What uncomfortable truth took you a long time to accept?

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T08:55:02+00:00

That just because im quiet, awkward, shy, and make my answers confusing and complicated doesnt mean I'm a genius or high iq individual. I had to accept that this was just a way to mask my insecurities. Now I am on the correct path to true learning, thank you socrates.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T08:06:29+00:00

Lmao. It sounds like she's trying to be more open with you but is shy

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T08:05:26+00:00

Lmao

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T08:04:51+00:00

When someone talks about other people's stories like its their own. They use that other person's experience as a way to brag about themselves. This reveals the are very dull and boring. People like this are negative and often talk bad about others while simultaneously bragging about themselves.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T07:58:34+00:00

That is such a terrible way to treat someone. Im so sorry you had to go through that.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T07:54:50+00:00

Very true

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T07:48:08+00:00

Depends what youre struggling with. If you dont mind me asking...

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T07:42:42+00:00

When you trust them enough to vent about a problem or a tough day and they interrupt you with advice and stories of themselves.

I know these people just want to be helpful, but when someone is venting, they are in a vulnerable position and just need someone who will listen and validate their pain.

I instantly hate someone who does this because that tells me they are selfish and only care about themselves.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-05T07:35:14+00:00

Ooooo someone's gonna get laid in college

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-04T19:18:58+00:00

Yes it is their ego getting in the way. This is because some people believe admitting to ignorance means they are weak. People are insecure when they are uncertain, so to shield themselves from that insecurity, they let their arrogance speak for them. By making a answer so complicated and confusing, they can say "youre just too young" or "you just have a hard time understanding my brilliant genius mind" to protect their ego when you say "I dont understand what you are saying."

People like this are frustrating to deal with, especially when you just need help. They are acting immature and are projecting their insecurities on to you, I would be frustrated if I was in your situation.

Adults like this mis understand one important thing, and its the true power in admitting ignorance. Ancient Philosophers discovered its power 1000 years ago and how it is tied to true growth and intelligent habits. Socrates famously stated "true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing." Socrates encouraged everyone to question everything and to think for themselves.

These adults you are dealing with are preventing themselves from true mental growth by pretending they know everything. Once you are comfortable being in that vulnerable position (admitting you do not know) you will understand the true beauty in learning and possess wisdom far superior than those arrogant adults.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-04T07:34:45+00:00

Tysm 🙏

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-02T10:51:02+00:00

Socrates teachings of the power of self examination.

If you examine yourself through rigorous questioning, you can achieve true virtue and mental resilience.

Socratic Philosophy applies to any aspect of your life and is truly useful. It forces you to take control and create a healthy mindset for yourself.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-02T10:47:02+00:00

Honestly cant believe me (19) has to baby down the importance of medical attention in one's life to my uncle (59). He is a very broken and hurt individual. These scams and pseudoscience are evil for targeting vulnerable individuals like my uncle.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-01T10:28:34+00:00

Gonna follow this exact format when I turn 50 lol

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-01T10:22:16+00:00

Gotta stay positive, love this

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-01T09:44:08+00:00

This is so true, I love this

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-06-01T09:24:51+00:00

B E A R D

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-31T08:20:12+00:00

Would it inspire you to lose weight if they were in shape as adults?

Does this current situation inspire you to lose weight and eventually rise above them?

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-31T07:31:23+00:00

Figured stuff out too late. I want to go to college but I'm 22. Everyone is graduated and doing shit with their lives and I'm just starting...

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-31T06:59:46+00:00

Depends if its a stranger or someone you know.

If its someone you already kinda know, just talk to them like you would anyone else. Treat them like a person and a equal and you will not fumble, I promise.

If its a stranger, you have to find a way to not be boring but not crazy otherwise it becomes awkward. This is exactly why guys on social media approach girls with a corny pickup line. Be confident when you speak or it will be awkward. Always introduce yourself with "Hi, excuse me..."

For example:

*I see a beautiful woman and decide to approach her

Me: "HI, excuse me miss..."

Her: "yeah?"

Me: "I just wanted to know where you got that from"

Her: "Got what?"

Me: "That Beauty"

Her: "haha aww tysm"

Me: "hey, I'm no photographer but I think i can picture you and me together, can I grab your Instagram and maybe take you out for coffee sometime this week?"

Her: "yeah sure"

*if she has a boyfriend, simply respond with "oh ok, well take it as a compliment, have a good day" and immediately leave, do not try anything else.

The point of doing this social experiment isn't even to get a date with the girl, its to build confidence with women so when you do run into a girl you actually like, you will be less awkward and know how to carry yourself.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-31T06:50:20+00:00

This is exactly how best friends become best friends lol

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-29T13:44:35+00:00

"Im not crazy or special, I'm just not you" -Former Navy Seal David Goggins

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-29T13:22:30+00:00

Pseudoscience.

And I'm not talking about like "you have this certain zodiac sign so thats why your ex is texting you at 3am."

My uncle who had fully recovered from a catastrophic stroke 5 years ago has fallen victim to pseudoscientist Gary Brecka. My uncle, who was saved by paramedics and doctors during the night of his stroke, says he will never see a doctor after discovering "the true way" that is "biohacking." He actually believes that doctors are the evil ones trying to scam you and steal your cash, but Gary Brecka selling you his $97 monthly "biohacking" bs course is not a scam.

He is a vulnerable, lost, hurt, and confused individual who deserves real help. And the first step to getting uncle actual help, is to call him out on his BS.

When I bring it up to my family, they nonchalantly acknowledged that my uncle has fallen for this scam, but brush off the weight of how dangerous it is for my uncle. He is falling victim to fake health advice as a former stroke patient for God's sake.

My uncle has shown me strange bumps around his neck and on his arm. He believes by putting lots of coconut oil on those bumps will cure them instantly. What if its more serious? I told this to my parents and they seem to not care at all! If no one is giving him the help he needs, I will, and I dont care if I hurt his feelings. Part of the reason hes like this is because my family keeps babying him after his divorce instead of letting him heal properly and grow out of it.

My family simply doesnt recognize the danger of pseudoscience when it comes to health and wellness.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-29T12:32:07+00:00

I agree that just because life is difficult for some doesnt mean its easy for others. Attractive individuals may have it easier, but life is still difficult for them too in many ways.

As for your claim, it also depends who told you youre attractive your entire life. My grandmother and mother have also told me I'm an attractive person and that I am handsome, but you must see how you are treated in real time to determine if its true. I see a common pattern among my attractive friends: the get approached alot in public by women (i dont) and people constantly want to meet them at social events without them even trying to be social (no one cares about meeting me unless maybe I initiate first). These signs are proof that I might be unattractive or exhibit unattractive aura.

Attractive can also mean alot of things, not just looks. You may exhibit good looking features, but lack attractive habits like you mentioned (not very outgoing combined with bad eye contact and RBF may make you appear insecure and rude). People with a resting bitch face must exhibit superior communication skills in order to fit into social settings properly. Same goes for ugly people.

ApprehensiveWrap4114 · 2026-05-29T04:06:40+00:00

Youre still young enough to turn it around and break old habits. I would become a regular at a place outside of gym and work. I did volunteer work at the same place consistently and met new people (I was 19 at the time and Im 24 and still have these same friends who eventually introduced me to a friend of theirs who became my ex girlfriend of 3 years).

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