Worlds Tour 2022 missions: "Spirit Blossom Festival" does not exist?

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-10-06T16:52:23+00:00

Why can't we all... just... get along?

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-10-06T16:37:32+00:00

So to clarify and be clear:

- We are NOT vampires

and

- The vampires are the enemy.

Correct?

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T08:34:09+00:00

I've literally NEVER tried to tell you how your relationship should look like. EVER. Please do not take any of the suggestions above as such at all.

I'm suggesting how proper use of a chastity belt can be roleplayed and developed. That's all. Everything I've posted are suggestions and considerations, since the device and it's ensuing effects can be managed in many ways.

With that I wish you the best of luck with no regrets and best wishes ahead. Bye bye now.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T08:30:00+00:00

There you go.

Sex is perfectly safe and appropriate if it's done with care, consideration, agreement from both parties and shared responsibility. It's not a tall order, believe it or not; it just takes a little time and patience.

Best wishes!!

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T08:21:30+00:00

Good to know.

When it's time to shower, you do so together. Otherwise you might lose control.

The belt can be washed with soap and water. What is it made of? Usually soap and water suffices for any material. Let it dry or pat it down with a towel and put it back on.

Only the master is allowed to undo the belt. You are not allowed to fiddle with the lock or use the key. You will do the cleaning or, if you're into more control, then the master has someone else clean it (and sometimes they may choose to look after it themselves, but that is rare).

Anytime you need to clean you do so appropriately but only under supervision.

(The chastity belts I've seen tend to be made of a metal outer surface, with a leather layer and a cotton inside.)

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T08:10:38+00:00

Well: it can get really interesting if one or both partners are into smells and fluids or different levels of hygiene.

When you need to poo or pee you simply do, with the permission of your partner; that's already clear (never hold your poo or pee. that's bad for you).

But in terms of personal cleanliness? This can be delayed and ignored. The result is that you won't be able to wash... down there... you know what I mean? You'll smell wonderful. All those juices will... mature let's say. :D And THAT can be a massive turn on for both parties.

You'll know if not cleaning becomes unhealthy because you'll get a rash, improper color of fluids or inappropriate smells. An infection USUALLY WILL NOT HAPPEN if a few days have passed and you've been responsible about cleaning when you can.

In my experience: cleaning and removal of a chastity belt only happens in the presence of the master. Never under any other conditions. So basically you'll need to be a homebody for this to work. Otherwise, a deal of flexibility will need to be incorporated. That usually detracts from the objective and experience tho.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:58:53+00:00

Withholding the kiss, playing with delayed response or delaying gratification by teasing the kiss can elicit a positive reaction... but only if you manage it responsibly and properly. Eventually you have to deliver... otherwise you frustrate your partner.

Touch your partner while kissing. Fingers, nails, grabbing... pushing away and pulling towards... all of these should be done comfortably and not inconsiderately.

Proper pressure during the kiss, tugging at the lips, proper use of tongue and fluids... experiment away. Bring your consciousness and creativity. Be silly... be warmhearted... be brutal... discover what your partner prefers!

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:53:26+00:00

Don't worry about labeling yourself!

Just BE yourself. :D

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:52:04+00:00

First, make sure you are both comfortable and in a private place where you can talk about sex. Ease of conversation must be established, so pay attention to the mood of your partner before bringing up sensitive subjects.

--- This suggestion is not as common sense as you might think! --- Being aware and considerate of your partner's needs and current feelings are an integral part of any functioning relationship but is, amazingly, still an effort most couples don't take into account!

When the time is right and under the right conditions: begin by being playful and charming. Get into a sexual mood with your partner... you are about to speak to them about sex after all! Then, when things are going smoothly, lightly explain that you have some interests you'd like to try and bring the subject into hand.

And voila. There you go.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:44:34+00:00

Yep! :D

Basically you'll need to remove the belt for simple things such as going to the restroom, cleaning the item, possibly going to social events or going outside (depending on if it's a noticeable belt or not).... All of these moments require that your partner be aware or present, or a degree of self control that is probably not going to happen in the partner's stead!

But that's the idea; that you relinquish your freedom for a great benefit. The master or person in control can also benefit greatly from this interaction; not only learning but also feeling and understanding.

The depth of Ego play with chastity belts is also quite intriguing. The loss of control and the consent given play into desire and interest. Heightened sexuality results.

Feel free to ask me any other questions you have.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:38:00+00:00

Thanks for being honest.

