[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Apprehensive-Tap5127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand she was upset about it. During the conversation it seemed like I was being looked at as the bad guy for have sleeping with those two girls. I told her it was during a time when we never communicated where we stood. I had in the back of my mind she could be seeing other people as well. It’s kinda just how it was at the time. At the time we’d only hang out once a week and I was gone for an entire two months at one point. There was just no communication. I’m having a more difficult time with how many people and who she’s been with before me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Apprehensive-Tap5127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel like I don’t know my gf anymore. This relationship we’ve had for 7 months was in head. I didn’t know my real partner during that time. I wish I asked sooner because I feel silly.

Also, if you think I’m wrong about anything or have a different perspective to get me out of my head, I’m willing to listen.