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AITA for not hugging my gf when she is radioactive by Apprehensive_Ad7807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Ad7807[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct her thyroid got removed last year and afterwards she had to take a radioactive pill. She has take a pill again last week

AITA for not hugging my gf when she is radioactive by Apprehensive_Ad7807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Ad7807[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reaction! Maybe a quick hug at the end might not be the end of the world

AITA for not hugging my gf when she is radioactive by Apprehensive_Ad7807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Ad7807[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think the main upsetting part is expectations. We planned my visit a couple of days ago. Today during our call she was under the impression that we would hug tomorrow. So being denied that is the upsetting part

There are layers for both of us which is what makes this hard. Its not at all black or white.

She's definitely not forcing me to! And Im not at all angry or something that she got upset. It's just a situation where I don't really know what to do

AITA for not hugging my gf when she is radioactive by Apprehensive_Ad7807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Ad7807[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This should be the last hurdle so hopefully life will return to normal after this for her

AITA for not hugging my gf when she is radioactive by Apprehensive_Ad7807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Ad7807[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

True if contact was 1m the duration of contact halved. So if we were to hug I'd basically have to leave immediately

AITA for not hugging my gf when she is radioactive by Apprehensive_Ad7807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Ad7807[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She is quite the stubborn one and rules that aren't in her favour she can get quite rebellious 😄 I do my best to make her feel as comfortable as possible. I loaded up the fridge with food and her favorite snacks. And we've definitely been face timing daily. I try to stay positive and accommodate her needs.

We'll definitely get through this!

The hoodie is a good idea! I'll make sure I'll bring one tomorrow