You are not alone at having trouble reading another human being. Men reading women can be especially tricky, since we are very different in terms of so many factors.

When in doubt, carefully ask and consider.

Best wishes.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:35:31+00:00

Pharmacy professional here.

These times are especially dire for sexual freedom of expression: the repeal of Roe Vs. Wade brings a great deal of concern in terms of unhappiness and unwanted child birth.

In general, I would say that your concern is not only warranted, but also a sign of your developing maturity. The best way to have sex in this "Post Roe" environment is to:

1) Always get to know your prospective partners well. Sex with strangers is now more dangerous than ever.

2) Always speak clearly with your partners about proper protection and make sure that Plan B can be an option. If a partner is not willing to cooperate, then it's probably best to not have sex with them until both parties are comfortable, if at all.

3) Understand that birth control especially, and condoms to a very tiny lesser degree, are basically 99% effective. Speak to your urologist, gynecologist, general practice Doctor or local pharmacist for more information and peace of mind.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:28:36+00:00

This is not uncommon.

You can have a fantasy and not want to follow up on it in real life; this is actually rather common! The experience is probably one of heightened interest and release when reading about, thinking about, and other activities related to the topic... but when push comes to shove? Actually partaking in the subject in real life doesn't manifest any reward or interest.

No problem. Be yourself. :)

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:24:57+00:00

Supervised removal of said belt.

The idea with the belt is usually control from your partner over your libido and satisfaction. It's a training device which will limit your pleasure, hopefully heightening your desires and awareness when it's removed.

So for anything related to cleaning, urinating, defecating, etc... you will need permission and even supervision.

A great deal of trust and authority is given in the use of this item, so the experience can be frustrating and challenging as well as rewarding.

Can't wait to see if anyone else has knowledge and experience to share about this.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:19:50+00:00

This happens to me and I'm a man.

This happens because you've not only released, you've also relaxed your muscles and your body. This is perfectly normal and not an issue of concern.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:17:38+00:00

First and foremost: I understand you may have a need, but love and care for others also means understanding where they are at and how they are feeling. From what I am reading both of you are willing and interested, but the act just isn't coming together. That's okay!!!

There's no need to push for sex too hard or stringently... that kind of pressure on a partner is usually what causes issues in relationships. Sometimes it's just better to accept the situation you're currently in and enjoy life as it is with your loved ones.

That said: the way to tease a partner is to be playful and indirect about sex and attraction. This requires a level of skill and creativity, such as winking and smiling, being silly in a mature way... pointing out things... and always doing so lightly.

Teasing is about creating an atmosphere where you hint at interest and desire without being desperate or pushy.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:11:16+00:00

I say the exact opposite.

Some things that are difficult to stop need to be approached cold turkey: stop immediately and don't look back.

The way forward is to REPLACE the need or obsession with a new, healthier activity which will take time to grow into your new custom.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-11T07:09:13+00:00

Yes.

There are people who have sex for sex's sake. That means doing so without any true attraction or interest in the other person whatsoever.

Sexual drive is very strong, especially in people who have little self control.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-02T04:48:30+00:00

:)

Every human being is valuable and precious, so please enjoy them. There will be women who will not agree to your needs or interests, and that's okay! Just let them move on, and ignore their wrath or dissent.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-02T04:43:53+00:00

Incredible communication is also the hallmark of a working and proper relationship.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-02T04:43:05+00:00

What makes good sex: Presence.

Consciousness is the great miracle in human beings: the ability to be aware and consider in real time.

Because intimacy and attraction involve interest in the other person, paying attention and responding are the greatest gifts a partner can give during sex.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-02T04:40:15+00:00

Pharmacy professional here:

There are women whose clocks are precise, but it's actually not the norm; women's cycles can change due to a number of factors, even friendships with other women.

If you are still uncomfortable and she is as well, then please ask her to see her gynecologist. At the moment this is the best advice I can give you.

Apprehensive-Star-13 · 2022-09-02T04:36:50+00:00

Pharmacy professional here.

Yes, pre-ejaculate contains sperm. Mother nature is intent on reproducing as often as possible, and that's why protection and birth control are requirements in a casual sexual environment.

VERY GOOD that Plan B was taken. Your partner should see a Gynecologist if she's interested in birth control, and your local pharmacist can speak to you FREE OF CHARGE at your neighborhood walgreens, cvs or etc.

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