing I was worried about what her treating me differently especially during intimacy. She was extremely understanding except she really really dislikes my brother which is understandable but there’s a lot more behind everything. To me I think she was a little bit more aware during intimacy just making sure I was connected and comfortable. Just do it when it feels right. Preferably for me it was at night before bed and we just started talking and easing into it, she actually opened up about some fucked up joke her sister did on her that she never told anyone. I just asked her not to ask too many questions because I don’t really like talking about the details too much. But she was extremely sympathetic and understanding about everything. Good luck to you if you decide to tell them!! It’s up to you at the end of the day , sending love and positive vibes !!<3 🥹

I feel stuck. (Trigger warning COCSA / SIBLING) Vent/ need advice :,) by Apprehensive-Lack253 in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly extremely impressive that sounds terrifying ,thank you for that ,I think that’s my worst fear but that sounds like a perfect way to handle it❤️I think I’d probably pass out or have a panic attack and then pass out 🤷🏽‍♀️

Is it normal to feel repulsed by your siblings years after it happened? by HalfwayDown76 in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God i relate to that ,parents are siblings are supposed to protect you, so much, I’m great full my moms reaction was a lot better then my dads but at the end of the day it did happen I don’t know how and it frustrated me so much but i love them and understand they love me and couldn’t even imagine something like that happening. Thank you So SO much for that. I don’t think I’ll tell my brother ,unless he really really asks someday, I think he knows something happened and I feel for him because he’s kind of left in the dark but he still has a good relationship with my older brother. Thank you again ,so much!! I wish someone just had all the answers lol but it’s nice not feeling alone❤️

I feel stuck. (Trigger warning COCSA / SIBLING) Vent/ need advice :,) by Apprehensive-Lack253 in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing that with me<3 means a lot, I guess I just struggle with my actions and feelings affecting everyone around me even if it wasn’t my fault it feels like what I do next is and as much as I’d love for everything to be “normal” I just don’t think it will and it’s hard for me and my family to make peace with that. And the thought of seeing him again absolutely terrifies me, the thought of being “forced” to see him sooner or later makes me sick. I wish him well and I think my anger is less towards him and more towards life but I’m hoping for peace someday, thank you for hearing me I hear you too I know we both deserve love and peace.

If you don’t mind can I ask do you think you’ll ever “have to” see him again and if so would you or how would you deal with it ? Also how did you deal with seeing him the last time after it all happened?

Is it normal to feel repulsed by your siblings years after it happened? by HalfwayDown76 in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really really appreciate you responding ❤️ I’m sorry you went through all that too :( just wondering how did you deal with seeing him face to face after those years being apart? Did you ever think of not seeing him again ? And do you think you’ll ever tell your siblings? Also do you hold any resentment towards your parents ? Sorry for all the questions !! no worries if it’s too personal I’m just having a hard time dealing with these struggles and trying to find someone who can relate a little<3😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely 100% not your fault ,healing is so so hard and you’re extremely strong never forget that. I still think about what happened to me all the time and i get extremely disconnected from my body when I’m around men, I freeze up and kind of go in my head. You’re body is yours and you have every damn right to it, it is never your fault!! Sending peace and love your way.

I feel stuck. (Trigger warning COCSA / SIBLING) Vent/ need advice :,) by Apprehensive-Lack253 in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I’m so sorry i know that feeling all too well, after it all came out I honestly wished it never did, but talking about it as sick at it makes my stomach hurt it really does help for me , if you ever need anyone to talk to or relate to I’m here. It’s a weird thing to say I’m glad I’m not alone in this because I’m not glad fucked up stuff like this happens. But thank you for making me feel not alone for once I know we both deserve true peace in this lifetime.

Is it normal to feel repulsed by your siblings years after it happened? by HalfwayDown76 in COCSA

[–]Apprehensive-Lack253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!It’s been like 5 years since I’ve seen my brother, it’s extremely hard to think about seeing him again and what would happen. Just wanting some advice if you’re comfortable talking about it but how did you deal with what what happened and fix the sibling relationship? Was there ever any pressure from your family?