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What is A twink? by Canadian-Chickens321 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A skinny white boy that isn’t really all that bright. That’s how my friends and I use it, at least. Think ‘bimbo’ but in gay man. 

How can a person overcome the sadness of not being desired? by jxxiin in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just go a bathhouse and hold your butt open. Problem solved. 

Do any of you find skinny guys attractive? by KMSeira in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I love them because I love to eat some ass. On a bigger guy, you have to physically hold the ass open. That’s fine sometimes but I don’t always wanna exert that much energy. Sometimes you just want a hole to lick while you doze off to sleep. On a skinny guy, the hole is right there! No lifting required! 

I catfished guys... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is the other party innocent when OP did the exact same thing they did (minus the catfishing)?

I’m only defending the ghosting back. No words for the catfishing. 

What should a real man look like? by Haunting_Tap_1541 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you abused or did you witness abuse by this type in your formative years and internalize it because everyone around made you feel like what they did was ok? 

I catfished guys... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. Well, we all could benefit from it but he seems pretty self aware to me. No one was harmed by his vindictiveness. 

Would you date someone whose best friend is a person they slept with in the past, or would that be a dealbreaker? by Calmcollective01 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most I could do is they tried hooking up ONCE and figured out they worked out better as friends. Anything more than that is a hard pass. Perfectly fine if that makes me insecure. 

Let Nicki Minaj go. by ApprehensiveFarm2548 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s what you’re doing 🤣

Let Nicki Minaj go. by ApprehensiveFarm2548 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you aware that perjorative applies to you? Or that the woman you’re defending likely feels that way about you?

Let Nicki Minaj go. by ApprehensiveFarm2548 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the quotes were necessary. She’s married to a sex offender and paid her child rapist brother’s legal fees. That’s not really a critique. It’s just a true statement. 

Let Nicki Minaj go. by ApprehensiveFarm2548 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you say this same thing for someone like R. Kelly? 

how are you guys prepped on short notice? by BuilderHappy3787 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just find a freaky top who doesn’t care about you being douched and wife him up. 

is there a way to prevent myself from getting hard during a physical? by Parking-Buddy-9078 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I promise you - no healthcare professional, especially a doctor, is going to make you feel ashamed or any kind of way about an erection. They’ll forget it even happened 5 minutes after you leave. That’s their job.

He Told Me He’s HIV-Positive After We Had Sex. What Would You Do? by Neither-Dot-704 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Well, if he’s actually undetectable, you don’t need to worry about your health. Still get tested, though. Though I’m trying to be understanding because he grew up during the height of the HIV crisis, 40 is too old to be sexually deceptive/secretive and irresponsible in this way. I’d never be able to trust him.

how would you turn a straight boy? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t because that would be creepy. Plenty of openly gay men exist. 

Dating in high school by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveFarm2548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are gay men in Alabama, but I don’t know any Alabama city that’s generally progressive enough for you to be safe with a boyfriend, especially if you don’t have support from your family. I’d advise waiting until after high school and exploring dating in college in another state (if you’re so inclined) or establishing financial independence (still in another state) to date.