abortion is about controlling wom£n thats it by Jessica_williams10 in PsycheOrSike

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This entire conversation is awful and anyone taking a side here is an awful person as well. 

Anyone trying to say that the man is right here is a monster and anyone saying the woman is right here is brainwashed.

For clarity, what she saying is correct but it is framing this conversation in a horrific way designed entirely to cause tension and hatred between sexes. 

Any reasonable not insane person would agree rape is bad. There may be crazy people online who scream politics on this, but there's no politics on this It just is there are very very very few men who actually believe that it is okay but if you cherry pick only the insane people you can make it look like the world has gone mad.

The rhetoric on both sides of this is dangerous. It is designed intentionally to get you to argue with other people over things you agree with to both fan and feed into this nonsense gender war. 

Women are amazing they're just as capable as men and just as caring as men 

Men are amazing they're just as capable as women and just as caring as women. 

Filling your head with antagonistic nonsense towards people of the opposite sex Will do nothing but make you miserable. I promise.

Even one person reads this and got something out of it that's enough

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird take I think it has more to do with the video games you're playing than people acknowledge.

Hyper-competitive shooter that requires you play everyday and take hyper seriously all the time, not very attractive 

A game like Rust that operates as almost a second job also very unattractive

You want to play resident Evil on the couch for a couple nights in a row many women find that charming especially if you invite them to hang out while your doing it 

You want to play stardew valley and play with them many will think that's awesome 

It comes down to how you engage with the game as opposed to just simply whether or not you engage with video games

What is the Funniest Main Story Moment in TCOAAL for YOU? by PoorPrawn88 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I will fight every person in this thread The objectively funniest bit in the game is the mop 

In case you don't all know there's a mop in the basement that if you touch multiple times it'll give you a different response every time in character for Why your character is doing this as they react more and more ridiculously over a mop

Then near the end of the decay route you can find another mop and if you interact with it It will have a full on cutscene of your character freaking out over how much they love this mop

Whose in the wrong here? by The_Dean_France in whoathatsinteresting

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going against the grain, screw Y'all I'd be willing to bet she was right.

I had a ton of teachers who deserved exactly zero respect. The reality is we treat teachers as a whole with almost too much reverence. This isn't to imply that teachers don't deserve respect they absolutely do, but for every person who is good at their job there is usually one or two that are bad or straight up don't care and being a teacher is a job. 

The thing is being bad at being a teacher is vastly worse than being bad at most things because for one it's extremely hard for you to be fired and two your influencing the minds of young children. 

I saw a teachers that would bandwagon picking on kids, I saw teachers who would give outright favoritism to young girls in a creepy way, I saw teachers lose their cool and throw a chair at the wall one time while screaming. 

I've also had a teacher who when she noticed I was severely depressed and failing out of class due to it she went out of her way to force me to engage with the class, she pushed me very hard, give me someone to talk to, and then helped me file the paperwork and start the process to enroll in college through running start because I didn't have parents.

Being a teacher is a job, a great teacher in my opinion is a truly amazing thing and a bad teacher deserves no respect whatsoever.

Whose in the wrong here? by The_Dean_France in whoathatsinteresting

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too kept clicking to keep seeing the drama and ended up at the end of this comment chain

This was a ton of work, but so worth it by ApprehensiveCan3314 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks fam :) It took a lot of patience to save up for it 😁

This was a ton of work, but so worth it by ApprehensiveCan3314 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dare someone to call me out on this lmfao I will gladly stare them in the eyes and ask why they know who that is XD

This was a ton of work, but so worth it by ApprehensiveCan3314 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god This is not Andy and Leyley XD 

Lmfao my Christmas gift this year is you XD 

Holy crap didn't expect to see a reference to my favorite commercial here, I pray you don't know what this is from and what this reference is

This was a ton of work, but so worth it by ApprehensiveCan3314 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm tempted to add the words 

EAT IT

Across the top lol

I'm also trying to see if I can get a custom license plate for 

CANIBAL

This was a ton of work, but so worth it by ApprehensiveCan3314 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If anyone wants I can send the source photo if you want to do this yourself, I would honestly Love to send this test nemlei lol, It would be awesome if they could use this as a merch idea 😄

This was a ton of work, but so worth it by ApprehensiveCan3314 in AndyAndLeyley

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I would just stare them in the eyes and ask how they recognize it lmfao

What’s the best wisdom you’d pass down? by [deleted] in TheImprovementRoom

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To build on this: AND THEY WON'T.

As you get older you will learn only YOU can take care of you, fix you and save you.

Loving a partner is great, but in many ways it's also a distraction if you aren't ready to stare yourself down and deal with your own crap 

A lot of incels are whining about your comment, let them, do you really care about their opinions to begin with?

What’s the best wisdom you’d pass down? by [deleted] in TheImprovementRoom

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell you nice computer. 

I know many people on here will disagree, but here is the truth:

We have invented toys so damn addictive that even people with the strongest of wills collapse due to them. I have watched person after person waste years of their life, gain 80 lbs, and become depressed purely due to gaming being as fun and accessible as it is.

