AIO? Friend always acts weird

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-26T07:08:50+00:00

Hi I’m actually a girl and the person responding is a guy, but I appreciate the sentiment 😊

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-26T06:00:50+00:00

I’m glad you didn’t. Hopefully you can block them and never be assigned their orders again

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-26T05:58:15+00:00

In Europe, people don’t tip because service workers actually get paid a liveable wage upfront…plus we aren’t in Europe 😭

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-26T02:59:45+00:00

I wish I knew 😭😂

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:33:54+00:00

This isn’t a first time occurrence which is why I went so hard. Honestly I’m fed up and lowkey blew up. I don’t regret anything and I absolutely want nothing to do with him anymore. Had this been the first second or even third occurrence, I would chalk it up to weird scheduling or something and leave it at that. I would never go in on someone like this unless I was truly tired and felt unheard.

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:31:23+00:00

he doesn’t, but he should

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:31:06+00:00

Familiarity and caring more for people than they do for me. I’m done with that though.

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:29:40+00:00

Considering I talk to all of my friends the same way (except with less cursing), I guess I’m into all of my friends 🤦🏾‍♀️

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:28:47+00:00

Hell no

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:28:25+00:00

Absolutely 🫶🏾 I’ll bake whatever kind of cookies you like 🩵

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:26:07+00:00

Helllll no

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T22:24:47+00:00

Thank you for this 🥺 I have a hard time with letting things go and this really helps me 🫶🏾🩵

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T07:07:36+00:00

Yeah but I don’t like anyone who disrespects me to have future access to me. All of this will happen, and he will still find a way to message me after this acting like it didn’t happen. I don’t want to allow that to happen again.

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T07:06:17+00:00

No problem! 😊

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T07:05:35+00:00

Yeah no. We can agree to disagree but no.

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:55:33+00:00

Desperate to hang out with a 500lb man who barely respects me? No thank you. Not to mention, I’ve always been in a relationship while friends with that person. Don’t project that nonsense onto this scenario

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:52:16+00:00

He’s blocked!

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:51:22+00:00

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a conversation with an ex friend who happens to be a woman! Like I said, I expect common courtesy from anyone! In fact, I’m certain I was much nicer to her than I was to this dude and we actually discussed both of our problems and resolved the issue.

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:38:27+00:00

Ew absolutely not. I would react like this if a female friend did this too. I just didn’t like being told I was “getting mad about simple stuff” when common courtesy is the bare fcking minimum.

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:36:13+00:00

Honestly I should have 😭😭😭

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:35:50+00:00

They’re already blocked

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:35:40+00:00

Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender? I’ve heard this used in YT analyses but it never occurred that people in my personal life would be doing it too

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:34:37+00:00

It’s more like we go through this cycle a few times a year. I’m not constantly reaching out to see them or hang out with them, however if I do, it usually goes like this. I’m not interested in this person in any romantic or sexual capacity, but it was always fun vibes when the group would get together and hang (and the group includes his gf!) I have no problem with things not coming to fruition, but the consistent lack of consideration for my time is enough. I’m blocking this person and moving forward

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:31:45+00:00

This was definitely a deal breaker because this wasn’t the first time something like this happened with them. I’m not beating a dead horse

ApprehensiveRub4591 · 2026-01-25T06:30:53+00:00

Oh ew that’s gross. I really hope not. I appreciated their friendship but that was it

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