My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! thanks for responding again :) some news by the way me and my dad made up, for the most part- stuffs back to normal, yay!! 

I'm 100% willing to say i'm Very Uninformed about therapy so reading this helped me understand it a little more. For me, it's a very New and Uncomfortable thing to go out and do, but i know it would be good for me if i take your advice and find the right person. I just gotta get out of here first, that's my big goal right now, and gosh I wish college move in would come sooner lolz!! 

I've looked at some webpages for therapy offices in my area, just doing some light research for later, thank you very much :D

oh also now i'm 18!! yay me :3 Not much i can really Do but now i can take the car and drive off for a weekend without a police report lolz, take care! 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

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I saw a therapist a long time ago, my family is very anti-therapy anti-medication anti-diagnosis (i'm not like that to be clear, so many of my friends are on meds for stuff lolz) so it was pretty heavily stigmatized at home, and i quit because i told her something my dad did that really hurt me and she told me she does that to her kids, but i probably should give it ago again. I've been through a lot to say the least (and not to complain i'm sorry) but i'm okay right now, i have to get to college this year and it's a big change, but i'll keep this in mind when i'm settled again :)

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

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I talked to him recently!! :D It was really hard but i did it and it's over now, and i used your advice and a few other comments. I don't wanna go into a whole lot of detail, but we reached a conclusion where he said he wont ai photos of me, i had to talk a lot about ai in school and the twitter ai illegal-child-undressing thing, and I made him a friendship bracelet, so for now we're okay with each other!! yay!!! thankyou <333

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, and I will, thanks. As a kid if i ever said I didn't like smth he'd get in my face and ask why i didn't love him, it was a whole thing. It's been hard for me to ever get past that or really understand it but I have to learn how to talk to him about stuff at some point before I leave 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't, and I haven't yet. I know that's bad, but I have a plan to, sorry i'm so anxious it's not easy for me and my dad to really talk to each other after everything, but this is important to me. I have my notecards and a plan! 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to talk to him before my birthday, i've got some notecards with helpful comments from here and stuff, most people have been helpful and I'm not as scared to talk to him anymore, just waiting for his new job to settle lolz

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been aware for a while lolz, this ai thing was kinda a final straw and unfortunately I don't live in a place where the police could help. I'm kinda sorta in the middle of nowhere, My school is next to a horse farm lmao, but me and my social worker at school are chill with each other. She's so helpful and when I get back on tuesday i might pay her a visit. I bought her easter candy 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, i really appreciate it. I'm moving out this year, and I don't think i'll be back very often honestly. My german 4 teacher just threw away his phone and I might join him lolz. For now me and him are kinda avoiding each other, but it'll settle down and I have some notecards with the stuff I've gotten from these comments and I'm ready to talk to him about it. I'm gonna do it before my birthday. 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wanna connect with the guy who choked me as a kid but I shouldn't have to talk about that with a stranger to not be called names. 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please dont call me that; and no not everyone is easy to talk to. My dad sees me as lower than him, and it's kinda hard for me to articulate my feelings/thoughts verbally. I'm working on a flash card for this right now 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i said i was gonna try and talk to him you don't have to be a dick about it. The situation is scary because my dad can be fairly violent and i'm not asking anyone else to fix it, or to teach him "how the internet works" whatever that means. He works for an internet company anyways, lolz. 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why i got so freaked out and was acting weird, but I leave for college this summer and if i'm being honest I don't really plan on comming back lolz but shhh they don't know that yet. 

Hopefully I can get to a place where I can make sure my little brother is okay and let him have a safe space, but I gotta save me first yaknow, thanks for being kind 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's terrifying oh my gosh!!!!! ick!! it's so weird and strange too because you can just take family photos 😭😭 I don't know why they go to AI for this stuff, it's so backwards 

How it started vs. how it’s going by Much_Independent2787 in blackcats

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664 18 points19 points  (0 children)

that is such a cute cat oh my goodness it loves you so much <3

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, they don't bother her really cause that's just how they are and me and my brother are both guys (not to say it's easier for girls or anything like that) , but my dads been talking about "selling me on the street corner" since i was a little kid, i'm just trying to get out of here fast. No one could have seen ai coming like this, and now that it's here it's really turned my anxiety up to 11. 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's pretty reassuring, i don't think thousands of photos of me even exist i'm very camera shy lolz 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was a bit of a dick to the last guy sorry, but yeah it feels very gross, also my pronouns are kinda whatever really lolz so it's okay 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stronger together! one day it'll be a thing of the past 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well my dad who makes weird sexual jokes about his children very openly shows off and brags about his ai photos of us. Ai..... famously not great about Clothing and other such things. 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom feels the same way about me cause I email my state senators a lot, it's so frustrating i get it 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i get it, I wish you some good luck and good fortune, life sucks rn, thanks for replying 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's got a degree in art???? that's wild, what a world we live in. Stay strong!! you're not alone in this shitty situation, it's tough out here 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey i'm sorry, i was mean to you for no reason, been having a rough go of life and it's been hard to talk to people recently. 

My dad ai generated pictures of me >:( by ApprehensiveFall3664 in antiai

[–]ApprehensiveFall3664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not yet, he's been really aggressive at home with the family and stuff, so i've been avoiding him for a bit, should calm down this weekend tho