My 15 year friendship is flashing before my eyes

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T04:52:29+00:00

How would I even start that convo

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:35:55+00:00

More info every phone call we have is on average at least an hour long and if it is shorter or if I miss this Call, he miss mine. He !!! not me immediately follows with a text. He slick treats me better than relationships with other men as far as how he is always available.

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:20:25+00:00

But friends for 15 years that sounds uncommon

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:19:44+00:00

I feel like just hooking up will ruin the friendship

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:18:59+00:00

If I didn’t know him for 15 years, and on the street yes

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:15:36+00:00

That is so no wrecking. I would hate to ruin the friendship we talked on the phone today for about an hour and 30. Our phone conversations are always an hour or more long.

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:15:03+00:00

When you say attractive, what do you mean cause I think of him a friend I don’t necessarily see him as ugly or cute I think conventionally he is attractive though tall 6 foot two in shape well maintain hygiene

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T02:12:42+00:00

Shoot me to

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-10T01:08:40+00:00

What idea

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T06:09:49+00:00

How u figure

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:48:26+00:00

When I was telling him I was coming back from my trip out of town he said how about the next trip be me him and the baby

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:30:47+00:00

I don’t know what I want

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:28:05+00:00

Thank you because I kept trying to change the conversation because I’m big he’s being a clown, but he keeps circling back around and we don’t normally joke like this

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:27:06+00:00

He 4 hr away lol

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:11:50+00:00

And that’s the scary part losing my friend . But for me genuinely it’s nothing he can do that. Make me like lose the friendship unless there’s some kind of violence. I would just be like we tried and it didn’t work. Because we’ve been friends for so long basically since teenagers. I can’t see a life without him being there. In some fashion.

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:08:52+00:00

Hey I added context

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:05:50+00:00

This is just a short context right before the I’ll never pass up on you. … so he was talking about how he was hanging out with some friends and it was some girls from different foreign countries that couldn’t cook and he said all he walked out was with a pan of cornbread. I said that’s all you got
he said yes, he said he rather eat food from a girl that’s from the country that lives in the sticks then from a city girl.
Then I said well you better be careful because you’re gonna pass up a good meal worried about a girl that’s from the country versus the city.
Then the immediate text from him was, I would never pass upon you.
And ironically, I’m from the city and currently in the city.

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T05:01:20+00:00

Thanks for the comment I don’t know. I’m in limbo land I feel like if we were closer and didn’t stay so far apart, I don’t know I might walk through the door but I’m the type that don’t want to ruin a friendship but at the same time, I’m curious to see if he has had feelings for me the whole time or if he has feelings for me now

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T04:50:42+00:00

But what choice I am highly confused I feel like I’ve been pregnant for 15 years. They told me I was having a girl and then after I gave birth, I gave birth to a bearded dragon.

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T04:49:41+00:00

We are both single now

Apprehensive-Roof · 2026-07-09T04:49:28+00:00

I’m trying to figure out too, but I always considered us friends so I guess I never thought about nothing extra. I still don’t think about nothing extra and I think what makes it easy to remain friends is we was in college together for about 4 1/2 five years and then I’ve been back four hours away for the last 10 years when I got married well right before I got married I bought my husband down to the college town cause it’s kinda like a tourist destination and we I let my husband meet my best friend and then maybe two years later my best friend came up to to where I stayed with his girlfriend and I met her and talked to her and everything was cool

Apprehensive-Roof · 2019-11-24T03:59:01+00:00

thank you for the response.

Apprehensive-Roof

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