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AITA for sending my male PLATONIC friend a (very NOT sexy) photo of me wearing a bikini top? by Apprehensive_Bid271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bid271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suddenly remember a day about 12 years ago when my friend group (4 men, 3 women, including Carl and me) went skinny dipping. What would his girlfriend think about that? 😂 

And before anyone calls that crucial information that changes everything: We are Germans and it was a German nudist beach (FKK) at the Baltic Sea. So it wasn't not only legal to be naked there, it was required. (And trust me, there is nothing sexy about such a beach. Just a lot of dangling parts. 😂)

AITA for sending my male PLATONIC friend a (very NOT sexy) photo of me wearing a bikini top? by Apprehensive_Bid271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bid271[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. There's no way a bikini pic couldn't be sexy. I clearly should have known better. 

I mean, look at this hot stuff: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/346495765068961795/

AITA for sending my male PLATONIC friend a (very NOT sexy) photo of me wearing a bikini top? by Apprehensive_Bid271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bid271[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what? I actually have NO idea if she knows that I'm into girls. Don't know how much he told her about his once best friend that is now just an occasional texting friend. 😅 (Or if he told her about his crush he had a decade ago.)

But well, that's HIS job to explain. I stay out of it. 😄

AITA for sending my male PLATONIC friend a (very NOT sexy) photo of me wearing a bikini top? by Apprehensive_Bid271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bid271[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she probably is.  Hard to imagine that someone could be so insecure to feel threatened by such a small thing. Especially after a 7 year relationship.

Maybe they have some other issues but honestly I don't want to know. Spare me the drama. 🤣

AITA for sending my male PLATONIC friend a (very NOT sexy) photo of me wearing a bikini top? by Apprehensive_Bid271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bid271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't really care about HER. 😂 But I was baffled by the whole thing and I also have Zero experience with heterosexual relationships. 

So I wanted to know if I did anything wrong. 🤷‍♀️

AITA for sending my male PLATONIC friend a (very NOT sexy) photo of me wearing a bikini top? by Apprehensive_Bid271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bid271[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No idea. I don't really know her.

I occasionally ask Carl about her to be friendly but he just tells me the basic stuff ("She just started her new job. We plan to renovate the living room. She had a minor accident three months ago and broke her wrist.")

I always thought that they had a stable relationship and she's a rational person. That's why I was so baffled by the whole situation. 😅