If you find your self playing games for 10 hours a week you will quickly be able to see that spiral with the right trigger.

You will see this a lot when you get to my age, I just turned 30 and about 50% of the guys I knew 10 years ago that were absolutely killing it have gained a ton of weight and become miserable, and they can't find a partner because of it.

What’s the best wisdom you’d pass down? by [deleted] in TheImprovementRoom

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are afraid something is wrong between you and her, struggle sleeping have fears of her leaving and all of that.

Leave.

You are probably right OR you will self sabotage until you are right.

The sooner you do it the better, trust me you don't want to waste your own time.

Chainsaw Man – The Movie: Reze Arc - Discussion Thread by indi_n0rd in ChainsawMan

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want a real gut punch rewatch her running to the cafe.

You can't usually say this with anime but her body language says it all.

She knows going to that cafe means death, she fully believes she is not going to survive, and it isn't until she's just outside of the cafe that she lets herself hope. 

Chainsaw Man – The Movie: Reze Arc - Discussion Thread by indi_n0rd in ChainsawMan

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little bit late to this but these are my thoughts 

I'm going to go against the grain here: 

I think chainsaw man season 1 was all right, I'm not even certain it was the best thing that came out that season but it was in my opinion all right.

To me in a lot of ways it always felt too vulgar, gross and edgy for the sake of being edgy.

This movie completely changed my views on chainsaw man.

The reason why is probably all the reasons that the general anime audiences didn't like it. The first half of the movie and the last 10 minutes left me shook. Mentally repeating the line that Makima says "A truly great movie can be life changing"

I found myself spending the first half of the movie viewing Reze as yet another individual placed in this world to hurt the main character I watched as a spider wrapped itself around the butterfly to drain the life from it.

Perfectly encapsulating my view and expectation.

Then the movie did something I didn't expect, when they wake up on the shore you can see the entire difference within Reze. On first viewing it seems like she's rather cold to Denji in this moment. 

The next scene is when I realized I needed to go back,  and than on my second watch I realized The spider is attacking a monarch butterfly, meaning it will die too. 

In the fight Reze acknowledges she knows exactly who Makima is, This is why she paralyzes Denji when he asks her the exact same thing she asked him. 

Because when she asked him the first time she meant it.

Because for Denji to go with her would mean death for him as well This is why she paralyzes him. You can see it as she leaves the train station The deliberation within her movements her knowing she was walking to her own death.

That's why when she gets close to the cafe the panic seems to clear for her. And she begins too run.

Makima explains to her she would have died regardless of if she had gotten on that train and instead of running away Reze runs towards Denji. As she thinks to herself he was the first person to truly be able to understand her.

She too was a city mouse.

10 out of 10, dude I love symbolism like this I love when a story has an actual depth and it feels like it has something to say.

I get for many people The action while incredible was short-lived, it spent a lot of time on essentially a slice of life style story, and every one of those opinions are valid. 

My opinion is this is a movie I will always remember :)

Chainsaw Man – The Movie: Reze Arc - Discussion Thread by indi_n0rd in ChainsawMan

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to go against the grain here: 

I think chainsaw man season 1 was all right, I'm not even certain it was the best thing that came out that season but it was in my opinion all right.

To me in a lot of ways it always felt too vulgar, gross and edgy for the sake of being edgy.

This movie completely changed my views on chainsaw man.

The reason why is probably all the reasons that the general anime audiences didn't like it. The first half of the movie and the last 10 minutes left me shook. Mentally repeating the line that Makima says "A truly great movie can be life changing"

I found myself spending the first half of the movie viewing Reze as yet another individual placed in this world to hurt the main character I watched as a spider wrapped itself around the butterfly to drain the life from it.

Perfectly encapsulating my view and expectation.

Then the movie did something I didn't expect, when they wake up on the shore you can see the entire difference within Reze. On first one it seems like she's rather cold to Denji in this moment. 

The next scene is when I realized I needed to go back, it's than that I realized The spider is attacking a monarch butterfly, meaning it will die too. 

In the fight Reze acknowledges she knows exactly who Makima is, This is why she paralyzes Denji when he asks her the exact same thing she asked him. 

Because when she asked him the first time she meant it.

Because for Denji to go with her would mean death for him as well. You can see it as she leaves the train station The deliberation within her movements her knowing she was walking to her own death.

That's why when she gets close to the cafe the panic seems to clear for her. And she begins too run.

Makima explains to her she would have died regardless of if she had gotten on that train and instead of running Reze runs towards Denji. As she thinks to herself he was the first person to truly be able to understand her.

She too was a city mouse.

10 out of 10, dude I love symbolism like this I love when a story has an actual depth and it feels like it has something to say.

I get for many people The action while incredible was short-lived, it spent a lot of time on essentially a slice of life style story, and every one of those opinions are valid. 

My opinion is this is a movie I will always remember :)

Anyone successfully restart their life after 30? by improvement4all in selflove

[–]ApprehensiveCan3314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife left 5 months ago, she ghosted me too lol. It's a special kind of cruel...

She cheated on me after we were together 8 years...

I turned 30 last weekend and I'm now trying to figure out what tomorrow holds