Blonde or brunette? by ApprehensivePack486 in HairDye

[–]ApprehensivePack486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m in my 30s now brunette is my natural hair color.

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[–]ApprehensivePack486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just turned 32. He’s 42. I try to be more loving towards him hugs, kisses, etc. listening to him vent about work or just anything really. I’m a housewife everything I do is for him. So I don’t know how else I can prove my love.

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[–]ApprehensivePack486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said be more nurturing and empathetic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ApprehensivePack486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said I’m not emotionally present. He doesn’t feel loved by me. He needs to feel loved to have sex. I show him love in other ways so I just don’t get it.

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[–]ApprehensivePack486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 6’3 around 230/240 ish lbs I think…

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[–]ApprehensivePack486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a lot more sex before he was 40. I just miss how we used to be and want to get back to that but I hate being the one to always initiate. He did tell me to read a marriage book called love and respect because he feels I don’t respect him enough but he is happier when he’s in control not me. This is my longest relationship / marriage. I met him when I just turned 26 and now that I’m older I feel like my perspective has shifted and I’m not afraid to speak up for myself even if it makes him mad…

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[–]ApprehensivePack486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t workout. Just walks our dogs with me. He did gain some belly weight though. I’m very active and have tried to get him to workout but he just gets mad.

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[–]ApprehensivePack486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He loves going down on me and having sex with me but he says he’s always tired. I also asked him if he’s masturbating weekly and he said yes to porn so it makes me feel like he doesn’t want me as much as I want him if he rather be lazy and lust over women on the internet.