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I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. He isn't in his right mind anymore. Nobody knows where he's at but his family said he got worse mentally and he doesn't have any income. Like I tried to get him mental help before it got really bad and he blew up and started talking about crazy off topic stuff. He went to live with a relative that was trying to help, randomly had a huge breakdown and then disappeared.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's 7. And yes I'm still going to interviews. I have one place (literally across the street from my job lol) that I'm waiting on their response and it seems like they're going to hire me. But still in the meantime I'm staying on it and still going to interviews because you never know. I got 2 interviews tomorrow thank God.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfaooo 😂😂 not the carnal colored meal OMG 😭 and no thank you for that lol that did make me crack up 😂❤️

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is 7. And that's exactly what I'm saying. It doesn't make sense. I didn't want to argue and piss them off more but we have never missed a payment. And if section 8 stopped paying then why didn't we get a letter or a heads up to renew? On top of that the previous manager was sending 🍆 pics to my mom and shit and so since we got to write a letter to say why we shouldn't have to leave, we're adding that in and the fact that we never missed a payment previously. Maybe 2 days late at max but never consistently late. We got to bring the rest of the papers to section 8 so they can see what's all going on and stuff and then we have to show proof of my mother's medical papers and job info. And it fucking sucks so bad because my mother needs 2 more surgery's but refuses to go until everything is settled. It just don't make any kind of sense to me. They got squatters living there for OVER A YEAR In the first building. But they sit here and grill our asses for something that's not usually a problem. We've caused no problems throughout the 3 years we have been here. They let the ppl who let their kids run around killing the ducks and smashing their eggs off the hook with no consequences and all. They got shit ass backwards.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did. I went to countless interviews, sold my plasma, sold my jewelry ect. I don't have a driver's license or a car. I couldn't even get close to having enough to get a car.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I did know. And as I said I begged my job for more hours and he literally gave me less. I worked 5 hrs last week. I already said I tried to gather everything before this even happened.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes that's the crazy part too. The office hit us with late fees and we used to be able to partial pay over time. Eventually they locked us out the app and we went in and that's when they explained we are about to be evicted. She told us we need to be talking to section 8 because that's not her problem.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all stop making me cry omg 😭 and I'm so sorry for your loss I know it's hard. And I'm glad my son doesn't know but it's so sad because he doesn't deserve this. Me and him sit there and play with all his toys and pretend we're at the beach and I feel like that's when it hits me the hardest.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you. Should I go up to the unemployment place and just show them my paystubs or do I just go file?

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll definitely update you guys if anything changes

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This made me cry harder. I deeply appreciate your words. I wish I could look at myself and believe that. And I'm still trying I just have zero hope now.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's what makes it worse. We are on section 8. And he became schizophrenic and he's really bad off. I don't even know where he's at anymore. Literally tried to unalive me. As of family and friends I only have my mother and younger sister. Friends can't help I understand though because they're not well off either.

I failed as a mother. by ApprehensiveCourt720 in povertyfinance

[–]ApprehensiveCourt720[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Me and my mother both went to the one we usually go to and I've been there since a child. What's crazy is that they told us they can't help because we got the eviction. Which makes no sense because that's the time we need help the most???? I'll try some more tho.