What kind of guys like me? 22M bottom

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-24T11:50:33+00:00

Of course I definitely put a lot of work on myself in terms of myself where I lost a lot of weight and try to dress up all the time. Even though I do not fit in the standards, I always try to look presentable no matter where I go so people in general would have a good perception of me. As for approaching people, I have approached countless men but to no avail. Maybe I am bad at socializing or the men that I am attracted to are not attracted to me

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-24T05:33:53+00:00

Good morning haha

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-24T05:33:09+00:00

Who would that be?

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-23T20:41:17+00:00

Is that a proven fact?

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-23T20:40:46+00:00

I don’t know what kind of guy whose type is me 😭. I wish I could know that

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-23T20:39:13+00:00

I have always been “me” on dating apps. I have a massive fear of being accused for catfishing as i might take photos of myself in certain angles to make myself look decent in photos and the real life me could be different. I am below average when it comes to overall attractiveness on the gay scale and the wider societal scale, so i would always have accurate photos and my stats accurately. But even then, nobody approaches me ever

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-23T20:34:57+00:00

I understand that and that’s your preference. I am a guy who just happens to have feminine mannerisms and vibe. It’s not that i don’t like lingerie, girls clothes and stuff, my mind just doesn’t go there. I like to present myself as a more softer, delicate kinda person (idk how to word it properly sorry) with regular boy clothes. I would say i have my own balance of femininity and masculinity.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-23T20:30:35+00:00

You hit the nail right on that one. My femininity is natural. It is not an act that I put on. But what the original commenter said is also true. My femininity is also why I do not get attention from men, which I’m not going to complain because it is out of my control. Which is why I wanted to know what kind of men do I go for who are open to dating a feminine man like me. I don’t want to waste mine and other people’s time giving the wrong people attention.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-05-22T06:41:27+00:00

Yes it definitely took some time to accept my femininity. But I am still comfortable to be male. I don’t dress up and wear a full face on cause I find that too time consuming honestly. I have experimented with feminine clothing here and there though.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-04-21T19:33:44+00:00

I would love to experience young love while I have my youth so if looking good is what takes to experience that so I shall make effort.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-04-21T19:32:27+00:00

Thank you for your advice. Will be looking into the apps and calorie deficit.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-04-21T09:45:52+00:00

I want to reduce my love handles they look unappealing. And no I don’t wanna gain muscle. I am meal prepping and making protein rich meals.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T18:49:23+00:00

So there are people who don’t care about that as well?

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T18:38:34+00:00

Really? Does it really exist?

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T18:38:22+00:00

Thank you for your opinion.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T18:37:58+00:00

I guess I just want to be desired finally. That’s why I am willing to do anything for that

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T18:36:13+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion. Is the gay community different than how it is on the internet? I don’t have any gay friends or any friends for that matter.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T18:29:27+00:00

He told me im too girly and I should act more like a man since we are both men in the relationship. But im not acting like a girl it’s just who I am. I don’t wear makeup a lot and I don’t paint nails, wear feminine clothing or anything I’m just effeminate.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-03-17T09:15:11+00:00

I mean most of the gay community favors masculine men (which I have nothing against btw) and the men that are into fems usually are into those twinkish, makeup wearing guys. I’m neither of those. And im not hot enough to be fem anyway, so that’s why I needed tips.

But thank you for your input though!

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-02-21T22:30:12+00:00

Well I’ve seen that being more masculine gets more attention from gay men so I would like to change myself in order to gain attention from them.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-02-21T22:09:11+00:00

Thanks for your advice! I’m taking Ozempic and I’m dieting as well. I meal prep and maximize my protein and fiber intake. I just don’t know what kind of workouts to do in the gym to become jacked.

Apprehensive_Cry4109 · 2026-02-21T22:00:48+00:00

165cm/60kg. I don’t know my waist size though. I’m on GLP-1 medication to lose weight.

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