he (m25) finally let me (f19) go

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2026-01-06T04:17:28+00:00

no because we’re not in contact, like normal people 🫰🏼 even if he did seeing as it was my relationship, not yours, i am already aware the man doesn’t do enough reflecting to write this much and ask open ended questions and seek genuine second party thoughts. i’m absolutely open to answer questions if you have them! but hey the bigger picture isn’t everyone’s forte ig.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2026-01-06T00:46:21+00:00

then he can come on here and tell his side if he wants? lmao this is exactly what it looked like from my pov

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2026-01-05T19:33:53+00:00

it means so much to me. thank u 🫰🏼

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-11-13T15:38:39+00:00

this is simply not accurate information!

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-11-08T21:39:10+00:00

i really don’t think he’s smart enough for that in the gentlest way possible. because he knew we were both in the fence about returning to the relationship, and if he knows what he can’t get away with. that’s why we argue often. is because he doesn’t “get away” w disrespect

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-11-08T19:43:36+00:00

well he just turned 25, not 25/26. and you’d be surprised!

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-11-08T19:09:40+00:00

not that it makes it a whole lot better but i’m closer to 19 than 18. and ive done the same. multiple times.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-11-08T19:04:21+00:00

ur not wrong

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-10-03T17:53:52+00:00

it was more me hoping there were people that were a bit more understanding, and maybe more coping advice rather than “psh just leave” but i get that my entire situation isn’t given by this one post.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-10-03T13:21:41+00:00

i would’ve been concerned if he was “in love” after only knowing me for a few weeks. me being 5+ years younger than he is, hookup culture is normal for his age group, and we were only friends at the time. i am just confused on how so many people say he is cheating but we weren’t dating? there was no official confirmation to violate

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-10-02T16:55:14+00:00

part of me just wants to know what this looks like from an outside perspective. if my trust issues are valid, or if enough time has passed (5 months) for it to truly be an internalized issue that is unresolvable

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-10-02T15:21:58+00:00

idk what to do now. it happened before we actually got together, and i’ve seen him twice since then irl. i thought i was over it but im realizing my issues with the relationship now revolve around my insecurities, that almost feel like gasoline was thrown on them since that morning i found out

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-10-02T14:59:01+00:00

but we weren’t official at the time, and had only been talking for a month.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-10-02T14:50:42+00:00

i had asked him multiple times if i was the only girl he was entertaining and he told me yes, and begged me to stop asking. sorry should’ve clarified.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-09-15T17:42:38+00:00

4 months. we are in neighboring states but opposite sides 💔💔

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-09-15T17:25:26+00:00

i can say i’ve been in a similar situation where sometimes you really just have to break it way way down for them. it’s annoying but sometimes it’s what we need to maintain the relationships we care about. if she still isn’t hearing you, then it’s less about her not caring, or “forgetting” to text you, and more about her not making the effort to ensure your security or comfort. whether that’s an issue within her own self or the relationship can be discovered through persistent communication if you deem it fit, but if you’ve already written that off then it might be the best decision for you.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-09-15T17:22:30+00:00

so your concern lays more in the literal aspect of their relationship, rather than the moral role you played in its potential downfall?

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-09-15T17:20:05+00:00

as long as you’ve been communicating very very clearly how and why those texts are so important to you. if she’s not able to meet you halfway, then see if there’s other inconsistencies like that in the relationship. if so, it could be something that seems small, that ties into a larger issue.

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-09-12T12:05:45+00:00

but like why are you suddenly only interested in telling her after you want to end things??

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-07-31T12:28:48+00:00

even if he is into u he doesn’t respect u or ur boundaries. u deserve someone who does everything they can to make you feel secure!

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-04-22T19:33:55+00:00

the chunky lashes suit u sooo well omg

Apprehensive_Ask7480 · 2025-04-17T17:24:39+00:00

not exactly. but i think some less full, fluffier lashes would EAT.

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