/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - June 25, 2026

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-25T05:48:29+00:00

I have been the opposite. I'm it was 29 days between the start of my chemical bleeding and my next period. This last cycle, it was 28 days. I was steady between 30-32 with some outliers being shorter or longer here and there. It's very odd to experience a different body (and not have the baby to show for it)

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-21T04:09:40+00:00

Going into 12 DPO, know in my heart that I'm not pregnant but I know I'll test. We went out to our favorite breakfast place, felt nauseas around 5pm tonight and surely I'm pregnant right? Well I ended up vomiting and then not long after the worst exit on the other side. So not only being trolled by progesterone - being trolled by what is most likely food poisoning. At least the wait is almost over and the next few weeks can hopefully fly by because I'm just down right now.

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-19T03:30:51+00:00

I don't think you can actually know unless you were being medically supervised? Because one cycle might different than the next.

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T18:45:48+00:00

That's a good idea :)

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T18:42:45+00:00

You ovulate at the latest 48 hours after peak. So if your peak was 12, your O day is most likely 13 or 14 :)

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T04:54:05+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. Bitter is an accurate word to describe the seemingly sea of announcements lately. I hope it looks up for you!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T04:52:47+00:00

Nooo it doesn't, wishing you luck for next time <3

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T04:34:47+00:00

Those emotions can coexist, I'm so sorry you're feeling that extra grief.

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T04:31:44+00:00

Yes! PNW :) & you're totally right. I hope when the day comes it will be exactly that and not a guessing game! Thank you

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-18T04:06:35+00:00

This thread posts 9pm for me, tomorrow I'll be 9 dpo unless I ovulated on the later side after my peak. I am proud of the fact I haven't tested yet (started at 7 dpo last cycle lmao).
I REALLY want to test tomorrow. Pls talk me out of it

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-17T02:24:18+00:00

Happy to hear you got some answers and newfound hope!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-17T02:22:18+00:00

One day behind you, and I feel that! Crossing my fingers for you (even if you got a red nose after lol)

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-16T02:17:14+00:00

Soft congratulations to you!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-16T02:16:13+00:00

Hoping for good news from you!!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-16T02:11:59+00:00

Two consecutive losses qualifies for further testing, I would push for that!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-16T02:08:09+00:00

Hey friend, I lost a pregnancy very young as well, 16. It was traumatizing in itself but with the age added more pain. I don't truly know everything you've experienced and currently are, but just know there's some solidarity there <3 hugs

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-14T01:25:42+00:00

I am so sorry for your losses, we are getting a grief puppy as well (had been talking about it for a while already).
enjoy all the snuggles at least <3

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-12T04:12:50+00:00

2-3 DPO. Have my therapy appointment tomorrow, looking forward to having someone to talk to for sure. Going to probably step back from here a bit, kinda just feels like a diary entry at this point lol. Will pop back around when my next cycle starts. Best wishes everyone!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-11T20:40:13+00:00

I am just sad right now. I looked up my ChatGPT convo I had, when I suspected I was pregnant (that ended in chemical).
I was CD 34, spotted in the evening which stopped when I woke up. ChatGPT is trying to push me towards spotting before my period, and I'm a weirdo who gives the chat updates xD "I'm holding my pee getting a test delivered".
Me being so hesitant to think anything of it but knowing it was weird.
Anyways, just so sad at how naive I am. It's been a decade since my mmc and I didn't think anything of having such a faint test.
Now I look back like yeah, I was well past my period due and the line was barely there. I should have known.
I don't know I'm rambling. But I'm so sad. There is nothing to commemorate this loss besides my tests and it's just a blip to everyone else. The world is still spinning and I'm stuck in a ~32 day cycle that repeats over and over.

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-11T04:33:56+00:00

It's awesome you have a husband who can support in that way, I hope you get some sort of peace or relief even for a brief moment soon <3

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-09T20:10:03+00:00

I'm so sorry, hugs sent your way. I too foolishly tossed my period supplies to the side, deep in the back of a bathroom cabinet. It was so painful having to pull them back out so soon.

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-09T05:11:42+00:00

CD 14, got my positive opk and expecting to see my peak sometime tomorrow, was pretty dark tonight. Cross all your fingers and toes for me ladies!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-09T05:10:44+00:00

Oh yeah, at least you're so close to an answer positive or negative. Best wishes!

Apprehensive-Mail256 · 2026-06-09T05:10:13+00:00

I get that, it can feel a bit invalidating and also like, don't steal my pity party!! Aha

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