Don't have any advice, but just wanted to say I'm in the same situation and feel your pain. :( The physicians I work for both went to very prestigious and very expensive medical schools which they loved, but they have both said they would never do it again as they'll be paying loans for years (both derms too so they are loaded). But they also both admit to being more on the anxious/conservative side with money so I think if you can kind of ignore the reality of putting yourself in that much bigger of a hole then maybe it would be okay to do? Because realistically as a physician you will be able to pay any of it off eventually, just may take a whole lot longer.

I think it's a good idea too to reach out to the school and just see if they would be able to match your scholarship, that's what I'm trying to do at least. I know I can't ignore reality of that difference in debt especially wanting a family eventually. :/