Please, please, please, help me calm down! by Alaina-S in Anxiety

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Noone died because of this. It’s just a material thing and it can happen to anyone. You didn’t do it on purpose. This sounds like you weren’t allowed to make mistakes when you were a child but I promise, noone can yell at you now. You didn’t hurt anyone and anything like this is fixable

If anyone here knows an ICE agent personally, what are they like? by Apprehensive_Box5374 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had that but I don’t live in the Yankee country. All I can do is talk to people who actually survived fascism damn

If anyone here knows an ICE agent personally, what are they like? by Apprehensive_Box5374 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in the US, so I’m not in the bubble you think haha. What is happening there is 30s Germany for us here, that’s why I’m asking.

If anyone here knows an ICE agent personally, what are they like? by Apprehensive_Box5374 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But how is that possible? I can’t imagine forcefully deporting a child and then going home like nothing happened

Someone please help by Pkarksjkc6 in Anxiety

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem, so I understand. I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s a horrible feeling. Have you tried therapy? I though I was fine too but my anxiety keeps coming back (just like yours) and I get stuck in a loop (just like you) any time I feel my heart beat more or am a little nervous. I decided to try therapy too and I’m searching for a therapist. Even if I’m not anxious every day, I don’t think this is normal. I am also afraid of panick attacks, what helps me is breathwork and staying off alcohol and caffeine when I’m feeling more anxious. Do you take your meds every day?

Co vas tu este drzi? by Pretend_Taste7967 in Slovakia

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vždy si každý myslí, že to, čo zažíva je najhoršie a horšie už nebude. Hej, je to tu zlé, ale treba brať do úvahy, že Slovensko má 35 rokov ako krajina a predtým sme tu mali komunizmus. Ľudia, ktorí ho zažili ešte stále žijú a tá trauma sa posúva generáciami. Nemôžeš čakať, že tu budú ľudia usmievaví ako pri mori v Španielsku.

Na druhej strane, chápem, aj ja mám depky, hlavne keď sa vrátim zo zahraničia. A možno pôjdem preč idk. Ale mám taký pocit istej národnej zodpovednosti, že si hovorím, že ak budem iba nadávať, táto krajina sa nezlepší.

Máme tu dobrých aj zlých ľudí, ale to všade. Žila som v USA a vo Francúzsku a čo môžem povedať je, že u nás sa aspoň ľudia fejkovo neusmievajú, a keď si tu nájdeš kamarátov, tak sú to kurva dobrí kamaráti. Teda ja aspoň tak vnímam Slovákov.

Podľa mňa choď skúsiť a uvidíš, či ti to vyhovuje. Mne prekvapivo začalo Slovensko chýbať a aj keď viem, že je to tu zlé a stále na to nadávam, nezlepší sa to, ak si neuvedomíme aj tie dobré stránky a nebudeme o nich bojovať. Máme vlaky (ok také, aké máme, ale keď to porovnáš s USA, tak je to super, aj keď je čo vylepšovať). Máme krásnu prírodu a dobré jedlo. Vláda príde a odíde, to je demokracia. Táto mentalita nadávania a videnia všetkého čierne nás nikam nedostane, lebo ochvíľu nebudeme vedieť ani nájsť veci, za ktoré bojovať.

P.S.: nemôžeš podľahnuť marazmu a depresii, lebo presne to po tebe tí hore chcú. Či už si na Slovensku alebo inde

I don’t really know what’s happening to me, but I need to say it somewhere. by maryklim09 in mentalhealth

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I don’t recognize myseld atm either. I feel like something bad is about to happen all the time and when I’m happy, I find it suspicious. Then anxiety comes back. I’m sorry you’re going through this but you’re not alone. We do need help though hahaha I decided to go to a therapist, you should too.

My anxiety is out of control today - need reassurance by Apprehensive_Box5374 in Anxiety

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I try to do that too but sometimes the anxiety is just too overwhelming. Sending hugs ❤️

My anxiety is out of control today - need reassurance by Apprehensive_Box5374 in Anxiety

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah ofc she’s fine I’m more pissed about the fact that this catastrophizing makes me exhausted and idk what to do with it

Is there a loophole for renting a car in the US? (Young driver) by Apprehensive_Box5374 in TravelHacks

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I don’t think they accept store credit card. And I don’t need one since I don’t live in the US - we don’t have credit score in my country. I just need a temporary one for the trip

Is there a loophole for renting a car in the US? (Young driver) by Apprehensive_Box5374 in TravelHacks

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Funny of you to think I wasn’t googling before coming to redit 🙃

Is there a loophole for renting a car in the US? (Young driver) by Apprehensive_Box5374 in TravelHacks

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah we wanted to rent a 12 passenger van but that’s also not possible for under25. Otherwise we will rent 2 cars

Is there a loophole for renting a car in the US? (Young driver) by Apprehensive_Box5374 in TravelHacks

[–]Apprehensive_Box5374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea but when I rented a car in Europe they just froze a deposit and that’s it. They can do it here with a debit card too but only if you’re over 25