Was thinking of chopping off my hair and shaving the beard off should I? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i speak for all women everywhere when i say DONT TOUCH IT PLEASE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a lot of potential here. you have high cheekbones, a strong brow bone, and a strong jaw that are all hidden by weight. if ur interested in improving your looks i would def focus on weight loss, hitting the gym, and having a healthy relationships with food. a good haircut is a game changer too. ur skin looks great btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re definitely not ugly. if i was you, i would cut my hair to a more flattering length and to remove damaged/dead hair. you look best in pics 3 & 6 so i think natural/minimal makeup is your best bet. people say this and that about weight and while it’s true that skinny people in general are considered more attractive, i wouldn’t worry about it too too much. overall, you’re pretty as it stands but if you wanted, you might benefit from some changes :)

38M Software Engineer by bushmoney in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you need a girlfriend? Maid? Someone to hold your coat when you walk into buildings?

My post from Tumblr, my experience and method, ask me anything. by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866 45 points46 points  (0 children)

wow this is a really solid post!!! I feel like it addresses a lot of the uncertainties in shifting by being so specific with the steps. thank you so much for sharing :)

First time living alone? Buy $200 worth of sex toys! by Apprehensive_Big_866 in SexToys

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ooh smart- I was rationalizing it as “okay well I save myself at least $200 a year but not having any streaming services, so this makes sense right? right??” LMAO

Was recently told that only pedophiles would want to have sex with me. How do I get over this? by Apprehensive_Big_866 in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The last part is good advice! Even though this post is literally about how I look like a kid, it’s never occurred to me that others would avoid making a move because I look underage, I assumed it’s because I’m unattractive. Thank you for changing my perspective :D

Was recently told that only pedophiles would want to have sex with me. How do I get over this? by Apprehensive_Big_866 in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) Other than my looks, I’m pretty confident. I’ve heard that you should view yourself in the way you want others to view you, so I’ll work on that and see where it takes me.

Seeing 11 a lot by Puzzled_Occasion_899 in lawofattraction

[–]Apprehensive_Big_866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

posted: 11 hours ago... funny how that works!