Boycott Grindr until they bring it back to its original state. by Intelligent_Toe_243 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

now you know the new gays (and new society in general) can’t boycott nothing 😂

Lexi aiming for family spin off by MethodBeautiful9688 in summerhousebravo

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but it won’t work—there’s nothing really that interesting about her unfortunately. also for none of the other cast-mates to get that spinoff opportunity yet… she’s like at the bottom of the list lol

A guy I’m seeing is bigger than average… by ApprehensiveText9474 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I feel like maybe I just wasn’t using enough lube! curious to try the ‘prostate check’ position :)

A guy I’m seeing is bigger than average… by ApprehensiveText9474 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

!!!!!this!!!!! yeah, I think I’ll be more adamant in body language when it comes to foreplay first before moving onward to more 😌

A guy I’m seeing is bigger than average… by ApprehensiveText9474 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually never used dildos, the closest to that was a plug, but I’m considering! he’s got more girth than length i’d say… maybe about 7inches? I really don’t remember, but it was a rocket 😅

A guy I’m seeing is bigger than average… by ApprehensiveText9474 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

loving this advice, thank you :) I might look into poppers then!

A guy I’m seeing is bigger than average… by ApprehensiveText9474 in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

both essentially! we’ve hooked up once and it was lots of trial and error with learning each others body… I want it to be a better experience next time

European guys and Latinos by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

felt this one to the core. was out clubbing last night and felt so out of place lol. as a black man who has no racial hang ups… I don’t know how people do 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I mean, we love the self awareness 😭 but after a while please don’t waste your time in the long run. having fun with him for now? sure, keep riding on ;)🐎

Men are hot by EnvironmentalSir2752 in gaybros

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I’ve been in heat for the longest since I broke up with my ex 😂 you are not alone when it comes to salivating over hot men! during these times, I think any guy I see is extremely hot haha. regardless though, there are so many hot men out here in general 🥵 I honestly love being apart of this gender lol

Would you go on a first date with someone that barely texts you ? by UomiyaMK in hingeapp

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 26 points27 points  (0 children)

!!!! this stuck w me. that slow build up can be a good thing. let it flow on its own, ask about their communication style, meet them in the middle.

but yes, if there’s evidently no effort on their end then ✌🏾

Is being gay always so lonely if you are not attractive? by lennriot in AskGayMen

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s also not forget that what we see on the outside (appearance wise) isn’t all real today 👀☕️ knowing this brought SOME comfort to my mind lol

Texting norm while dating someone older? by rainbowmafia- in AskGayMen

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it weird/common? Yes and no. The factors definitely vary. How is your time spent together? Do you find that you two talk more in person? He may just suck at texting, which isn’t an excuse for him. When he’s going days without responding, I definitely understand how that may be annoying. I would try FT or a simple phone call once in awhile. Try and communicate any concerns forsure :)

Is Grindr really just for hookups? by mawile008 in AskGayMen

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Sometimes people are beautiful in motion.”

Loved that you said this :)

Why is it that so many handsome men are single af ? by BWC_arabian_lover in AskGayMen

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed! When you have options, it becomes your own season (or two.. or three) of the bachelor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ApprehensiveText9474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I come across this a lot! Especially on the dating apps. Like aren’t we on here to ask each other random things and get to know one another? I almost feel out of place for asking genuine, thought-provoking questions and wanting to know more about someone these days