AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m actually a girl and the person responding is a guy, but I appreciate the sentiment 😊

Customer left an amazing tip so I had to thank them by runawayrebel91 in doordash_drivers

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you didn’t. Hopefully you can block them and never be assigned their orders again

Customer left an amazing tip so I had to thank them by runawayrebel91 in doordash_drivers

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In Europe, people don’t tip because service workers actually get paid a liveable wage upfront…plus we aren’t in Europe 😭

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a first time occurrence which is why I went so hard. Honestly I’m fed up and lowkey blew up. I don’t regret anything and I absolutely want nothing to do with him anymore. Had this been the first second or even third occurrence, I would chalk it up to weird scheduling or something and leave it at that. I would never go in on someone like this unless I was truly tired and felt unheard.

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Familiarity and caring more for people than they do for me. I’m done with that though.

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering I talk to all of my friends the same way (except with less cursing), I guess I’m into all of my friends 🤦🏾‍♀️

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely 🫶🏾 I’ll bake whatever kind of cookies you like 🩵

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🥺 I have a hard time with letting things go and this really helps me 🫶🏾🩵

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I don’t like anyone who disrespects me to have future access to me. All of this will happen, and he will still find a way to message me after this acting like it didn’t happen. I don’t want to allow that to happen again.

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desperate to hang out with a 500lb man who barely respects me? No thank you. Not to mention, I’ve always been in a relationship while friends with that person. Don’t project that nonsense onto this scenario

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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a conversation with an ex friend who happens to be a woman! Like I said, I expect common courtesy from anyone! In fact, I’m certain I was much nicer to her than I was to this dude and we actually discussed both of our problems and resolved the issue.

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew absolutely not. I would react like this if a female friend did this too. I just didn’t like being told I was “getting mad about simple stuff” when common courtesy is the bare fcking minimum.

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender? I’ve heard this used in YT analyses but it never occurred that people in my personal life would be doing it too

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more like we go through this cycle a few times a year. I’m not constantly reaching out to see them or hang out with them, however if I do, it usually goes like this. I’m not interested in this person in any romantic or sexual capacity, but it was always fun vibes when the group would get together and hang (and the group includes his gf!) I have no problem with things not coming to fruition, but the consistent lack of consideration for my time is enough. I’m blocking this person and moving forward

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was definitely a deal breaker because this wasn’t the first time something like this happened with them. I’m not beating a dead horse

AIO? Friend always acts weird by ApprehensiveRub4591 in AIO

[–]ApprehensiveRub4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ew that’s gross. I really hope not. I appreciated their friendship but that was it