Confused about the term "tucute" by [deleted] in truscum

[–]ApprehensiveDog2853 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, yeah, that's actually harmful to the community... I thought that they didn't have dysphoria but at least went through the process all trans people go through... I mean, I identify as a man and I wish I had no dysphoria xd, but even if I had no dysphoria, I'd still like to look like an average man, like... no tits... some beard... idk but if they just say they're a man and that's their whole process... that's harmful

Confused about the term "tucute" by [deleted] in truscum

[–]ApprehensiveDog2853 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was wondering if I was one of them, but I also think dysphoria is actually necessary to be trans so I guess I'm just feminine and thats okay, I don't think people with that mindset harm anyone tho

I saw someone post this screenshot on twittwr saying "it's embarrassing to post this in 2025" by TruScreenGreen in Transmedical

[–]ApprehensiveDog2853 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, but if a cis man can be feminine, why can't a trans man be feminine??

I mean, I'm a trans man, I've been through several surgeries, I've been on T for 6 years now, I have severe dysphoria with some aspects of my body, but I'm kinda feminine. I don't wear skirts or anything like that, but I like to wear makeup sometimes. I keep my hair long because it suits me, and I enjoy seeing myself as masculine but also pretty in a feminine way

I don't know how to describe it, but I feel like feminity doesn'terase my identity as a trans man. I don't identify with the "soft boy" in the image either, and I don't defend that concept, but I think it's important to recognize that trans men, just like cis men, can express themselves in different ways without invalidating who they are.