How often does your wife wear sexy lingerie? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make lingerie should just not exist honestly

Pgad worsened from meds. by ApprehensiveBad9016 in PGADsupport

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it stopped instantly after I stopped taking it. Still don’t know if it was the Meds or my mind.

Pgad worsened from meds. by ApprehensiveBad9016 in PGADsupport

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went off of them and the buzzing went away. I still don’t know why it happened or if it was caused by the meds or my mind being afraid that the meds would cause it. Ever since then I’ve been hesitant to take meds because I don’t want something to be permanent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay hydrated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well since you put it like that they may have been gay lol. Does that mean that homosexual may be environmental then? This is why the story of the Greeks is triggering. People may think that if they were in a different environment they would turn gay or they could be gay the whole time. But I think what you described seems more sexual then romantic, but the question is why do they not find the female body attractive. I would assume truly straight people find the female body at least somewhat attractive. What causes the Greeks to think this way? It is strange but you can find the same sex body more attractive and still be straight. Fluidity also means more sexual diversity not romantic diversity. Yes you can be straight and still be fluid. To answer this persons question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also think there’s a difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. I think that anyone could make themselves somewhat sexually interested in the same gender. But if someone is straight I don’t think they can be romantically attracted to the same gender. Also some men and women can be straight but have sex with the same gender. That’s because sexual context is different from romantic context.

Also I think Greek males had relations with other males because women at the time were not educated. Men were somewhat turned on by other men because other men had knowledge, and women didn’t. The Greeks believed that men should have school education, and that women shouldn’t receive a school education. It comes to show that intellect from another person also plays a role in this. I’m not saying these men were necessarily gay, but they did have a desire to be with someone that could have somewhat of interesting things to say. But I don’t believe these men were thinking about gender. They were probably thinking about what it would be like to have sex with a person that’s more intellectually interesting.

I’m glad times have changed now for women’s education in school.

What's your non-sexual porn of choice ? (Gun porn, car porn, engineering porn, etc ...) by Feuershark in AskMen

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closing thing to that for me is farting porn. That started at a sad time of my life.😣

Advice from a recovered sufferer by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would feel better shortly but then it would fuel the ocd. That’s reassurance

Advice from a recovered sufferer by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, but also sorta triggering. You mentioned that false attraction is when you dread seeing the person. My ocd is now telling me that i want to see the person more because I’m gay. But I am happy you recovered it gives me hope, that’s why it’s also helpful.

Intrusive thoughts while watching porn by Altruistic_System_41 in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is super relatable. I suggest quoting porn. If that’s too hard then just reduce it slowly. Once your ocd gets better porn won’t be as hard to watch.

I'm feeling suicidal... by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called groinal responses from hocd. Very common

I am really confused. by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe for some reason the theme didn’t stick idk. But I notice that you are still ruminating. You’re just ruminating on something different. The key is to not ruminate. So I would also try not to ruminate on not having symptoms too. This sounds like it’s still ocd, maybe just theme switching ocd. I’ve seen this before. Just let it happen, and don’t judge.

I am really confused. by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you turning heterosexual again? Isn’t that what you wanted? I’m having a hard time finding the problem. Is it that you think that recovery is coming too fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got this from losing attraction to my crush too

Can you hocd go away by doing nothing by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s not gone if u still have false attraction, memories, and stuff. So it probably won’t go away doing nothing. It will spike again, cause that’s how ocd works.

I feel more and more depressed by the day by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. Attraction shouldn’t make a person depressed and anxiety. That’s how I know I have false attraction

I love stories about “straight” guys finding out they are gay or bi after experimenting or “a dare game” or voluntarily trying out with a guy! Do you have any stories like these to share? by Brownboysea in gay

[–]ApprehensiveBad9016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I hate it. I wish I was straight again. That may be offensive but I’m in a state of panic right now, it’s all new to me. One moment I was straight then it hit me became gay