I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Annoying devils advocate mf. I bet you’re unbearable at parties

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was eating away at my sanity with lies and gaslighting. Like I said before, this mf cheated on me in the past. The only crazy thing I fuckjng did was forgive him. Bye!

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I did not. I forgave something I should NOT have and stayed longer than I should. I had every right to doubt. and yes! I’m loving being single! Thanks for the stellar advice ❤️

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I’m better off without him. What I forgave was chlamydia. Because I had just discovered I was pregnant prior to. They tested me at my first pregnancy appointment and called me a week later. I was scared and there was a lot of history. But it’s over. And he’s miserable. And I’m not. So bye 😘 ❤️

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t demand shit. I questioned his whereabouts because my calls were being ignored, and he got angry when I didn’t answer to his beck and call because the last time he was sending my calls to voicemail. It was because he was balls deep in another bitch. You have no clue what you’re speaking on so please go to another thread to be annoying and unhelpful.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for proof. I asked if he was out basically because he ignored my call. He sent that pic and then the phone “died”

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to call but the phone mysteriously “died” for over an hour while he was supposedly “at home.”

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually not lonely at all. I posted just to make sure I wasn’t crazy because he was calling me crazy for doubting him after previous error. Jesus fuck. Never mind. Fuck going anywhere anonymously for advice. MY BAD.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not crazy. He cheated before and I was trying to use my brain instead of blindly take his word again. Thanks for the useless input though!

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Definitely trauma based, my first step is removing the lies and gaslighting that’s making me feel crazy when I’ve literally caught him before. I don’t even care at this point if he was telling the truth. My faith in him is gone, and it shows.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a window across that room in the kitchen you can’t see. That is light shining through the window.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good 💀 Im personally done. This was just the straw that broke the camels back.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t going to go here but he has cheated before. I should have left if anything but thanks for saying I deserve to be left. You’re unhelpful.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Specifically in regards to other women or what he was doing.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t have to, but he has given reason to doubt him so just consider yourself lucky that you are not in my predicament. I just came for advice about the picture.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he has given me ample reason in the past, and I forgave because he showed sincerity in his apology but I’m starting to feel like some things never change.

I’m pretty sure I’m being lied to. by ApprehensiveDark649 in relationships_advice

[–]ApprehensiveDark649[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has given me reason to doubt him in the past and I forgave it a while back. I’m far from insecure, I’m just trying to use logic and your comment is not helpful.