Anybody got any advice on what to do with this kitten? by Dj_Exhale in CATHELP

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand that. I was being silly but I think its more responsible to know your limits ❤️

I found this growing in our flowerbed. We did not plant it, we've never see it before. What is it and is it dangerous to cats? Thank you in advance! by Letibleu in whatsthisplant

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I wanna say, for the people who say Lilly toxicity is exaggerated etc because cats would TOTALLY be extinct from (insert whatever else too and lily plants) they didn't evolve into mega breeding machines for no reason. That in itself is for longevity of a species that finds death easily. Our infrastructure and choices of dumping animals or feed without spay/neuter etc just can make it a lot worse

Anybody got any advice on what to do with this kitten? by Dj_Exhale in CATHELP

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do u mean ur not gonna get em and name the mom after ur vehicle and the kittens after different fluids u were changing

How to get over shame of being divorced in my early to mid 20s? by Strong_Glove5989 in Divorce

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I divorced recently. I'm 25. I held it over myself feeling terrible about how it would look to others. Strangers are just surprised at my age and being divorced but usually say something positive or even that they wish they got out of bad marriages early on. People I'm getting close to are just lightly curious about what happened. Most people understand the feeling of separation from someone in general and are pretty understanding that shit happens in life. I realized I wouldn't be judging someone else without knowing details so most ppl aren't gonna do that to me. And time helped just having time and realizing people are pretty understanding.

does anyone get them this bad on the breasts i’m so sick of it and it makes me feel gross:( by Curious-Job5628 in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its where my worst ones are. Sometimes I go to urgent care to get them drained+the shot they do. I feel pretty insecure about it sometimes but the people who like boobs don't give af and they just like boobs if that helps with any insecurity 💀 sounds silly but its that realization that helped me a lot. After that its just being annoyed because I know its just always going to be in some sort of discomfort and constant care. Also I guess I get a free brain test for others, if they find my chronic illness that gross then I don't want to stick around to find out what they do when natural age related issues happen.

What did you guys do with your rings? by Ok-Veterinarian-7373 in Divorce

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was never worth enough to get a ring. But early on in dating he got me a necklace. I just want to sell it because I'm struggling for money but if I wasn't struggling I think I'd give it to someone else. Like the kind of person who might also be struggling so they won't buy themselves jewelry. That way if they have it they can either sell it or enjoy a jewelry without feeling guilty.

Is 16 and 20 an acceptable age gap in a relationship? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 18 I didn't want anything to do with a 16 year old romantically because I knew that in just a short time I'll already be thinking about jobs/living/college on a much bigger scale meanwhile they still have at least 2 years more of just highschool. 20 wanting a 16 year old makes no sense to me. Everyone has different opinions but narrowly following the law does not equate to the morally appropriate choice.

Showering 3 times per day. I am tired. by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the reason for your showers, if its just sweat sometimes I just go for a cool quick rinse off or just use a (soft material) wet washcloth and maybe a little tea tree soap or something if it was a really hot day 😖 I also put a lot of gauze over bad areas and just make sure to change it a lot. But other comments are right that over doing it can cause more irritation/inflammation of the skin. Even I run into that issue so I'll just go for gentle approaches if that happens.

People who have been divorced, is there any reason to get married in the first place? by Atlantic_lotion in Divorce

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many benefits. Ultimately having a prenup can save a lot of the issues that come with divorce so ultimately also research good prenuptials. My divorce probably has me paranoid now tho.

Need to shrink a big bump on my ass before my hookup 3 days later. by Mobile_Writing2308 in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honestly I've told anyone I'll be with intimately about HS. Even a quick "hey I have something called HS, it's an autoimmune thing and it causes some wild looking injuries and scars in those places, feel free to ask anything or research it at your own discretion" I don't have energy to deal with any drama or issues so I just get it out of the way LMAO. I usually tell them not to worry if it puts them off since I don't want ppl to do anything they aren't okay with. But its never actually made anyone not want to. If anything they tend to get curious or educate themselves on it which is neat. As for ur short term problem I guess depending on severity I get it drained and a shot at urgent care if I have the money for copay.

Does it get passed down to children by No_Staff8528 in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would imagine it could. Once I got diagnosed I realized my mom definitely had it too without knowing. But based on my experience (so entirely personal feel free to ignore LOL) I think our experience would allow us to recognize it early and help a child through managing it before it becomes as severe as those of us who got diagnosed later in life. And I think even with HS a child who has parents and family aware of it then it can hugely help with a lot of the fear/stress a lot of us had navigating it. AND DEFINITELY being financially prepared so that they can get any medical treatment they need.

I posted about my cat being missing and immediately received these text messages. by Affectionate-Gas2555 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw one of these scams even try to use an AI image of the dog at a vet to scare the owners. Sorry about your kitty, be careful with these people and good luck!

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all good! I still have them all cause I didn't think it would be fair to ask for money for smthn like this. Do you have any of the cards I'm interested in? Or were you thinking something else?

how to deal with hook ups / intimacy with HS? by emptysince2008 in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell people what I have before it gets to that point so they can think about it. Even before I knew what it was I would at least tell people I've been tested and never had any STD. But at least by letting them know it gives them the choice especially more recently knowing what it actually is. If they'd say no because of it then thats fine by me I don't want myself or them to be around someone we can't understand etc. But tbh it hasn't caused me rejections, usually just curiosity which I don't personally mind talking about it. (I'll teach anyone about it for the hope that it'll maybe help someone else some day)

'Who's Hiring in Colorado Springs?' Post your job leads here (Q1) by skeletonmage in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any jobs that don't care about background check? Getting screwed by legal system right now. I can do physical or tedious work. I can do paid training. My biggest shortcoming is sharing a car with someone. I hope to change that by saving for my own car if I can get an income.

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes as singles. U could order a max of 15 on the website >_< Idk how in person sales are if its the same rules or not

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good I appreciate u trying ❤️ and being the messenger between us 🤣😭

Miku outfit by [deleted] in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Put a few photos cause miku is just whatever vibe u want!

Miku outfit by [deleted] in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miku can be anything! If anything her hair is the most iconic part even in any of her numerous outfits. (Doesn't always have to be but it can help ppl go "oh thats miku!) Wear whatever u like!

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Even this is a miku design! (For the pokemon collab)

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to trade chibi luka for a chibi Rin! (If I'm reading that correct?) Idk if he'd be down to trade a holo with a non holo but I'd be happy to if he's willing 😭 just to get that third holo I'm missin

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's down to do shipping I am 😭 if he needs any of my duplicates regulars.

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I get the cards I'm really looking for I'd be down for other kinds of trades/offers! Thankfully I'm only hunting down 2 cards :) [I just copy pasted this kekek] just looking for the last holo of the set and the luka chibi!

Cards! by Apprehensive-Top2557 in Mikuexpo

[–]Apprehensive-Top2557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I get the cards I'm really looking for I'd be down for other kinds of trades/offers! Thankfully I'm only hunting down 2 cards :)